🧚🏽‍♀️Ayaanleey🧚🏽‍♀️

for all the young girls out there, please stay safe and don't romanticize older men.

This is genuinely evil kill all men seriously

For years I've thought my dysphoria wasn't "actual dysphoria" because I was able to acknowledge that it's caused by the social perception of myself, and I've only just realised that that is literally.. what dysphoria is, at least for women. The hatred and disgust I felt whenever my breasts were visible in the tshirt I was wearing, the way my stomach would turn whenever I got referred to as she, the way I'd feel sick and shudder whenever someone called me a girl; that was all due to me recognising from an early age that people would sexualise, degrade, objectify, belittle, dismiss me because of the sex I was unwillingly born as. Dysphoria is always described as some mystical "knowing" of your true, innate self... but in reality I think it's caused by the subconcious internalisation of misogynistic stereotypes and actions which we suffer through from being a young age, and the dysphoria is a mental manifestation of the feelings which arise when the girl or woman acknowledges these things as wrong and rejects them... but unfortunately, many of us end up going down the route of transition rather than therapy and unlearning these internalised ideas due to the prevalence of transgender ideology online, in YA books, in celebrity culture...

they’ve lost the fucking plot on the 4b subreddit. hundreds of them are blaming ariana grande for apparently murdering future girls and choosing to promote her eating disorder.

Why is it so difficult for males to comprehend that there can be ONE fucking space on the face of the PLANET that doesn’t include them? If you loved women and women’s comfort and safety, you would want us to have female exclusive spaces. You do not get to create an entire world controlled by male needs, wants, and desires for thousands of years and then say our HANDFUL of spaces just for US must include you as well. There is no way to become female. You are male. And you are an intruder.

“Every year we’re learning more about what women are capable of, physically. The myths about female weakness—that our reproductive systems are fragile and dictate that we not be too active, that we have no endurance, that we can’t do anything requiring upper-body strength—have slowly but surely been shot down during the last century. But that doesn’t mean people don’t buy into those myths. They do. Girls are still treated differently than boys—in the classroom, in the gym, and, eventually when they grow up, in the boardroom. They’re not expected to be as competitive. Aggression is frowned upon in girls, yet lots of jobs require a certain amount of aggression. The whole notion of “femininity”—which is really just a way of acting and thinking, not some God-given quality—requires girls to put unhealthy restraints on themselves. It disempowers them. It keeps them from really going for it. When it comes to their bodies, it makes them fear getting “too big,” or “too strong.” So they prevent themselves from developing fully. They actually stand in their own way because they’re taught that they should. Who’s teaching them? Read The Frailty Myth and find out.”