Damp Abode for The Swamp Meat Beasts

Feminism has a long history of promoting inequality when it benefits women. And it has only gotten worse over time. This by itself isnt terrible. All movements have bad people in them. However the difference between feminism and christianity or feminism and PETA is that feminism doesnt allow its own members to be critical of it. Feminists havelong since insisted on monopoly over equality. That in order to support equality, you must be a feminist. That questioning a feminist action is no different than blatant misogyny. This keeps critical thinking out of feminism. Various feminists and former feminists have for years tried to fix the bad in feminism, byt to no avail. Warren Farrel, a former feminists who was welcomed with open arms in feminist spaces and events was essentially blacklisted for including men in gender equality. Veteran Feminist Christina Hoff Sommers is called an antifeminist by fellow feminists for questioning feminist actions, correcting blatant misinformation and asking for them to do better. Activist Erin Pizzey (who now claims to have never been a feminists) was called harassed, received death threats from feminists, and was banned from her own shelter for daring to include a male abuse shelter along with her already established womens abuse shelter.

#killallmen, “men are trash”, “toxic masculinity”, closing abuse shelters for men, protesting talks about issues men face, what you did in the tags in mocking men who defend against sexist generalizations (not all men), etc. feminism has a habit of implementing misandry and double standards without resistance from within. And when hateful and ignorant sexists feel confortable in their bigotry, when it is encouraged and protected, they feel it is justified.

Chrstians have been called homophobic. This is because, despite the christian faith claiming to support love and acceptance, still frequently treat certain group like homosexuals unfairly. An accusation of homophobia isnt unfair. And a defense of “those christian homophobes are just a few bad apples” isnt a good enough excuse. Luckily, unlike feminists, many christians go out of their way to oppose those gay conversion camps and homophobic churches. They were critical of their own group and worked to fix the bad. That alone is enough to convince me that they are at least trying. They dont say “those arent real christians”. They dont pretend like their actions dont shape the religion. They work to change it themselves, which in turn improves their image and gives legitimate reason for good people to join. As stated before, unfortunately, feminists tend to do the opposite.

There were 3 known rules to having a soulmate.

1. Everyone on earth had a soulmate. Platonic or not, this was your other half, your partner through life. They could be your best friend, your romantic partner, your ex.

2. One of you would know the exact day you were going to meet your partner. They called this the Soul Awakening. They described the feeling as pure elation, a happy sunbeam that followed you all day. It was a high no one could replicate. Those who had this ability said that they knew the exact moment their soulmate walked into their lives. It was as if they finally found what they had been unintentionally looking for. They were finally home. From 12:00:00 a.m. to 11:59:59 p.m., you had the potential to meet your soulmate.

3. One of you would know the exact day your soulmate was going to die. They called this the Soul Death. They described the feeling as agonizing dread, a gut-wrenching anxiety that wouldn’t go away. It was the feeling of knowing something terrible was about to happen, and being powerless to stop it. Those who had this ability said they knew the exact moment their soulmate was no longer on earth. It was as if all the color was drained from the world, their soul being ripped into two. They were completely, utterly alone. From 12:00:00 a.m. to 11:59:59 p.m. you had the potential to lose your soulmate.

Never once, in the history of the world, had there been an exception to the rules.

recognition,

realization,

Humiliating or embarrassing you - my ex-best friend LOVED to try and make me squirm in any way possible to see my reaction. once she went up to a guy and told him i had a crush on him to watch me struggle to explain myself

Unreasonable jealousy - if i so much as went to hang out with any of my other friends i would have to let my ex-best friend know beforehand. i pretty much had to get her permission to see other people or she would be convinced that i was ‘ditching her forever’

Refusing to communicate - if she was ever angry with me or upset she would never tell me that so we could talk about it. instead, she would ignore me or respond to all my texts with ‘k’ or ‘ya’ and i would have to struggle for hours to get her to tell me what was wrong

Ignoring or excluding you - she would ignore me for weeks at a time as a ‘punishment’ knowing that it would eat me up inside wondering what i did wrong. i still remember spending nights wide awake crying in bed because i didn’t know what to do 

Mean jokes or constantly making fun of you - she would constantly poke fun at my appearance and personality to where my self-confidence plummeted. god help me if i ever said anything about her though

Saying things like “If you don’t _____, I will_____.” - she would constantly threaten to kill herself if i didn't do what she wanted

Guilt trips - she never apologized once to me in our seven-plus years of being friends. not once. every time we argued i would be the one who apologized in the end. once when i stood up to her and called her out on treating me like crap she would make up a story of how her life was miserable and that i was making things worse 

Isolating you from friends and family - been mentioned before but she was extremely jealous of all my other relationships and would override my plans with other people on purpose and would guilt trip me if i still went to see them

 Domination and control - also mentioned before but i needed her permission on everything. if i joined any group or extracurricular activity without her knowing she would be furious   

Extreme moodiness - after ignoring me for weeks she would contact me out of the blue and act as if nothing happened. she would also refuse to talk about why she ignored me for so long and did not care if my mental health suffered from it

#also- because sometimes I think people throw around words like ‘abuse’ a little carelessly on this site #people who aren’t abusive sometimes might do one or two things on this list #because people are flawed #and sometimes we screw up and hurt each other and it’s ouch and it sucks #if your friend does one of these things once they are not an abuser and please don’t bring it up by saying ‘you’re being abusive’ #instead say ‘hey this specific thing you did hurt me and here’s why it was p stressful’ #and a good friend will hear you out. maybe they will get defensive or sad (cause who *likes* being called out let’s be real) #but ultimately they will listen to you. they will own up to their actions. #and they will make a genuine effort to not act in that way that hurt you again

They’re just fighting over who gets ‘em at this point..

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Do these people realize how fucking painful and horrible PCOS is? At least they could remove her ovaries and she went back to relative normality– I wish I could fucking get my ovaries removed, but that would just lead to more or other problems, and have the possibility of not even getting rid of the PCOS symptoms. 

Having hormonal imbalances is not becoming transgender– but I will say, when my PCOS wasn’t being treated, I sure felt something I’d assume is akin to having dysphoria, because I wasn’t comfortable in my body, I felt disgusted looking at it and having to deal with it– because as a cis woman, I had testosterone imbalance, and so I was showing a bit more male attributes.

She is a trans activist who has shut down multiple Twitter accounts and even female salons! The salons where shut down for not feeling comfortable with or feeling unfit working with male genitalia.

Not only does she shut down businesses she also is a predator! She’s texted kids invasive and inappropriate questions!

She’ll also ask kids there age to know they are underage before texting them!

She’s even trying to throw a topless swimming pool party for underage kids…without the parents being there!

Now I’m not saying that she’s trans or not trans but as the trans community we need to call out this predatory behavior and report it! Pedophilia is still pedophilia no matter what gender you identify as.