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tlirsgender

You are not a People Pleaser your lack of boundaries are not a virtue and one day you are going to boil over and lash out at your loved ones who had no idea they were hurting you because you never told them

tlirsgender

Your lack of boundaries are not a virtue 🗣🗣🗣

tlirsgender

The person in my notes telling me to "have compassion for traumatized people" is exhibiting the exact behavior I'm talking about re: (not) taking responsibility for your own communication so I think this type of person Does need to hear Hard Truths, actually. Something being a trauma response doesn't exempt it from harming your relationships & the people in them. Enabling it won't help anything cause ultimately you still have to do the work on yourself and use your fucking words

tlirsgender

Ok? Ok. Now everyone else in my notes saying some variation on "yeah this is me I'm working on it" I'm giving you a sticker

quietwingsinthesky

its so weird to me that cis people will dislike their name so ardently and yet. not change it. you guys know that’s an option, right. no one can make you keep the shit name your mom gave you. no, not even her.

penrosesun

One of my friends in undergrad changed his name because he didn’t want to bear the name of his abusive and absent father. It’s been years since he did it, and he still says that it was the single best decision of his life.

One of my friends in high school changed his named as soon as he turned 18, so that the ethnic name his family gave him was finally the name reflected on all of his paperwork. He told me that he understood why his parents had given him an “English” name, but that he felt that if he needed to assimilate in order to succeed, then that was a type of success that he didn’t want.

When I was on my way home from the courthouse after changing my own name, I got into a conversation with my rideshare driver, who was extremely interested once I told him what I was in court for, and wanted to know how I’d done it, how much it cost, was it difficult, etc. It turned out that his girlfriend had chosen the name “Yo-yo” when she came to the United States, unaware of how rare that was as a name, and that she was frequently made fun of because of it. Neither one of them had realized that a name change was so easy, and he told me he was excited to let her know that she had options.

There was an intern at a summer job I had once, who changed her name to be the same name, but a different spelling. She said that she had no idea why her parents had spelled her name so oddly to begin with, and suspected that it was just an honest mistake either by them or by some nurse, but it had been a headache for her entire life, and it was a huge relief to not need to be correcting people’s spelling on important documents anymore.

One of my exes legally changed his name to have an exclamation point, because he liked to sign his name with an exclamation point.

You can always change your name if you don’t like it. You always have that option. It doesn’t matter why – it can be conformist or anti-assimilationist, serious or silly, a minor change or a major change. Your name is yours, and you have every right to change it to be whatever you want.

felinewasteland

Heartbreaking! Perfectly cute and funny cat video ruined by caption insinuating that cat coat colour has literally any effect on the animal's personality / temperament / intelligence and consequently zero introspection on what that kind of thinking is uncomfortably reflective of with regard to humans!

felinewasteland

Like this isn't exactly new; negative perception of black cats, for example, has been a notable thing even past the times when it was typical to be superstitious about them; this is thought to be most likely caused mainly by it being more difficult to read their emotions (here is one study published this year investigating that; I've read at least one other one about it but I can't find it atm) but I thought other cat lovers were all on the same page that assumptions by coat colour had no basis in reality and could not meaningfully indicate anything about a particular cat.

So it's frustrating to me to see in the past few years an uptick in the amount of cat owners / lovers doubling down by seeming to generate even more coat colour stereotypes but like with a layer of ~whimsy~ added to it. They'll post a video of an orange tabby doing a normal cat thing and be like "omg orange cats are so stupid he has no braincells XD" and then someone else will post a video of a tortie doing the same thing and be like "wow tories are always so moody she has such an attitude" and I feel like I'm going insane that no one realizes how weird this is and that its just like. Memeifying racism and misogyny but thinking its cute and fun actually because we're applying it to cats instead of people.

felinewasteland

Like I think it Is that deep actually I think you should seriously consider why you are super on board for assuming intelligence and other personality traits based only on appearance

ravensloane

guys i just heard a minecraft cave noise in real life

quinquangularist

change your settings to peaceful it'll be ok

ravensloane

k hold on

ravensloane

where are my parents

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feldfrog

It’s just a joke dude. It doesn’t mean anything. Information has no coherent structure . Ideas don’t touch reality

shutyourmoustache

When my mother forgets a word, she is the queen of coming up with new words. Words that would take a third National Treasure movie to fully decipher. I was talking to her yesterday, and she said this: “You know the time for los jibbities is coming up. You must be so excited!” Oh, is it time for los jibbities already? I must have missed it on my calendar. Are we celebrating something? “Of course! We should all be celebrating, shouldn’t we?” OK, so los jibbities is a happy thing. It’s not like something is giving you the heebie-jeebies, which would have been my one and only guess. “Los heebie-jeebies? Now you’re making things up...and this is my show.” You’re right. The time for los jibbities is coming up. Is this a season? “Yes, the season for love. The season for pride.” OK, los jibbities. “Yeah, sound it out.” Los…jibbities. LGBTs! “Sí, mira cuz you’re gay!” “You couldn’t just say pride season? You couldn’t just… *laughs*

party-gilmore

HAPPY LOS JIBBITIES EVERYBODY!!!

greatmountainfloofsquatch

The time for Los Jibbities has arrived!

flixiastar

I just walk and walk and walk until everything falls down

#backrooms #art #horror

depsidase

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softichill

I loooove ominously giggling when I'm getting my friends into smth new. They ask me a spoilery question and I get to do this

redstairs

I saw this and had to save this image cause I definitely have a few readers like this.

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civvic

The mere concept of a resident evil male nude mod is so funny to me. Boy put that boaner away lest a sloppy little critter grabs hold of it

magneatio

ohhhh i get it. sometimes you need to leave things in the past because that’s where they’re happy and that’s where they live and trying desperately and futilely to claw them back to you now, in the present, is wildly disrespectful to yourself…

magneatio

and good things still come to me. and i dilute them when i ache for what i don’t have anymore.

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knivesandteeth

Anyone else think the reason ds9 deeply resonates with Queer people is because, at its Heart, its about a third space created but a group of patriotic people fundamentally alienated from their own people. Like obviously garak and quark but consider how were told in the first episode that Kira has been sent there to get her "out of the way" of the civilian government, how the things shes needed to do to both survive and secure their freedom seem deeply uncomfortable to all the civilian leaders. Dax considering both Joran and her eagerness towards reassociation make her basically a non entity on Trill. Bashir takes a while but the augment reveal puts him firmly in this Category. Obriens difficulty with his ptsd and moving passed personal préjudices puts him at odds with a lot of federation ideals. Siskos deep trauma around the loss of his wife and inability to move pass this, makes him very inconvenient to a federation desperate to pass itself off as a Utopia. He then becomes more and more unacceptable as he leans further into his role as in emissary, with the federation seemingly very uncomfortable with this religious expression. Jesus, Worf begins his tenure by getting himself exiled from klingon space.

Like idk, I dont think its all that shocking a Bunch of Queer people most liked the show about having a complicated relationship with your culture and never being allowed to go home.

#ds9 #star trek #st

july-19th-club

ben sisko introducing his crew to folks like welcome to the station this place has everything! my beloved son. my guerrilla daughter. my competent fucklord female dad. her giant belarusian husband. my hyperactive gay nephew. the alien spy who makes all my clothes. a slimy cop (not entirely a metaphor). a venture capitalist brought low by the whims of the market. the world’s most unlucky irish man. his beautiful wife. my beautiful wife :) and this wormhole that made me a jesus

#ds9 #star trek #st

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