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i much prefer having someone embody my 7th house or have planets in my 7th house rather than my 1st house, because i feel like the 7th house person compliments me more and has characteristics i actually want and am actively seeking out for, verses someone with a bunch of planets in my 1st house feels too much like me and i’m not seeking myself in a relationship, i’m seeking my other half.

the difference between a saturn conjunction vs a saturn square in synastry is so stark to me. saturn conjunct a planet is definitely way more positive than the square obviously but i was surprised at how positive, at least for me. i was the saturn in all of these, i had the saturn-sun square with this guy and i thought of him as such a manchild and i couldn't stand it and would have to hold myself back from criticizing him too much, but with this new guy i have saturn-sun conjunct with and he's like my ideal level of maturity, i genuinely have no issue with his sense of maturity at all like i did with this previous guy. i also have saturn conj mercury with this guy and i also value his intelligence so much, vs the other guy where i also had saturn-merc but in a square again, and i do think i unknowingly made him feel dumb even though he's academically pretty smart himself. trippy noticing the difference because i thought the conjunction would have some negatives, but i haven't found much, it's almost like the planet person is the saturn persons ideal level of maturity in whatever planet is conjuncting it.

Her birth chart rating is B so it's not certain, but as someone with major Ashwini placements, I usually feel like I can clock Ashwini energy pretty well, I know she has Ashwini Venus & Saturn in her 1st house, so maybe that's what I am picking up on? Well, if her actual birth time comes out and she turns out to be Ashwini ASC instead of Bharani, I wouldn't be shocked but let me know what you think about this! This is just a theory.

What's funny is I was able to clock her Shatabhisha Moon too, as I have Shatabhisha Sun! Very neat.

Maybe I'll do a part two showcasing the rest of the characters and their nakshatras!