🍼babyre🍼

Give me loud wailing and sobbing and clinging to a trusted person. Give me begging to "go home" whether that home is real and reachable or not. Give me crying for parents and siblings and grandparents and *anyone* who feels safer than the present situation.

Give me stress regression. Give me trauma response regression. Give me regression as a result of someone's self-soothing ability completely imploding.

Give me the gross parts of it. In writing, in drawings, in headcanon ramblings. The tantrums with snot and spit and red faces. The potty accidents. The bedwetting. The lashing out and yelling and hitting. The physical symptoms of feeling like you're no longer in full control of your mind and body. Let me see the MISBEHAVIOR that comes with feeling like a child in a body that's too big for you when everything is SCARY. The behavior you REGRET later.

Seeing the cozy, comforting, voluntary end of agere is so important when you're using it to comfort yourself.

But the embarrassment of it goes beyond "I use pacifiers and stuffed animals to self soothe after a hard day." for a lot of people. Acknowledge and accept that, too. Please.

Autistic caregiver who's special interest is parenting

Autistic caregiver that stims by rocking you in their arms and running their fingers through your hair

Autistic caregiver that dresses you in soft, weather appropriate clothes. Not just whatever's cutest

Autistic caregiver that treats your plushies like they have real emotions and preferences

Autistic caregiver that puts on low stimulation baby shows and movies for you to watch

Autistic caregiver that keeps a safe, familiar routine

( from left to right : permababyre , permatoddlerre , permakidre , permatweenre , permateenre , permaslider )

permababyre ! ✩ a label for age regressors who are permanently / most often baby regressing!

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permatoddlerre ! ✩ a label for age regressors who are permanently / most often toddler regressing!

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permakidre ! ✩ a label for age regressors who are permanently / most often kid regressing!

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permatweenre ! ✩ a label for age regressors who are permanently / most often tween regressing!

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permateenre ! ✩ a label for age regressors who are permanently / most often teen regressing!

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permaslider ! ✩ a label for age regressors who are permanently / most often agesliding while regressing! ( fluid between permakidre + permatoddlerre for example! )

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