Renard

good morning to these talented husbands who are both called david and wear the same outfits and to them ONLY

“thirty years + and counting”

Autochoris + Christmas Aesthetic

What you can do, is say “follow me on tumblr” and promote your ko-fi on your tumblr. But I’ve seen people do the link to their ko-fi/patreon without explicitly mentioning them and still losing their accounts or getting hit by warnings cause someone reported them. (The one person I knew who outright lost their account just kept doing it repeatedly despite multiple warnings, like a doofus, so that was on them.)

Link Directly to:

Kofi

Patreon

Amazon

Your private book site where you sell your writing

Any other fundraising site such as gofundme etc

If you link and are reported your work is in danger of being deleted, but you will be given a warning and time to fix any issues.

You also cannot mention that a work was directly commissioned with $$, hide the rest of your work/novel/chapter/ or in any way paywall the remainder of your work. Things like “support my writing here!!” are usually no go.

General phrasings like trade, requested, asked for, etc are OK.

Joy is correct in saying linking to your tumblr which advertises your kofi or fundraiser is ok.

If you are reported, the AO3 team will do their best to let you know EXACTLY what works and what phrasing is not allowed. They do issue a blanket “responsible for the rest of your works” statement so be thorough.

Here’s the exact e-mail I’ve gotten.

masculinity is not inherently toxic. it hasn’t been poisoned or corrupted. it is a neutral concept, a kind of gender presentation, and it doesn’t make you a bad, unhealthy, or toxic person to be masculine.

Like when white women fake cry to win arguments, or to appear to be the victim (despite how much damage they may have caused), or when female abusers point to their femininity as a reason they couldn’t possibly be hurting anyone. Or when the girls in school weaponize their performances of femininity against more androgynous, less traditionally attractive, or more masculine girls.

Plenty of cis women have a similarly toxic relationship to femininity as cis men do to masculinity. A good example of a less material expression might be the tendency to self-martyr, using the “caregiver” role to guilt trip and gaslight, and abuse in a more manipulative, emotional/mental way than the physical aggression more typical with toxic masculinity.

just as toxic femininity centers around self-negation in the form of caregiver-and-sexual-object, toxic masculinity centers around self-negation in the form of beast-of-burden-and-sexual-aggressor. just as women destroy themselves by neglecting their own needs to service others, men destroy themselves by being unable to accept help or input, unable to express emotion, unable to form healthy relationships.

men and women are more similar than they are different. but neither incels nor terfs can accept this notion, and they similarly don’t understand how men and women can peacefully, constructively, and cooperatively share a common cause. so not only can they not work together, they can’t even live together.

My Friend Has An Unlikely Name

I Got My Ass Kicked This One Time And It Was Awesome

All Cops Are Bastards

This Really Fucked Up Thing Happened; There Is No Moral

Boy, I Love Food

Capitalism Gave Me Depression

Real Men Go Down On Their Girlfriends (An Especially Thinly Veiled Metaphor)

The Devil Is A Really Weird Guy

I Am Literally Having a Dissociative Episode Right Now

dog petting

interior design

patricide

fishing