Venting about personal shit under cut
That time when I complimented her daughter's art and instead of reacting positively at all, she lectured me about how talent has nothing to do with it
That post she made about how gleeful she is that Germans are suffering from the extreme heatwave cause Germany has brought it on itself (like the homeless people who are at the greatest risk of dying from heat stroke all personally took their massive gas guzzling jeeps and drove to Lützerath to shut down the protest camp)
The time when I tried to do research for her when she was panicking about a nasty letter and didn't so much as get a thank you or any response at all beyond a like on my comment, like, hey, I didn't HAVE to spend the last half hour trying to clarify legal terms for you, you know
The time she jumped down my throat to lecture me on how German society works when I was merely commenting that what she was experiencing was not so much the standard course of bureaucracy as it was active bigotry and in my experience they don't do that shit when a German is in the room to witness it (like, hi, I'm agreeing with you that this is bad and harassment?????)
The bit where I told her I was bad at something and she immediately denied my personal experience to tell me how actually everyone can learn the thing with enough practice (we hooked up once and you have not so much as checked in with how my day-to-day is going once in the entire year since but you've got a full picture of my capabilities and potential. Right.)
The thing where I repeatedly told her the way she was talking about a supposed joint interest is going over my head because the way I'm dabbling in it is "ten minutes a day here and there cause it seems fun" and the way she's dabbling in it is "hyperfixating on the thing for multiple months now" and she just ignored that and went right on with her infodumping and generated this whole image of a joint interest that has never existed
Just in general the going off about shit for pages at a time without so much as an "Hey, anyone in here interested to hear about x?" or checking if any of us had the background knowledge to understand a damn thing she was saying. Like, hi, yes, you're neurodivergent, we know. Nevertheless, this is a group chat and your social media account is over there. Kindly start distinguishing between followers and people you have fucked/done kink with.
The bit where she darkly hinted at trouble in her life but refused to actually elaborate for hours on end, leaving me anxious as fuck about what my primary partner was about to walk into, told me she was not willing to discuss the trouble in the channel I chose and then when I tried to go to the safer channel she suggested, I merely got a comment about how I was doing the transfer unsafely, but no attempt on her end to do it the right way that she thought was safe from her side. Didn't learn about what was actually going on until well past midnight when she called my partner about it while I was fucking trying to sleep
... are all things I should not have let her get away with just because she's hot, cool and a bit larger than life and I wanted her to like me. I'd have blocked a different person over most of those in ten seconds flat.
