Anyway, I've seen some rancid takes about this topic recently so here's a reminder that the homeschooler that's socially isolated and basically in a cult and was never taught science because Jesus said no is so rare that it's functionally a myth to make people against the idea of homeschooling in theory
And over the course of this post blowing up, I've seen the take that homeschooling is inherently abusive, which infuriates me straight up because it would follow that parents making any decision for their child is inherently abusive.
Look man I know a good few homeschoolers personally and… “the Bible says earth is 6000 years old and humans and dinosaurs cooexisted before the flood” is a real thing I’ve heard them say with their whole chest. I’m not shy about discussing periods and other Girl Stuff with my female friends and one of them had to quietly pull me aside once to ask me what your period actually Is, biologically. Like the connection between ovulation and menstruation was never explained to her. We’re in our mid 20’s. One of her parents is a doctor.
There's nothing wrong with believing the biblical account of creation (although nowhere does the Bible mention the age of the earth, much less that's it's specifically 6000 years old) but those aren't problems specifically with homeschooling. I was homeschooled and so were several of the people I knew growing up and none of us were ever confused about what a period was.
I mean I've come across people who finished public school who didn't know how to read or write. You will find people who didn't get a good education no matter where you look but people tend to single out the homeschooled ones to try and make it look like homeschooling is bad across the board. The homeschoolers you personally know aren't representative of most homeschoolers. We have stats that show that homeschoolers typically surpass their public schooled peers in academics so personal anecdotes don't really mean much.
And there comes a time, whether you're homeschooled or public schooled, that you're responsible for your own education and by the time you're in your 20's your education is on you.
Your argument was that this case is rare to the point of being practically unheard of. I’m telling you that I personally know multiple people who fit the description to a T, who have never had an actual conversation with people outside of their religion (a marking of a cult), and disbelieve in science to a dangerous degree (believing in chiropractors in general, and relying on natural/spiritual healing over going to a doctor for a genuinely infected wound). When someone will disregard what is presented to them in front of their eyes because one interpretation of the Bible disagrees with what they can learn through natural revelation, that’s dangerous. When they don’t know how to defend their beliefs or interact with someone who believes otherwise, that’s dangerous.
Actually, the argument was that it's "so rare that it's functionally a myth to make people against the idea of homeschooling in theory" which seems to have worked on you.
I understand what you're saying and that you claim to have met people who fit that description to a T, but based on what you deem to be "disbelieving in science" I'm pretty skeptical of your claims.
I grew up homeschooled and knew a ton of homeschoolers. I think it's safe to say more than you and I never met a single one that fit that description to a T so you saying "debunked because I met a few I think don't believe in science because they don't believe evolution" doesn't actually debunk the argument when the homeschoolers you personally know are less than 1% of the homeschoolers that exist.
I agree that it's not good to not be able to defend beliefs or interact with someone who believes otherwise but come on. It's pretty pretentious and ridiculous to think that is a homeschool problem. Like kids coming out of public school suck at that just as much if not more than anyone else so whatever deficiencies you are blaming on homeschooling don't get better in public school. I mean you seem to be pretty unreceptive and judgmental about people because they don't accept some of the things that you've accepted and think are indisputable facts.
The post was not saying there are no homeschoolers like that in existence but it was saying the number of homeschoolers that are like that is so rare it's not a relevant argument against homeschooling because it's not homeschooling that's the problem there. If it was, essentially every homeschooler would be like that but that's not the case.
And if the few homeschoolers you know are evidence against homeschooling than the few public schoolers I know who are socially and academically deficient should prove public school is just as much of a problem, right?
It's just kind of annoying because you can see 1,000 well adjusted and well educated homeschoolers but then someone goes "well I know one that's wack because they believe in the biblical account of creation and I'm pretty sure they've never had a conversation with anyone outside their religion" and think they've made a case against homeschooling. And sorry but I just don't believe you when you say they've never had a conversation with people outside their religion. There's really no way you could know that and it just seems like you're making those judgments based on your own personal biases.
Can you demonstrate this is a reality of homeschooling without using the homeschoolers you personally know and thus meaning I just to have to trust your judgment on them (which I really don't honestly)?
I was raised in the California public school system and believe the Book of Genesis describes a "beginner's text" for scientific description of the beginning of the universe through to evolution - with exactly TWO steps which are out-of-order as compared to scientific knowledge.
Incidentally, my parents were not allowed to raise me. I was placed, by the California courts, into the State-funded group-home system, where half the parents were religious nutters and the other half were either hippies who believed in psychic phenomena or check-cashers who didn't care what we did or thought so long as we were there for breakfast and dinner.
So you can blame the State of California for MY upbringing.



























