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You're not missing out on experiences you wouldn't enjoy in the first place. It's OK to seek out a life and experiences that actually appeal to you.

"can i identify as aro even if-" you can do whatever you want forever👍

the aro/ace experience of going 'but am i actually aro/ace?' and then seeing an allo and being like 'oh. okay. yeah i am. what the fuck'

being aromantic is like. hey btw you're going to live a life that is the culmination of most of society's worst nightmares. sorry lol ✌️ but then you turn around and take a really good hard look at it and it turns out that living in that nightmare is fucking awesome and you get to wake up every day and take that fear that other people have and laugh and hold it close until it's a great joy for you instead. and being happy is a radical act that you define instead of someone else. and you're sexy as fuck that's just a fact of life i don't make the rules on that one

it’s okay if you’re aromantic because of trauma or mental illness. it’s okay if you start to gain romantic attraction as you start to recover. it’s also okay if trauma took away your romantic attraction completely, never to return or if recovery decreases your romantic attraction. it doesn’t matter why you’re aro or if you’ll be aro forever. if you find a home in the aromantic community that’s a good thing, and we’ll welcome you with open arms

it's very important to support aspec rights. but i think it's even more important to support aspec wrongs

you aren't obligated to ever label your sexuality btw. you can just have sex, hang out with people, and fall in love. labels can be useful, for both navigating what kind of relationships you desire as well as political organization. but if identifying yourself as something is debilitating, you are under no obligation to use that label even if you definitionally "align" with that label. nor are you obligated to tell everyone (or anyone) about your sexuality. you can also wear labels like a fun hat, and put it on & take it off whenever.

I love you disabled butches, I love you disabled butches, I love you disabled butches, I love you disabled butches, I love you disabled butches, I love y-

I'm glad I'm weird about gender in a joyous transgender way and not in a miserable cisgender way

i love asexuality i love asexuals with a complex relationship to sex i love asexuals with a very simple relationship to sex i love asexuals who's definition of asexuality and aromanticism blend together and arent seperate i love asexuals who's asexuality is just a very minor part of their identity i love asexuals who's asexuality is a very big factor of their identity I LOVE ASEXUALITY !!!!