I love when he plays with my fat 🤭🥰

More on the only fats

I'll do you one better, I'll show you how jiggly and drunk I am rn 🥴

NO! I don't know which fat lib circles you're in, but you are greatly misinformed! this is not how bodies work. clearly, this person does not want to believe that eating can cause weight gain and is butthurt that fat liberation is beginning to include feedists and/or people who do gain weight because of their diet.

"calories in = calories out" has long been debunked. you're correct that controlling your body size is nearly impossible. but what does it usually mean when we hear the word "controlling" your body? it means shrinking or even maintaining its size. gaining weight is a LOT easier than losing weight because our bodies are programmed for survival. yes, genetics play a part in your set point (the weight at which your body achieves homeostasis), but set points can and do increase. this is why it's so hard to keep weight off. calorie deficit actually DOES lead to weight loss, in fact its the ONLY thing that can lead to weight loss, but that weight loss is almost always temporary. this is the reason that diets fail. your body knows that it is starving, so it slows your metabolism and increases hunger and cravings. most people will regain more weight than they lost because the body increases the set point to a higher weight as insurance in case you starve it again. the fat liberation community knows that this is the reason intentional weight loss is no longer an option for us, but I have never read a study or even heard anyone argue that eating more does not effect your weight. it does. you're clearly referring to the feedism kink community in your ask - do you sincerely believe that gainers who are drinking heavy cream, eating upwards of 6,000 calories a day are not putting on weight? I've seen gainers & feedees blow up before my very eyes, babe! weight gain is ultimately way easier for the body than weight loss. we gain weight if we diet, we gain weight if we eat more than usual. we gain weight for numerous reasons. and that's okay.