Currently contemplating the validity of graduating and running off to go have a life of fuck all and debauchery and recklessness and throwing all of my plans into the wind, and not giving a single flying fuck about whether or not any of it matters.
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Currently contemplating the validity of graduating and running off to go have a life of fuck all and debauchery and recklessness and throwing all of my plans into the wind, and not giving a single flying fuck about whether or not any of it matters.

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where to download every pokemon game excluding spinoffs
(plain text: where to download every pokemon game excluding spinoffs)
GAMES
pokemon red/blue
pokemon gold/silver/crystal
pokemon ruby/sapphire/emerald
pokemon firered/leafgreen
pokemon diamond/pearl/platinum
pokemon heartgold/soulsilver
pokemon black/white
pokemon black2/white2
pokemon x/pokemon y
pokemon omega ruby/alpha sapphire
pokemon sun/moon
pokemon ultra sun/ultra moon
pokemon let’s go pikachu/let’s go eevee
pokemon sword/shield
pokemon brilliant diamond/shining pearl
pokemon legends arceus
pokemon scarlet/violet
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3DS
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obviously bigotry isnt rational but "women are naturally worse at spatial reasoning and math" is a wild opinion to have when women have historically been the primary textile producers in a lot of societies. have you ever seen a tablet weaving pattern
Whoof. Things have really gotten to be a lot. This is officially going to be an angsty vaguepost rant for my own benefit.
I feel like I got knocked unconscious when I was twenty-three, and I woke up and suddenly I'm twenty-five. I used to spend a lot of time wondering who I would be if you stripped me down of everything I loved, everything I spent time doing, everyone I surrounded myself with, and all of my goals. And then it happened, and I'm just like, what was the point of all that? Why the fuck was any of this necessary? And how the hell do I move on when no one and nothing seems to want to let me? None of this should have happened. I thought that I'd be free of this kind of pain once I was an adult.
In my freshman year of college, I drew myself as if I had assumed a false identity and moved far, far away. I looked up job applications to join the circus and start fresh in a new country. I keep thinking about that version of myself.
Ironically enough, the real me is now only months away from changing my name and moving to a new city I've never been to (and didn't know existed before November) in a whole new country. I'm probably even going to start a circus there. This isn't going to fix everything, and possibly not even anything, but I appreciate the eerie symmetry all the same.
I feel like I'm living in some kind of parallel universe where everything is too much, it's all running on comic book logic, and I just don't know how to cope or what to do. I'm doing my best to clamber out of this pit I've found myself in, but I'm still wondering where the heck I put myself. I'm starting to think the answer is "somewhere in 2012".
I'm just tired and feeling kinda heavy. I might just need a friend.

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I think a great way to improve communication with kids (and adults) is to make every yes or no question a this or that question.
I started doing it when after brain surgery my husband had trouble forming responses to questions for a while, and realized that the habit was helping my students engage more truthfully with me.
Some examples:
Yes/No: “Did you clean up your room like I told you?”
This/That: “Did you clean up already, or do you still need to do that?”
Yes/No: “Are you going to sit quietly?”
This/That: “Are you ready to sit and do our quiet activity, or do you need some time by yourself first?”
Yes/No: “Are you doing anything fun for your birthday?”
This/That: “Are you having a party on your birthday, or are you going to relax?”
I think many children (and adults!) are averse to telling adults “No,” especially when a command is implied. (“Did you clean your room?” “Are you going to sit quietly?” Hmmm if I say ‘no’ I will be in trouble with the adult.) So they are actually pretty likely to just lie and say what they think you want to hear.
Presenting a this or that question provides an alternative to lying, a ‘no, but’ scenario where they are presented with the reasonable consequences of a No (“if you’re not ready to sit quietly, you cannot do our quiet activity with us yet.”)
It's actually weird how larger families can be more distant emotionally. I have one aunt, two uncles, and seven cousins on my mother's side, and what do I know about my cousins? Names, faces, and whose kids each of them are. I just flat-out don't know these people, and no longer having them in my life after cutting contact with my mother and sister was a matter of complete indifference to me. They were just strangers whose names I knew.
My boyfriend's family is really close. And since he's close to his family, I'm close to his family. The first christmas we spent together they had already included me in their annual gingerbread house portrait of the whole family.
When my boyfriend's little brother told us that he's got a girlfriend now, my first thought was "ooh, new people coming in??" like that's just the natural course of events that happens. I have to mentally restrain myself and remind myself that first teenage relationships tend to end in first teenage heartbreaks, and that's entirely his own personal matter that little bro is going to have to handle on his own.
The odds of her just getting scooped up into being immediately made part of the family as a permanent fixture are extremely low. Of course I'm happy for him and hoping that it's all going to turn out the best way it can, but there's realistically no way that something like that can just happen twice.
This is a large family?
Dude I have 15 aunts and uncles on my dad's side and at least 40 cousins
And that is just my dad's side
Your grandparents had 15 kids??
Omg having 16 kids is crazy but I’d have to imagine it’s around 8 + those who married them counting as an aunt / uncle
Oh yeah that'd be more sensible. It didn't even occur to me to count my aunt's and uncles' spouses as family, my aunt divorced and remarried once, my younger uncle married and divorced twice, and I never did figure out what the other uncle's wife's problem was.
I hear this and raise you "large Slavic family where nobody knows how anybody is related to absolutely anybody, and also nobody cares".
I went to my cousin's wedding a couple of months ago, and there were like, no joke, two hundred people there. I kept asking my mom how I was related to people, and she was always like, "Oh... I don't know how we're related to Vanya. I think she was my dad's cousin's daughter's boyfriend's brother's daughter's cousin... So she's your cousin!"
So far as I can tell, my cousins include several babysitters (including my mother's babysitter, who apparently is alive); at least three groups of people of differing ethnicities (no, they didn't marry in, and no, they probably aren't related to us by blood, blood is fully irrelevant); and someone with a mysterious job in cryptocurrency and an unplaceable accent who permanently looks like she's going to a funeral (dark sunglasses and all). Nobody could explain to me where that last one even came from or how she got to the wedding.
If I ask any of my relatives about any of these people, they will simply tell me that they're my cousins with no further explanation. I'm starting to think that we just constantly absorb new unwitting cousins.
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imagine if a fuckin……. giant alien just showed up and stuck a huge hand in front of your face and then proceeded to offer you three different houses and wouldn’t stop until you moved out of your old shitty apartment and then helped you fuckin move
and then just left
I first saw this on twitter and COULD NOT get over these comments:
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I have a deep appreciation for trans people in general, of course, but especially those who take the opportunity afforded by the chance to pick a new name in adulthood to pull an interesting but out-of-fashion name out of mothballs and give it new life. I'm not sure it would be appropriate to give a newly-cooked baby the moniker 'Millicent' - there's no way of knowing if they'd be powerful enough for that name - but if you want to make yourself Millicent? You're my hero.
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Today's bug thing is the Hercules beetle hair claw by Crescent Creepers!

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the way i've not played a single hour of skyrim in 8 years because i Know i would disappear off the face of earth and even dragon age with its 80-200 hours long games are less toxic than skyrim to my real human life. but i crave it. i crave it so bad
i'm giving in. what is the point of not playing a cherished game for eight years. what if i die without enjoying skyrim with a fully developed frontal lobe
It was very much worth it. This made me do more personal art in a single month than in the entirety of 2024. Do it, download that game
This would have had me crucified on tumblr 10 years ago but maybe we are ready for this conversation now:
If you are a socially anxious person, you have to socialize. Your panic/anxiety attacks will only get worse and trigger more frequently if you constantly avoid contact with The Public. Not saying that you need to be a social butterfly- but there is a genuine problem with not being able to order your own meal at a restaurant. And it cannot be solved by always having someone else do it for you.
This is a PSA to about 3/4s of the Portland Youth populace
everyone who reblogs this and is like "I ordered my own tea this week" or "I only barfed once when I had to give a presentation'- you are doing amazing sweetie. Have patience with yourself, you are relearning a skill so difficult that people get 4 year degrees to do it professionally.