#synastry chart

Note: These are all my personal observations and patterns I've noticed over the years. Take what resonates with you more and leave the rest. Lemme know in the comments if it hits home!

Their Venus in ur 1st - They want to "have" you before they know your name and also memorize your face like it's art. You walk around triggering their romantic fantasies without trying. Their taste shifts toward you like you're the new standard of hot, even if you don’t fit their “type.” They might stare at you for too long and pretend they didn't when you look at them. They might become desperate to "earn" your attention. You spark their inner romantic and inner pervert at the exact same time. They def would get jealous if you smile at others' jokes or give attention. In a relationship, they would go out of their way to let everyone know you're theirs. Can expect royalty treatment from them. If it’s one-sided, it feels like you’re being adored from a distance while they project a fantasy you never agreed to, or the other way around. After a breakup, their fixation can twist. Love turns bitter, and they might mock you for what they once worshipped.

Their Venus in ur 2nd - They def wanna know your fav food and anything fav of yours. You trigger their desire to invest their time and effort into you. Touch is currency now and you’re holding all the wealth. You trigger their inner sugar daddy, even if they’re broke. They want to feed you, spoil you, and then bite your shoulder a little. Your scent is burned into their memory. You make them want to show up, show out, and show off. They think about what your body would feel like under their hands. A lot. They like watching you do normal stuff like drink coffee, take your shoes off, comb your hair, exist. They prefer to be half-naked with you and prefer the same in return. If you’re not into it, they’ll still linger, hoping you’ll eventually “get it.” Breakups hit them in the wallet and the soul. They feel like they lost an investment.

Their Venus in ur 3rd - You start catching feelings after the fifth “lol” they send. Their voice does things to you that it shouldn’t. They text you just to hear your thoughts, not just your plans. You suddenly care what they think of your taste in music, food, etc. You talk for hours and somehow never get bored with them. They complement you in ways that make your brain short-circuit. You catch yourself laughing and blushing at the same time. They like the way you talk, even when you’re angry or crying. You become their favorite person to overshare with. It’s the “did you get home safe?” texts followed by a thirst trap. If it's one-sided, they leave you on read or ghost straight up. After a breakup, you’ll miss the way they spoke to you more than anything else.

Their Venus in ur 4th - They show up soft, comforting, then start touching your heart and your thighs. They want to know what breaks you and what blankets you. You suddenly feel like telling them secrets you haven’t even told your therapist or people close to you. Their affection feels like a warm bath, until you realize you’re drowning a little. They might like to talk or make out with you under dim lights. They’ll cook for you, then pull you onto their lap while it simmers. You start imagining a future with them in your house and hate how natural it feels. They def will like your bare face and messy hair. You start missing them before they leave for work. You feel like they see the version of you, you never know you had. Every time they touch you, it feels like they’re writing a love letter on your skin. On the flip side, they act cozy until things get too real, then vanish into emotional fog. You’ll start feeling like home to them, but they’ll treat you like a layover.

Their Venus in ur 5th - They make you feel hot and beautiful. They flirt like it’s a sport and you’re the trophy they plan to snatch. You catch yourself smiling when they walk in, even when you’re annoyed. They want you want them so bad. They gas you up and push your buttons like it’s foreplay. They would def complement you and praise you. You start craving their attention like sugar, then crash when they withhold it. Jealousy creeps in fast in some cases and suddenly you don’t like them laughing with anyone else. You light each other up, but it’s hard to tell if it’s love or just a spark fire. They might chase hard, then disappear when you stop clapping for them. If it's one-sided, you might feel like a background character in their love show.

Their Venus in ur 6th - You find them sexy when they’re focused, sweaty, or quietly solving everyday problems. They want you on your grind but also in their bed by 9PM, every night, no exceptions. They notice your health, your habits, your little flaws and want to be the one who helps fix them. Their affection is practical...until it turns filthy behind closed doors. They would take out the trash for you, run errands or pay bills. They want to earn your love with consistency and lowkey obsession. It’s not “I love you” every day but it’s “Did you eat?” “Text me when you’re home.” “I got you.” They might give and give, hoping you’ll notice and resent when you don’t reciprocate. They can micro-manage your day and tell you where to go and what to do or wear. They can become possessive over your time, space, and energy, quietly controlling. The relationship might feel more like an obligation than romance after a while. When it ends, you either miss them or feel relieved it's over, and thank god.

Their Venus in ur 7th - You look at them and think “yep, I could be seen in public with that.” You start fantasizing about joint accounts and matching rings after the third date. They trigger your romantic side, even if you thought it was dead. They fit your type in ways you didn’t even realize you had. Eye contact with them feels like vows you didn’t agree to yet. You might mirror each other’s moods, words, and even bad habits without noticing. Being with them makes you want to become a better person. The connection feels like it should be permanent, even when it’s fragile as hell. There’s a calm in their presence, until silence stretches too long and hits like a bruise. On the flip side, they might reflect what you want to see without ever really giving it. The silence between you starts to feel louder than any breakup. You’ll wait for a text that doesn’t come, because they know how to disappear quietly. Losing them feels like losing a version of yourself you almost believed in.

Their Venus in ur 8th - Fantasy overload! You want to know everything about them. Their touch feels like it unlocks a door you didn’t know you locked. You think about them in the shower, during arguments, when eating, mid-orgasm like nonstop. Jealousy or longing hits early and hard, even if you're not "together." Sex feels less like pleasure and more like a psychic ritual. You crave their secrets as much as you crave their skin. They know what turns you on and off and keep their finger right on the switch. You start to obsess over how much they know about you, how deep they’ve gotten, what they’ll do with it. They seduce you by showing you your own darkness and making it feel like love. On the flip side, you might get hooked while they keep it surface, leaving you craving a depth they never planned to give. One day, you feel seen, then invisible to them. If it ends, it can be violent or crazy.

Their Venus in ur 9th - They make your brain tingle and your pants/skirts tight/wet in the same sentence. Long talks turn into long stares, then long nights. It’s hot until they start drifting like a tourist who never unpacks. They light you up in ways that make you question what you thought love was. They make you feel like anything is possible and also that nothing is guaranteed. You crave their mind like a drug and keep going back for another hit. You don’t know if it’s love, lust, or a crash course in letting go but it’s a ride. If it ends, you realize too late that they came to teach you something, not to stay for the final chapter.

Their Venus in ur 10th - You wanna have their last name. They make you want to succeed and strip, often at the same time. You start imagining what you’d look like as their power couple aesthetic. You want them to respect you and ruin you in equal measure. You feel like the world notices when they look at you. Their attention makes you stand taller, talk smoother, and act like someone worth owning. They love seeing you in control, but they want to undo it slowly. They want to be seen with you, not just close, but claimed. They might put you on a pedestal and might believe everything you say. Can be a simp at times. If it's one-sided, you’ll feel like an accessory they show off but never truly hold. They might withhold affection if they feel it threatens their control or pride.

Their Venus in ur 11th - Their flirting is masked as inside jokes that go way too far. You start dressing hotter “by accident” when you know they’ll be around. Every group hang feels like a secret date only you two are in on. You feel freer with them than with anyone else, and somehow that’s what traps you. They make you feel known in that scary-good way....then ghost you for a week. They hype you up publicly and text you “you looked hot today” privately. You go from memes to sexts to emotional heart dumps in one night, lol. They show up like a best friend, but stay like an unresolved crush. Even if you’re not even together and one or both of you are already imagining a situationship playlist. On the flip side, they might give you mixed signals. You’ll be stuck between friendship and thirst with no map out. They might use connection to stay close, while keeping you at arm’s length. Emotional honesty gets dodged with sarcasm, distractions, or disappearing acts.

Their Venus in ur 12th - They feel familiar before you even know their last name, like déjà vu. Their presence lingers like perfume on skin hours after they leave. You can’t stop thinking about them, even when nothing has technically happened. You crave them in silence, and it somehow feels louder than screaming. Every interaction feels spiritually charged and low-key forbidden. Sex with them (or even imagining it) feels like a prayer you’re not sure you should say. They feel like the answer to a question you didn’t know your body was asking. Loving them feels like surrender, that's sweet, scary, and somehow sacred. If one-sided, you might obsess in silence while they sleep peacefully, unaware. This love can feel like waiting for something that never lands.

Some patterns I've noticed over the yrs:

Venus in 1st/5th/7th/9th/10th/11th/12th -> You love their mind, looks, presence, or life philosophy from afar. “We’d totally fall in love if we met…” Can have celeb-crush energy. Deep emotional obsession with someone who has no idea the other exists.

Venus in 3rd/5th/7th/8th/11th -> Can be one-sided. Friends with benefits situations, a hookup, one-night stand situations, short-term affairs, one person doing all the effort, to keep a score, etc can be seen here. Can be toxic too.

Quick Synastry Reality Check 💋

Synastry is about energy exchange between two people who actually know each other. That means: 🖤 You’ve met. 🖤 You’ve talked. 🖤 There’s been some kind of interaction or mutual vibe, even a little spark.

If you’ve never met them, never spoken, or it’s a one-way obsession (like a celebrity, athlete, Youtuber or influencer)…that’s not synastry, that’s projection.

No, that famous player or that YouTuber is not secretly in love with you because their Venus falls in your 8th or 5th house. Yes, synastry can feel intense, but it needs both people to be involved in some real way for it to work.

It’s energy. It’s chemistry. It’s connection. Not a crush on someone who doesn’t know you exist. I'm saying this here bcoz I got a few people in my DMs asking me, and I wanted to address it. Thank you for reading!

Credit @astroismypassion

Aries Moon or Aries over the 4th house natives, Cancer Mars loves being told what to do by their partners. They as well like to tell their partner what to do. They are into the whole idea of only my partner can boss me around. And they also enjoy having power over their partner. Often I see too, it's because they lack purpose, so having a partner always be there for them and telling them what to do actually works. The same goes for Aries Venus. They feel lost without a partner, because partnerships (Venus) are a bit part of their identity (Aries).

Scorpio Jupiter, Jupiter in the 8th house, Jupiter at a Scorpio degree (8, 20) usually end up competing with their spouse. They are intimidated by their success and end up wanting to outperform them (example Victoria Beckham (Jupiter at 8 (Scorpio) degree). This create a lot of power plays with spouse.

Aries Moons love going for younger partners. But usually they have older partners when young and later on they end up with a younger partner. I think it's also underrated how obsessed with control Aries Moon really is.

People with Libra Chiron, Chiron in the 7th house or Chiron at a Libra degree (7, 19) have features that are considered both, feminine and masculine. They express themselves through fashion and art. They come across as very authentic, much like a celebrity that isn't media trained. Like ASAP Rocky, Zendaya, Timothee Chalamet. They have great balance of energies, being both polite, charming and aggressive and assertive. They embrace both sides.

Virgo Marses are soo into working out with their partners.

Cancer Mars, Mars in the 4th house, Aries Moon, Aries over the 4th house are the biggest advocates for women. And usually they were trendsetters in a way or had pioneering ideas in connection to women or women's rights. Some women who are powerhouses have it, like Dolly Parton, Rihanna, Eva Longoria etc.

I would argue that you might not always see 2nd house sign as attractive. It's often quite the contrary, because it's opposite 8th house.

You might have the biggest lessons with the sign of your birth number. Either the best experiences or the worst and you don't like each other. For people born on the 17th it's Leo and Scorpio Sun, for 4th it's Cancer Sun, for 7th is Libra Sun, for 22nd is Capricorn Sun etc.

Too many Cancer Jupiters stay together with their long-term partner or partner that they started dating in teenage years, their 20s for way too long. It's very hard for them to let go. A great example would be actor Liam Hemsworth, who was on and off with Miley Cyrus for years after they both met young.

Libra Jupiter or Jupiter in the 7th house usually has an age gap in their first marriage.

North Node sign can also feel karmic, much like your Saturn sign. You feel like they were meant to teach you a lesson. Or like they were a huge part of your development and purpose in life.

A lot of people who went viral, but were also later on disliked have Aquarius Chiron, Chiron in the 11th house or Chiron at an Aquarius degree (11, 23).

Jupiter in the 1st house or Aries Jupiter or Jupiter at an Aries degree (1, 13, 25) are either marrying young or never marry. This is the Jupiter sign that is either this or that, no inbetween with them.

Virgo Venus, Gemini Venus are very hard to please individuals. They are rarely fully content in a partnership, because they are changing, improving on a daily basis or every 2-3 days, so they expect from their partner the same. Or want the partner to keep up.

If you have the same sign over 8th AND 9th house, you may be on and off with them in a relationship, but then end up marrying them to save the connection.

In a couple with Mars in the 12th house Synastry, Mars person usually starts all the fights.

When you have in Synastry someone's Aries Moon conjunct the other's Aries Venus, you might experience issues with your partner's family, there could be conflict or tension.

With Mars in the 1st house Synastry overlay, you Mars person makes the 1st house hotter, like they appear more attractive to others. Which can result in people coming between you two.

When you have Saturn in the 8th house Synastry, you will encounter problems with the parents.

With Mars in the 9th house overlay Synastry, you both don't come from the same backgrounds, so there is "you have to do things MY way, how I was taught". While with Venus in the 9th house Synastry, you come from different, yet similar background and are open to learn about the other's background.

If you have Saturn in the 6th house Synastry, Saturn person will restrict the 6th house person a lot. There will be issues with time, availability, probably distance between each other's homes. 6th house person might also not have time for other people, like only for Saturn person.

With Moon in the 6th house Synastry, you may get gifted a puppy or a pet.

With Mars in the 12th house Synastry, you may avoid each other a lot, even for years. I think in this case is Mars person more so avoiding contact with 12th house person.

But with 12th house Mars Synastry it really goes so much deeper. Usually 12th house person witholds intimacy. They can also not find Mars person attractive, so they don't want to take care of Mars person's needs. 12th house thinks Mars person is always going to be there for them. They also need to give up something in order to be with Mars person, like give up their country religion, parents, home, job.

Check these asteroids :

Eros ( 433 )

Kama ( 1387 )

Lust ( 4386 )

IN GROOM PERSONA CHART.

Here i will talk about these asteroids in houses ( in general )

“Keep in mind that the aspects and the ruler and the whole chart matters! Also when u read the aspects check the aspects in which houses, don’t read the aspects alone without houses!

Eros / kama / lust in 1st house in groom persona chart :

-his whole personality really sexual, the 1st house in groom persona chart talks about your husband personality and his soul, they literally will be lustful and sexual all the time, they love biting, marking the body and face fantasies, pinning against the wall, hair pulling, grabbing, rubbing their d!ck on ur face, makeup s*x.

Eros / kama / lust in 2nd house in groom persona chart :

-they feel s*x is their safety AND THEY VALUE S*X A LOT … don’t ever belittle sexual things to them, they really value s*ex i’m not joking.. they might into cuddling s*x, slow s*x possessiveness “your mine” energy. They will care about you feeling safe during bed, deepthr*at, putting foods like fruits or chocolates in ur body then eating it, sniff!ng fet!sh.

Eros / kama / lust in 3rd house in groom persona chart :

-they will always think about s*x, who are we without our thoughts? 3rd house represent thoughts and when these asteroids in 3rd house they will always think about it, also.. the 3rd house is the 8th house of 8th house.. means its the higher level of 8th house… they might be so sexual i’m not joking, the thoughts and mindset is everything. They might into sapiosexuality, they might get turn on before even touching, watching u being in ur room jerk!ng off and they watch you, joking during bed, dirty talks.

Eros / kama / lust in 4th house in groom persona chart :

-the deepest house .. deeper more than 8th and 12th house.

They will always crave emotional seduction, safety and comforting, they always crave s*x and safety since the 4th house represent what we feel comfortable with and what we need deeply, this is the deepest thing to me. They might into caretaking k!nks, nurturing fantasies, treating you like you’re a fragile during s*x, protecting and possessiveness fantasies, cuddling before and after s£x, cuddling s*x, s*x on the table and in the kitchen, “i always feel safe with u energy”. “I always need my d!ck inside you all the time” energy.

Eros / kama / lust in 5th house in groom persona chart :

-They might see s*x as their “happiness”. Devouring k!nks, they get aroused when they see you applying makeup, dancing before s*x and seducing them, treating you like a queen and treating him like a king, playing before having s*x, “tell me how much you need me, tell me how much you want my d!ck inside you” energy. Filming and recording each other during s*x and then jerk!ng off to it. Nightclub s*x, partying fantasies.

Eros / kama / lust in 6th house in groom persona chart :

-they see s*x as a routine, they should have it daily. Role-play of nurse/doctor/therapist and also uniforms fantasies. Sweating k!nks, gym s*x, they will really care if you feel comfortable after s*x or not. Since 6th house represent “serving” so they will focus on serving and pleasuring you during bed. They might into the injuries fantasy, like you got injuries and they nurse you. They might into “deflowering fantasies” like taking your virgin!ty. Acting innocent turn on for them.

Eros / kama / lust in 7th house in groom persona chart :

-they might into makeup s*x a lot, lace bra and lace lingeries. Praising your beauty and praising them. B00ty such a big turn on for them. Putting ur nails on their back during bed, s*x in fitting room, spanking the a$$, argument s*x, being possessive over you of how attractive you are, events s*x, seducing and dancing before having s*x, they might into the fantasy that after finishing s*x they look at you and say “how do i have s*x with this pretty girl?” They love being shocked of how attractive you are.

Eros / kama / lust in 8th house in groom persona chart :

-tying up, bd*s*m, blindfold, deep s*x, painful s*x, forbidden desires, possessiveness, ch0king, tab00 fantasies. Lmao they might into everything… here is a lot of sexual activities they will have.

Eros / kama / lust in 9th house house in groom persona chart :

-9th house represent expanding, so when these asteroids in 9th house, it might be prominent in their personality and their life, they can’t stop like they always need and need and need it’s the house of expanding, they also know A lot about s*x education, they know how to pleasure you etc etc since the 9th house represent education and learning!

Eros / kama / lust in 10th house in groom persona chart :

-a lot of role-play here, breed!ng and punishment fantasies, boss fantasies, s*x after work, s*x during work, s*x before work, s*x after hard day, s*x in public places, teasing them during they work.

Eros / kama / lust in 11th house house in groom persona chart :

-friends with benef!ts fantasies, friends to lovers fantasies, they might into threes0me or really weird fantasies, watching movies and then f*ck each other, sucking their d!ck while they play computer, teasing them while they play computer, Playing video games and the one who lose will get f*cked hard. Filming fantasies.

Eros / kama / lust in 12th house in groom persona chart :

{Key asteroids -Nemesis (128), Karma (3811), Anteros (1943), Persephone (399)}

‎💗᪲᪲᪲Pluto conjunct the South Node in synastry creates a painful sense of unfinished business. No matter how often you say goodbye the universe seems to arrange "accidental" meetings until the karmic debt is settled.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ When Pluto impacts Venus the Venus person may try to leave for their peace but the memory of the intensity from the Pluto person pulls them back.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Pluto in the 8th House overlays makes it hard to break away completely. The connection changes you.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Nemesis (128) affecting the Ascendant or Descendant creates a cycle where one or both partners consider the other their greatest weakness.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Scorpio placements in the other’s 4th or 12th House create a psychic bond. You could be far apart but you'll sense when they want you back.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Saturn conjunct the Descendant means endings are rarely final. The relationship feels like a heavy life lesson. You return because the story doesn’t feel complete.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Karma (3811) closely conjunct the Sun or Moon means the relationship has a set pattern it has to follow. You will separate and reunite multiple times until you learn the lessons about ego and emotional growth.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Saturn in the 12th House overlay brings a strong sense of guilt when separated. One partner feels a heavy, unspoken duty toward the other. its like they are back to fix what’s broken.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Saturn impacting Asteroid Anteros (1943) means one person initially runs away but later returns realizing the importance of what they have lost.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ When Person A’s Saturn squares Person B’s Venus the timing is never right. They break up due to circumstances but the ongoing tension brings them back together when the pressure builds.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Neptune in the 1st House overlay makes the partner an illusion that’s hard to shake. You return to them because life feels dull and colorless without their dreamlike presence.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Persephone (399) aspecting Pluto mirrors the myth of being drawn back to the underworld. Even if you escape to the surface (a normal, healthy life) a dark pull brings you back to this person.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Moon in the 12th House overlays mean you literally dream about each other when apart.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Mars impacting Asteroid Lilith (1181) sparks a raw, intense obsession. The separation isn’t peaceful.It’s a chaotic withdrawal from a toxic bond.

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‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Neptune conjunct the IC means this person feels like a home you can never leave behind even if that home is an illusion.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Vertex conjunct the Descendant results in a fated, surprising reunion just when both partners think they have finally moved on.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ South Node conjunct the Moon creates an instant, comfortable trap. You return because being with them feels like slipping back into an old, familiar routine that doesn’t require effort.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Eros (433) conjunct the Vertex means the physical attraction to this person is so unique that no one else can replicate it.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Ascendant-Descendant lines flipped create a mirroring effect. You can run far away but every new person you meet will remind you of them.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Chiron conjunct the Anti-Vertex suggests that running away causes more psychological pain than staying and confronting issues.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Mercury retrograde in the composite chart ensures that communication breakdowns are chaotic. You will block and unblock each other and then send the "I miss you" text months later.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Echo (60) affecting the other's Mercury means one partner’s thoughts constantly replay everything the other has said.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Mercury in the 8th House overlay leads to obsessive thinking during periods without contact. You return after overthinking and believing the relationship can be salvaged.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Lilith conjunct Mercury sparks dark, unfiltered confessions. The reunion typically begins with a brutally honest or chaotic late-night message.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Venus conjunct Asteroid Isis (42) symbolizes a love powerful enough to put the other back together. If the relationship breaks one partner will work hard to collect the pieces and return to rebuild.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Orpheus (3361) affects Venus or the Moon introduces a heavy sense of romantic grief. Like Orpheus looking back at Eurydice you return due to nostalgia, possibly for a love that’s already lost.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Venus in the 12th House overlay represents a hidden, secret commitment. You may pretend outwardly that you've moved on but behind closed doors you're always waiting for them to come back.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Briede (5629) or Hera (103) tightly conjunct with Pluto brings a "till death do us part" vibe even in casual or toxic relationships. The commitment feels deeply binding that breakups feel like a violation.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Venus square Mars creates a tiring cycle of fighting, breaking up, realizing the passion is one-of-a-kind.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Black Moon Lilith conjunct Moon creates a dark, toxic dependency. You know they are bad for you but the emotional highs are so strong that you return regardless.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Moon affecting Asteroid Proserpina (26) indicates a cyclical relationship. You are set to spend half your time apart and half your time crawling back like the changing seasons.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Moon in the 4th House overlay causes a deep ache when you’re apart. It feels like homesickness.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Medusa (149) affecting the Moon or Venus means a look or a text from them can stop you in your tracks instantly undoing any progress you made toward moving on.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Moon conjunct Pluto in the composite chart signals a relationship that won’t die easily. It will go through many endings and comebacks.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Tisiphone (466) affecting Mars creates a situation where you want to hurt them for leaving but the anger eventually turns into deep longing.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Sun conjunct Pluto in the 12th House means the connection completely diminishes your sense of self. You return because your identity has become wrapped up in them.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Cupido (763) conjunct the IC signifies that the emotional imprint of the romance is deeply rooted in your childhood. they feel like the love you’ve been searching for.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Mars in the 12th House overlay produces hidden desires. You may act as though you’re ignoring them but secretly drive by their home or check their social media.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Pandora (55) impacting the Sun or Moon indicates that opening the door to them creates a rush of emotions you can’t control.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Chiron in the 7th House overlay reveals that your core relationship wounds are triggered by them. You crawl back because you mistakenly believe that the one who hurts you is the only one who can heal you.

‎💗᪲᪲᪲ Asteroid Pholus (5145) affecting Venus represents a turning point caused by a small event. a song, a specific scent that suddenly brings forth a flood of emotions, leading you back to them.

their sun in your 1st house standing in your orbit feels like the first day of spring after a very long and grey winter. they look at you and the lights finally turn on because you embody the energy and the courage they have been trying to find within themselves for years. they wish they met you sooner because you give them the nerve to actually exist and your belief in them acts as a fire that keeps their own spirit from getting cold.

their moon in your 1st house this is the ultimate psychic homecoming. they pick up on the hidden rhythm of your heart before you even open your mouth and they feel as though they have known your face for a thousand years. there is zero emotional privacy between you and they wish they knew you back when they were at their loneliest. you carry the emotional scent of a sanctuary and they find their peace just by watching the way you move through the world.

their mercury in your 1st house you are the only person who actually hears the things they aren't saying. conversations between you feel like a high speed connection that never hits a dead end. they wish they met you sooner because you are the only one who doesn't ask them to translate their thoughts into a foreign language. you connect the dots in their head and they find their clarity in your voice and the way you listen to the static in their mind.

their venus in your 1st house they look at you and they see a masterpiece they have been trying to find in every song and every painting they ever loved. for them your presence is a sensory gift and they are addicted to the harmony you bring to their reality. they wish they had found you years ago because you show them that love can be a beautiful and tangible thing instead of just a difficult struggle. you are the aesthetic of their heart and they find their value through the way you look at them.

their mars in your 1st house you are a literal jolt of adrenaline for their spirit. there is a sharp and immediate edge to the way they feel when they are around you and you trigger a raw hunger for life that they had buried under layers of social rules. they wish they knew you when they were feeling stuck because your presence gives them the spark to finally move. it is a high stakes bond where they want to fight with you and for you and eventually merge their entire drive with yours.

their jupiter in your 1st house meeting you feels like a lucky break that the universe had been planning for a decade. they look at you and the world suddenly feels massive and full of possibilities again. they wish they had found you sooner because you are the one who reminds them how to take a leap of faith and how to trust the road ahead. you expand their definition of what is possible and your optimism acts as a lighthouse that guides them out of their own small minded worries.

their saturn in your 1st house a heavy weight of integrity settles in the room when you are together. they look at you and they realize they have finally found the solid ground they were searching for in everyone else. they wish they knew you sooner because you are the adult in the room and your weight makes them feel safe in a world of shifting sand. you bring structure to their life and they respect your grit because it matches the backbone they’ve been trying to build.

their uranus in your 1st house you are the lightning bolt that hits their social system and rewrites all their rules. they look at you and they realize that normal is just a lack of imagination. they wish they had found you back when they were trying so hard to fit in because you are the one who gives them permission to be completely strange and undeniably free. your presence is a sudden update to their soul’s software and they find their identity through your weirdness.

their neptune in your 1st house the boundaries between you are made of smoke and music. they look at you and they feel as though they are seeing a dream they haven't quite woken up from yet. you carry an ethereal quality that makes the physical world feel a bit too loud and they wish they knew you when the reality of life was getting too harsh to handle. you are the secret poetry they have been trying to read and they find their spirit through the blurry beauty of your connection.

their pluto in your 1st house standing near you feels like a total soul transformation that they cannot escape. they wish they met you sooner because they were busy playing in the shallows while you were the only one brave enough to lead them into the deep end. you trigger total annihilations followed by magnificent rebirths and they find their real power only after you have forced them to face the raw truth. you own the deed to their shadows and they stay obsessed because you are the only one who isn't afraid of their fire.

their north node in your 1st house your arrival is a signal that the universe is done waiting for them to move toward their future. they look at you and they see a map leading directly to the person they were born to become. every interaction feels fated and they wish they met you years ago because they spent so much time running away from the very path you are currently standing on. you are the catalyst for their soul’s mission and meeting you is the point of no return.

their south node in your 1st house the silence between you feels centuries old and heavy with unsaid history. being with you feels like revisiting a room they haven't entered in a different lifetime. they wish they knew you sooner in this life because they’ve been carrying a debt and a memory that only you could understand. you share a hidden baggage that needs no explanation and they find their peace in the realization that they finally found a piece of themselves that was lost long ago.

their chiron in your 1st house you put your finger directly on the spot that still stings when they breathe. they wish they had found you back when they were hurting the most because your presence is the only medicine that doesn't ask for a reason. you see the shame and the outsider feeling they’ve been hiding and you show them that their scars are actually their most beautiful features. you teach them how to be kind to their own shadows and they find their healing through the mirror you provide.

Now guys. Pls take this with a grain of salt, i'm not hating any placements that i'm about to mention. Is mostly just my opinion and I will definitely not rank them. Remember that we can have synastry with anyone so it can be parents/friends/relationships/co-workers/etc ❤️

Moon squaring Moon

If you have been following my observations for a while...I complain about these placements on a daily basis. I hate having my moon squaring other's people moon. Is nasty. Is a bittersweet feeling and not pleasant at all. Most times it manifests as a misunderstanding and just switching lots of moods from both sides. And i wouldn't wish this experience to anyone.

Mars square Mars

Another nasty combo. The problem is that Mars is more aggressive, controlling, more toxic even than the moon. It can create an ego boost for a short time but then feeling like the most insecure person in the world around people like these, people make you feel insecure here. In a relationship this can result in arguing a lot which is not my vibe so...

Their Chiron aspecting your Sun or Ascendant

This can result in a lot of projecting coming from their side, people casually telling their traumas/stuff they experienced without any warning nor any sign that the other person likes talking about it, feeling jealous, insecurity again, making you feel like you're lesser than them or that you don't matter at all. They can project a lot onto your body as well because why not...right?

Neptune square Moon

Whoever experiences this square first...will be drained of energy the next second. You can feel very tired around them or vice versa, which is not a good sign (if you feel tired around people and is not because your body or illness or poor sleep, natural cases..is because they suck the energy out of you). This can result in a bad influence emotionally as well.

Saturn square Moon

So far lots of Moon squares. Moon is our inner world and one of the most sensitive placements, so it can feel very triggering in a synastry chart. If this combo is present in a parent - child synastry it can indicate negligence or emotional absence. In a relationship synastry chart it can manifest as someone being cold/rude in the relationship and not wanting to open up. This can also mean emotional abuse from all the sides to be honest.

They having Sun/Mars/Pluto in your 6H

The 6th house synastry is super annoying. There is no other word than horrible to match with this. 6th house can be the house of enemies, people who genuinely don't like you and are most likely to betray you or backstab you or just simply cutting ties and you'll never see them again. Stay safe out there because the world doesn't get more kind in any way. 6H synastry in general is again a very bittersweet type of energy.

They having Saturn or Mars in your 10H

This can often manifest as a strict or mean boss type of energy. Someone who may not treat you well at first, clashing standards, they may want too much effort from you, very demanding, controlling, you can feel watched by them even if they're not in the same room as you. Giving you anxiety, however if the boundaries are healthy this can manifest as someone who has respect for you but still keeps it competitive and cold.

Juno Asteroid in aspects with their Neptune or vice versa

Relationship wise...this can manifest as someone who may not show their true face until later in the relationship. Can show someone who struggles with addiction in relationship. Neptune turns everything in delulu mode and you may not even see their red flags at first. They can potentially drag you into the same addictions as them which i do NOT recommend. Please do not fall for the things you haven't seen at all yet. However in good aspects and healthy boundaries it can manifest as a spiritual relationship and often fated.

Their Venus or Pluto in your 8H or vice versa (yours in theirs)

This manifests as a hard obsession at first, like falling into a creek for this person and them saving you but be very careful because all this water runs deep and shallow. Is a very crazy combo to be honest. Jealousy and possessive people, want you to be theirs 24/7 and may struggle with opening up, sometimes with the 8H involved it can talk about hidden things, such as things they haven't told you yet, lies, keeping stuff in private, maybe even cheating. (It can sound scary but just keep the boundaries safe in the relationship please.) Venus is more common to be in someone's 8H rather than Pluto unless you're born in the same generation as that person or with 1 or 2 generations before.

Sharing Neptune - Mercury aspects with them

This can manifest as lying, them lying to you or vice versa. It can indicate someone who has a very sharp tongue and knows what to say to influence others, doesn't need to be trusted 24/7. They can fake their kindness or sympathy for people unless it benefits them.

Having a 12H synastry with them

And in general having 12H synastry can indicate one thing...you can have lots of dreams about them. Dreams sometimes come as warnings, but not all the time. This can be someone who wants to know you on a deep level to hurt you more if they have the chance. Can indicate trust issues, feeling excluded, feeling like you do not belong with them and it can lead to isolation sometimes. Even cause depressive, sadistic episodes from time to time

─ ★ 12th house synastry

12th house synastry will eventually end up showing you an entirely different side of your partner that you may have overlooked at the beginning

Ex: If your partner's Venus falls into your 12th house while harmoniously aspecting your planets: you could've thought at the beginning that your partner isn't a romantic person and they're not able to properly show affection, however they could end up surprising you over how affectionate and caring they are in their own private but special way

If your partner's Mars falls into your 12th house while harshly aspecting your planets: you could've had the impression that your partner is quite the balanced person that can keep being calm, however they could end up showing you a far more angrier, irritated or aggressive secret side of theirs

─ ★ Same ascendant sign

One of my favorite synastry overlays? Having the same ascendant sign. I've noticed that these connections (whether they're romantic, familiar or platonic) are so easy-flowing. Most of the time people who have the same ascendant sign end up deeply connected together because understanding one another feels like second nature

─ ★ Vertex aspects

While most aspects in synastry are described to be felt mutually, I feel like that's not the case when it comes to Vertex aspects. The planet person could feel completely shaken by the Vertex person (depending on the effect of the planet), while the Vertex person may barely be aware of their effect in the planet person's inner world

─ ★ Heavy North Node synastry

I agree with the fact that heavy South Node synastry can make a couple stagnate, but I believe that this can apply for heavy North Node synastry as well. Usually in these cases I've noticed that the North Node person is so deeply fixated on the planet person, to the point where they start to neglect other areas of their life. It's like the North Node person can't see any other quality in their life outside the planet person, even if that comes at their detriment later on

─ ★ Moon/IC 8th house synastry

One thing about Moon or IC 8th house synastry is the fact that you two won't get enough of each other's physical touch. It doesn't have to be just sexual touch, it's about physical touch in general. This synastry at it's best expression reminds me of those funny and cute couple vids in which the couple hugs and cuddles each other very tight like they want to physically merge together

─ ★ Positive Saturn aspects in messy synastry charts

Everyone talks about how awful harsh Saturn aspects in synastry are, but why does no one talk about positive Saturn aspects when the rest of the synastry chart is just one big square aspect put together? No matter how much the other person annoys the living shit out of you, there's often some form of duty that keeps you two tied to each other. Sometimes Saturn's longevity isn't always good for every couple out there

─ ★ Synastry charts for pets

One thing I love to do when I'm bored is to check the synastry chart between me and a pet of mine. From what I've observed when it comes to me and the pets I own is the fact that we share 5th house and 6th house overlays, which makes sense. The 5th house can represent the joys we get from owning pets, while the 6th house itself represents pets

─ ★ Descendant Persona Chart synastry

And if we're still in the discussion of synastry chart combos, another thing that I like to do in my free time is to check the synastry between a person's descendant persona chart and another person's descendant PC. From what I've observed in this case, 7th house overlays often show up in married couples

─ ★ Ascendant 5th house overlay

One Synastry overlay that I absolutely love? One person's ascendant falling into another person's 5th house. The 5th house person tends to see the ascendant person as a beautiful addition into their life. This overlay reminds me of those early-life crushes where the both people have so much fun together

─ ★ 12th house synastry & dreams

One crazy thing I've noticed about someone's stellium falling into your 12th house is the fact that you might barely dream of them when they're present in your life, but once they're absent from your life then suddenly you can't escape this person in your dreams

Synastry observations 💝

mainly based off of personal experience!!

💝Mars opposite Venus is the aspect that has made me the most attracted to the other individual. even through tension and conflict, this aspect only contributed to amplifying attraction. unlike the lighter aspects, you’ll become more ‘into them’ through conflict.

another thing can be the venus dropping subtle cues, that mars picks up on and waits for the right moment to act on. i.e desire, a preference, interest, etc.

the main challenge with this aspect is that mars can be self serving, whereas venus might be blindly submissive. it is important for the mars not to rush anything, and for the venus to set strong boundaries.

“i do have my scorpio venus conjunct my rising, and this guy w a taurus mars had a opposition to them both. he was the HOTTEST man alive when i was talking to him. i’m pretty sure any taurus mars would make me feral atp“

💝Sun Conjunct Moon has surprisingly worked better for me platonically than it has romantically. the moon sign individual often feels very comfortable with the sun, as they can see their emotions through this individuals personality, and can often cling onto them. they both feel quite safe with each other.

“it might js be the men with sagittarius moon i cant stand though. like idk, i’d rather date one of my girlies with a sagittarius moon 😭“

💝Moon conjunct/trine Moon doesn’t immediately mean closeness. it contributes to a sense of understanding for the other persons’ behaviour and impulses, but the closeness relies heavily on other aspects and the individual natal charts imo. i do like this aspect a lot though.

💝Mars opposite Mercury might cause the mercury individual to unintentionally be put off by the mars. they might be overwhelmed by the directness of the way mars speaks. it can however cause a teasing effect on the communication, and as long as the mars person makes sure to be wary, and the mercury individual to impose boundaries, it’ll only have positive effects on the sexual tension

💝Mars square Neptune is called the stalker aspect for a reason oh my days.. so many things are left unsaid even when you think there’s nothing left to the relation

the mars can be caught by the clouds of neptune and end up being completely delusional about them.