acethetic

oh my god. it's aromantic day

I wish all aromantics or people who dislike Valentines day a wonderful day of nobody bothering you about who you’re with or if you have a valentine.

for ace awareness week i will be dressing up as an angry bitch which is what i already am 100% of the time so there will be no effort put into this costume. anyway i’m always glad to see content out there for aces who are not sex-repulsed and who retain their ace identity regardless of sexual activity, but i hope we can blast this weird fucking stigma once and for all against sex-repulsed aces as being somehow aligned with puritanical values just because restrictive christian culture encourages celibacy. aces in general have been through the blender for everything ranging from just “being embarrassing” to serious accusations of homophobia/discrimination against other queers just for being ace thanks to rhetoric originating from actual bigots that want to divide the lgbtq+ community for their own twisted little purposes and i just want to say from the bottom of my heart if you fall for that shit in your adulthood you either have a lot of shit to (un)learn or you are in fact just a fucking idiot

happy tdov to all my trans aces out there!! 💙💗💜

Asexuality is weird because you’ll be 12 going “wow why are people my age concerned about sex we’re just kids” and then you’re 16 going “wow why are people my age concerned about sex we’re just kids” and then you’re an adult suddenly realizing that other people are attracted to people and want to have sex with them and that’s the normal thing at that age and you’re like oh maybe it’s me

shout out to ace and aro kids who are constantly bombarded with the opinion that sex and romantic love are directly connected to living a happy life.

Y’all are just reblogging this at the speed of sound tonight

Since it’s almost valentines day, and this message is about to get hammered in even more, reblogging this again.

Boys who are sex-repulsed/don’t enjoy sex/are too uncomfortable to have sex - you’re doing an amazing job at coping in a society that associates your maleness with having strong sexual desires. You are valid, you are loveable, you are not ‘weird’ for not fitting into the stereotype of men wanting sex all time.

… I really needed to hear that thank you

…. 😦 I never thought I would ever read something like this