romance-obsessed apothiplatonic

But recently im unlearning that mentality. More because through my entire life, every time i tried to be normal and fit in i didn't manage to do it right (nd here cough cough) or also wasn't happy or fulfilled at all. Dont get me wrong, i adore to getting know people and joke around but thats like. Only acquitance level, yknow?

So now I'm learning to be happy alone, with the company of myself. Its fun and im stopping to idolizing "normalness" so much.

Dr. Eric Foreman (House MD) !

Anon headcanons Eric as aroallo and aplatonic!

Requisplatonic / Requiesplatonic 

Requisplatonic / Requiesplatonic : Being aplspec due to emotional exhaustion.

Bliskoplatonic

Bliskoplatonic: Only feeling platonic attraction when directly interacting with someone; said interaction can include texting, being near someone physically, playing a game together, etc.

Vitrumplatonic

Vitrumplatonic: Feeling disconnected or separated from one's platonic attraction. One may feel like they're viewing their platonic attraction through a glass wall.

Feaseplatonic

i think this is in response to [this post]?

a) yes, i think if people say they support an identity than they should do things that follow up on that, like doing the things i listed. just saying you support something isn't enough if you let oppression/discrimination/microaggressions/etc occur anyway, true of any identity, not just queer ones or aplatonicism

b) people should be supported in their identities whether they're unpleasant or not. me being pleasant and acceptable should not determine whether my identities deserve to be acknowledged and supported.

c) i don't care if i'm pleasant or not actually. "pleasant" is such a nebulous concept and means near to nothing. and i'm not going to just let myself (or other marginalized people) be stomped on in the name of being "pleasant". marginalized people are allowed to be angry about their oppression. marginalized people are allowed to be angry, period.

d) if the support is so empty that you're unwilling to support my identities because i'm "unpleasant" than i don't want your support to begin with. that's the point.

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