Idk if this is anything, but I feel like Ryland Grace would be bad at aftercare?
Not in, like, the physical sense—he’d make sure whoever he’d had sex with was comfortable (if he topped, which is a big if)—but in the emotional sense, he’d be bad. Like, wham, bam, thank you, ma’am—or sir—type of emotional distance. Fuck ’em and leave ’em type of deal.
From the text, and even the movie, we know that, he liked to maintain a level of emotional distance in his relationships. So I can totally see that man climbing out of windows to avoid confrontation, conversation, awkwardness, or awkwardly thanking whoever he’d had sex with while pulling his pants back on three seconds after it ended. No cuddling or talking, just emotionally distancing while physically distancing all the way as fast as he can.
Meanwhile, he’s fallen on his face several times while struggling with his belt saying they should get coffee later, only to never talk to that person again.
Is this anything?

















