Dream Boy

You listen to music regularly? Why? Have you even tried quitting? Could you quit? You get music stuck in your head? Wow. You're so ruined and music brained. I bet you make your partners listen to music with you when you have sex. Music addiction has really ruined a whole generation. You know it's not realistic to expect reverb in real life, right? You're probably so desensitized that you don't even feel anything anymore when you hear a bird singing that it wants some fuck.

Times Square installation of Jenny Holzer’s neo-conceptual text-based art.

Do ladies love stupid men or do they just love men who don’t exhaust every opportunity to feel smart

“I used to think that melancholy was a vegetable” that’s incredible, let’s hang out more

I’m going to be so honest. I think in the pursuit of an individualized sexual liberation, the Overton window for misogyny has shifted violently towards normalizing bonkers levels of misogyny. Some of you have got to start being feminist killjoys again. I can’t carry this teamfight myself no matter how good I am at fragging liberal false feminists.

I think that we may have lost the plot when we started arguing that it’s feminist to play gacha games, which are predicated on articulating women as units of exchange, one of the oldest kinds of Ur-Misogyny in history.

We desperately need some political consciousness about feminism in the world. Just like a smidge. Please. I’m begging you.

You have to let people love you. You have to let people get to know you. You have to let people help you. Being so completely selfless that you try to erase yourself off the face of the planet and never ask for anything and reject everybody's offers of support makes you very hard to love! Unfortunately. Emptying yourself out of everything that makes you, you is not actually what your loved ones want from you, generally. They want to make you happy! They will be so so sad if you don't give them the chance. It's not all selfish. I promise.

*pro-abortion aborted baby voice* i'd have supported your choice to abort me..... if i existed...

Was not expecting this many of you to resonate with Millennium Death Plinko

always thinking about that Oxford study that found half of adults define "young people hanging around in groups" as "anti-social behaviour"

What are your thoughts on musk?

i hope he dies

No you don't get it, I'm a Good Person. You don't understand. I'm a Good Person which makes it okay for me to think violently about the Enemy, who is Bad Person. I'm commenting "you should be violently murdered" because I'm Good Person and you're Bad Person. You think saying that to someone is fucked up?? You should be violently murdered, you're probably Bad Person anyway

You have to let people love you. You have to let people get to know you. You have to let people help you. Being so completely selfless that you try to erase yourself off the face of the planet and never ask for anything and reject everybody's offers of support makes you very hard to love! Unfortunately. Emptying yourself out of everything that makes you, you is not actually what your loved ones want from you, generally. They want to make you happy! They will be so so sad if you don't give them the chance. It's not all selfish. I promise.

revealing of many things perhaps that the ‘you don’t know what you married’ fairytale trope contains such marked thematic differences between male and female protagonists… the selkie, animal wife/swan maiden, and lamia motifs being associated with the heteropatriarchal terror of perceived-feminine interiority; that if you don’t materially force your wife to stay, she might one day be gone, that there are things about her you don’t know and may not be able to understand. while female-focused versions of the structure—bluebeard, the robber bridegroom, fitcher’s bird, mr. fox, and so on—encapsulate the very real danger of abuse without recourse to anything but one’s own cleverness: the common fear that the person you marry and know might turn out to be a stranger after all, or that you may be forced to marry without even superficial knowledge or choice.

"male/female socialization" is such a stupid and useless fucking framework. newsflash dipshit, everyone is socialized to think of women as lesser. where the fuck do you think "girl math" came from

why is the idea of systemic oppression directly rewarding people for perpetuating it so unbelievable to everyone. like people do not exist in a vacuum we exist in a society. men are misogynistic because it is in their best interest to be misogynistic and to actively fight against it requires them to sacrifice their privileges for the good of other people with no reward but knowing they are doing the right thing. women can also be misogynistic because they can be afforded some smaller privileges over other women for doing so. staying in line lets them keep a higher position on the pecking order over the women who don't. it's all about self-interest and systems rewarding people for perpetuating them. any framework that refuses to address this is doomed to fail and completely useless for anything other than attacking other minorities. genuinely why is this controversial *remembers people enjoy attacking minorities* ohhhh