the holy, sick, divine nights

i may look like a regular guy on the outside. but on the inside i understand themes , and narratives

you deserve people on your level. you deserve people who can reciprocate your energy. you deserve people who go out of their way to love you like you do for them. you don’t need to constantly be the giver in relationships and/or friendships that leave you drained at the end of the day.

You can feel each one…

too much self reflection is not a good thing honestly. go outside and plant a garden and then cook yourself a homemade dinner then mop the floors and change your sheets and take a hot shower then you won’t care so much

#if you’re overthinking it you need input from an outside source #and not necessarily on the topic #just a conversation or a story or a song or a hug or some sunlight #overthinking is a symptom of loneliness

I LOVE BOUNDARIES AND I LOVE SAYING NO

If anyone has trouble understanding what this is, it’s the same group of animals as sea squirts, creatures related to us vertebrates that reduce down to a hollow bag of jelly by adulthood. The surface of the pyrosome is just thousands of tiny squirts connected in a sheet of jelly kind of like chain mail or sequins :) there’s nothing but water inside, it’s like a windsock.