the whole mutual thing is really overhyped on this site. sometimes interests donāt match up and thatās the only reason why there isnāt a mutual following. if youāre a regular in my inbox or my notifications, i have visited your blog before. if i didnāt want you around for any reason, you would be blocked. so yeah. you can spam my notes and/or talk with me (and possibly become my friend) even if iām not following you back. no worries.











