Bringing this post back because I wanna talk about it more.
Read an article in the local paper submitted anonymously by a woman who got a DUI two years ago.
My first instinct was to hate her. Because I hate drinking and driving. Viscerally. Anyone who knows me knows how intense I can be about impaired driving of all kinds (drunk, high, tired). Itās not worth it. It gets people killed. I lost a good friend to a drunk driver. Donāt ever. Iāve gotten in fights with people! I have stolen keys!
āDonāt everā was, in fact, the point of her writing it. But not because of the danger posed to others. Because of how much a single DUI had ruined her life for two straight years. This also didnāt garner much sympathy from me, because obviously the REAL reason not to drink and drive is because you could kill someone. What do I care if someone irresponsible is inconvenienced?
Anyway, this woman was pulled over after leaving a bar where she had two beers to drive a few blocks to her friendās place. This didnāt really make me more sympathetic because Iām a hardass when it comes to drinking and driving, but she wasnāt pulled over for any kind of impaired driving. She was driving perfectly. It was clearly the kind of stop that happens late at night when the cops are just fishing. The cop made up something about her stickers being placed wrong or a faulty light, before making her take the normal physical impairment tests (as someone with dyspraxia these scare the shit out of me, but thatās neither here nor there) which she passed just fine. In fact, her driving was perfect, her reactions were perfect. But then came the breathalyzer. And her blood alcohol was just too high.
And the rest of article was her detailing her attempts since to try to get her license back.
The for profit companies she had to take classes from, the for profit companies who make you pay to install the breathalyzer in your car, how if you are able to plead poverty to get aid for that installation you also have to commit to going once a month to a for profit company that will calibrate your discounted breathalyzer and how if you donāt go your car will get remotely bricked and how the pandemic interrupted the hours of these places without notice meaning her car needed to be towed when she missed an appointment after the place was closed when she expected it to be open, how this added to her sentence, how she lost her insurance.
As I read this, I thought, sure, about how much I hate drunk driving. About my knee-jerk, visceral lack of sympathy. And I asked myself:
Does any of this actually make me feel safer?
And it doesnāt. It doesnāt make me feel any safer at all. This woman was writing this article to say āDonāt drink and drive. Not even once. Itās not worth it.ā But what I got from it was, these punitive measures arenāt preventing people from drinking and driving. Theyāre justā¦ giving cops and for-profits fun new ways to mistreat and exploit normal people. People we, people I personally, can feel disinclined to protect because of judgments we have about them.
Meanwhile, people are still going to drink and drive.
And I thought about what would work. What would make me feel safer. And you know what would make me feel safer? If people who hadnāt planned ahead could still get a ride home. Iād much rather someone call the police (or a service thatās one of the many we institute to replace them) and go āI drove here but I donāt think Iām safe to drive homeā and have the reply be āsomeone will be right thereā. Then a pair of public servants show up, one to drive you home and one to drive your car home, and you get home safe.
I would love for traffic safety to be, like, the actual goal of how we manage traffic laws.
But more than that, punitive attempts to control people, blatant disproven behaviorism, doesnāt work. If your political philosophy is about finding the ābadā or āundeservingā and ensuring they struggle, I canāt identify with it. Itās hard to come up with a type of ācommon crimeā that I have more disdain for than drinking and driving, but disapproving of the way this woman has been treated is not the same as justifying her actions. I donāt care! I donāt care if she learns her lesson! I donāt care if I like her! Everything youāre doing to her for a single breathalyzer failure is not keeping the roads safer!
The moment she failed the breathalyzer, you shouldāve just given her a ride. Thatās all I need.
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