human diplomat: [laughs at joke]

It’s been a while since I got a wild text from a wrong number

Uhhh so warning for nsfw conversations below the break but I had to ask

Update: woke up to this

This is the best question I’ve seen now I’m wondering if he doesn’t have toothpaste

being a transmasc gay guy is so hard sometimes because if you wanna fuck cis guys, you're just a "straight girl with extra steps", but if you fuck trans women you're "not really gay actually", and if you like vaginal penetration you're faking it and you're not gay enough, and if you don't like penetration at all you're a creep/rapist, and if you wanna be hypermasc and you pass for a cis guy you're not queer enough, but if you dress/present fem you're not trying hard enough and are faking it for attention, and if you want top surgery you're "mutilating your healthy body", but if you don't want surgery then you're just transitioning for the male privelege

taggs via @ruffboi-mags: #yeah like i'm... well there was a time when i was definitely one of the least computer literate people i knew#like this was back in the late 90s/early 00s mostly#but like i could do basic things but i was woefully lacking in most kinds of knowledge#buuuut i could FIND most of what I needed if I actually read things and searched for guides and what not so i did okay#fast forward to today and i swear even half the people i would've thought would have the same approximate level of skill i have#(ie were nerdy and online/using computers regularly back in the late 90s/early 00s)#seem to... not?#I don't know if they had it and forgot because they let apps and fancier windows and geek squad and shit take over#or if i just overestimated everyone#but it's wild to me that even folks my age who are nerdy and online and have been since their teens#are... often kind of lacking in the basic skills department#i contact IT going 'hey guys there's a lot of fancy visual stuff windows likes to run that i normally turn off on my personal computer#because it's a little unnecessarily CPU-heavy to have them all running#and my work laptop here is running real laggy and is using a lot of memory and processing on stuff#and while a lot of it is stuff like the VPN and firewall that I know need to be running for security#this stuff could be turned off and it might help a bit. but it's admin locked so *I* can't change the settings can you for me?'#and they're like 'oh probably that won't make a difference but sure' and remote log in and pull up the wrong settings#(you need to go into one of the more technical menus to get at the setttings I don't remember where specifically but i usually get there#by the run option rather than just opening it through menus)#and i'm like no no#let me have the cursor and i'll open the menu in question#and so i do and they just kind of sit there for a moment and are like '...so what settings did you want to change?'#and i said click that button enter your admin login to access the menu and then turn off every option except this one#and they do and immediately things are improving so i thank them and they seem absolutely baffled that i knew those settings existed#and that i knew turning them off may help with the lag#but like... i knew bc i googled how to improve my memory/cpu use so my computer would run a lil better and it seems like no one but tech pp#think to do that sort of thing anymore????#idk man it's just wild to me#all this rambling to say i really hate how much my OS tries to control FOR me and how difficult they make it to change settings#and i wish i could use linux better than i can and also that i could use it on my work computer specifically

...I gotta lay face down on the floor for a while to process this shit.

…I gotta lay face

trfs online claiming I (transfem) should have known I would get abused by my trans ex boyfriend because its what "TMEs" do to trans women.

It's crazy to see people's misogyny run so deep that it's literally affecting their relationship with their own pets.

Part of the reason why I'm so passionate about being against the whole 'kill all men' mindset is because it does affect me directly as a trans woman.

Find it interesting how in the queer community there's no acceptable way to be a trans man.

so i think i can actually call myself one of the ""worse"" outcomes for my voice on T because I did lose my falsetto entirely and I don't have it back yet. I also sing in choirs regularly so not having a falsetto does come up and limit what I can do.

Trans fem's have a target on their backs