When ladies say "body count doesn't matter" but are proud of their Dior watch - its so hypocritical. Why can't you be proud of a Seiko or a no name watch? Why Dior? Dior is exclusive. Of course body count matters- but not how you think. It matters not because of religious fundimentalism, but because people treat a Dior bag better than a walmart bag, because fewer people have Dior bags, because the price point makes it exclusive. Why people like expensive things and experiences? Because they are exclusive.
Gucci became a cheap brand at once point when they stopped being exclusive and made gucci lighters and so on. then one of the hiers ousted his uncle, made it exclusive. Years later under different management its one of the most exclusive luxury brands. If you lost your exclusevity, you can rebuild your brand and be exclusive again
Ladies the illusion of low body count is about being the Birkin. And let me point out ways that are easy to spot a fake. So here I am going to teach how to make a super-fake Birkin of virginity. It will be a real low body count because effectively they don't want someone easy... then don't give your body easy and don't dress easy. You can really up your value more than most ladies in the West and get a ring this away. They don't want you to be so sexually addicted and so sexually open that if they go to a business trip you are shagging the gardener. They do this to establish paternity of their children. Science backs this.
If you made mistakes in the past you can reprogram yourself to be innocent again, like when you started dating. And this will up your value especially since affluent gentlemen are surrounded by hordes of beautiful ladies who lost their innocence. You want to be sexually innocent but mentally experienced enough to send him to hell if he pushes too hard. If you slept with every affluent gentleman in your town, move to a new town and start over, and don't talk about your dating life. Discretion does wonders.
Many ex-sex workers get remarried, I mean like strippers, etc not just high end ones. Gentlemen care that you just left that stuff behind and are committed to the low body count lifestyle today and for real. The key is it's in your past and you are not putting down every Muslim and Mormon for their lifestyle... if you are that triggered... they can tell. If you are that triggered - see a therapist, then after you deal with your triggers, no one can tell.
When male friends told me they were getting married one of the first things they would bring up is she is low body count. That's what the 21rst century looks like. Because of prawnography, tinder etc. some party girls have a very high body count and traumatize boys. They will always try to downplay religion etc. Now my former roommate went to Cancun, and they had orgies, and she was shocked her boyfriend broke up with her as she was carried naked with tequilla shots and guys drank tequilla shots of her naked body.. her boyfriend came in she said and was so mad, and broke up with her there, so she left to an orgy where everyone screwed everyone... a month later, I moved out and she wasn't my roommate. Her eyes had this stare. Gentlemen refer to it as the 1000 clock stare.
So when it comes to ladies, there are three kinds, virgin, low-mid body count, and high body count. High body count ladies are always triggered, always shaming religious women, saying it doesn't matter, making things up, saying you can run around half naked and get married etc. They always attack religion, purity, get easily triggered. You can tell by how they are always triggered. Plus they have a PTSD stare.
I define high body count as to the point they have trouble being exclusive or to the point they are triggered any time they see an elegant lady. Jessica Mulroney is a famous flousey. She hated me and can't stand Princess Catherine for being elegant, bullied her daughter, made her daughter cry and sabotaged Meghan Markle's relationship with Princess Catherine all because Princess Catherine and I being elegant and proper was enough to trigger her for existing. If one is triggered byelegant AND even traditional ladies - its a sign of a high likelihood of being a town bicycle.. add rumours, weird thousand yard star, bam. confirmed flousey.
A rational lady would make Meghan Markle closer to Princess Catherine, smooth things over and become besties with princess catherine, because if Markle doesn't work with the Windsors, maybe Middleton is a better bet. What Jessica Mulroney did was irrational and came from being triggered. Her daugther was the only girl without flowers in her hair, something was up.
Jessica was triggered and had a weird stare, of dating PTSD.
You can fix this in therapy, the trick is to find a therapist who supports your goals.
The point of the low body count is he doesn't want you to have sexual addiction and cheat on him.
The other way they know is easily giving your body like it's worth nothing. If you have a low body count, you know you have something precious so you think before you sleep with someone. Be it make sure you are well compensated in sugar dating if that's your route or be slow to give it to the person you are dating. If you are vanilla dating tell yourself you are a virgin... you will see that you are not going to just give it because he pushes. Tell yourself you are a virgin now even you are not. You are going to carry yourself different because you want your first time to be special. That's what comes across as high value.
If you are going to bristle at traditional ladies and religion, lady you are RANT THROUGH, call the thot patrol as gentlemen say these days. What's the problem with it... the non existent husband? There are little tics and tells, and Jordan Peterson actually talks about it, as it predicts faithfulness. Studies show there is a correlation with low body count, marriage success and faithfulness. That's why when they are looking for their sperm toilet or sperm dumpster, they don't care... in fact they will avoid you for being elegant to "save you for later" when they have the resources to marry.
BODY COUNT MATTERS. Someone who says it doesn't, doesn't socialize with the other gender much and if they say they are married, show me proof. Now if you have high body count - yes there are ways of hiding it.
Way #1 SHUT THE BLOODY HELL UP ABOUT YOUR DATING LIFE.
DON'T EVEN SHOW ANYONE YOU ARE NOT ENGAGED TO!
Did he propose & put a diamond ring on your finger? No. Then as far as your friends no, he doesn't exist. Don't tell his name. Don't say its john then mike then marc then alex. let them assume its the same person. Talk little. "oh this is beautiful" "yes my suitor got it for me." Don't let people know who you are dating.
As for a best friend, you have to test her with secrets two years into your friendship with her. And don't give her names if there is a sex story. Honesty keep your sex life between you and a therapist. if someone looks like a boyfriend after half a year tell her, that's it.
And this whole "classy Arab gentlemen don't ask your body count" - no their mother finds out and if they are rich she hires a private investigator. I had proposals so they would ask shop keepers were I walked and so on, people traced my tracks, it's creepy. They are not going to risk their legacy on a flousey.
The whole body count thing didn't matter at all in the 80s and 90s before the internet, tinder etc, prawnography. Boys are oversaturated with prawnography and the easy internet access, social media, red pill, tinder makes it so easy for broke boys to neg a lot of girls on scale & have on no budget flouseys over the weekend, which makes them cyncial, older generations cynical.
So the next thing, how to hide high body count? Don't dress like a town bicycle or a risky investment for their legacy and don't bristle against it, don't call people rich old lady. Shut up, and dress like you have something to lose if he slept with you tonight. If he can have milk for free why buy the cow. Sex has never been easier and cheaper in the history of humanity than today. Historically wars were fought over ladies, now a girl costs some negs, and a netflix subscription, a slice of yesterday's pizza if he's generous.
Think of when you were a virgin or maybe not you but someone like Audrey Hepburn who valued for innocence. I love Grace Kelly in How to Catch a Thief in Monaco with the door. He wants to follow her into her room but she closes the door. That's when he falls in love and realizes she is high value. She has a gift of innocence between her legs so she doesn't give it out so fast and cheaply.
If innocence didn't matter why do girls get a million dollars in virginity auctions in Dubai brothels?
Maybe you are not innocent, but look how Marylin Monroe had more intimate partners than the Kardashians combined but so many proposals? And in the 50s? Because she was discreet about it... "it happened by accident, I was in love".. she gave an image that she wasn't a virgin but someone who regretted that she was taken advantage of by a previous ex boyfriend she was madly in love with and now she learned and she values what she has. Marylin Monroe played that part well.
Today's girls.. no. Gentlemen call them "tradthots" - as in they say they are traditional, but when they push them, they put out fast. One friend went out with this Russian girl who even went to church occasionally... he really courted, flirted, pulled the stops... did his thing being seductive... within a couple hang outs, not even dates she told him she was trysexual and would try anything. He didn't even go out on a date with her, just friendzoned her and looked cute, acted charming dressed well. He didn't even intend to push, was just chill, she was saying how much she was traditional and he thought she said it too many times, let's test it, is she faking. The next time she texted him to hang out, he at first was like no, then plans were cancelled or something made him have room so was like sure why no, and she told him she was trysexual and would try anything.
That has to be the most over-used line from sex and the city. So he was turned off and had something else going, but was curious so he befriended her friend and she told him they shared boys and passed them around, and who they all slept with, and had this other friend who was an acquaintance of mine. It happens that I know girl #3. So let's call girl #1 Natasha. Andrew told Sandy, girl #2, about Natasha and she got competitive and told everyone she slept with and that they slept with a couple of the same but her body count is really lower.
If you tell your girlfriends who you have sex with, expect them to tell everyone and multiply by three, and gentlemen multiply by three what someone says. Sadly I have friends who a friend confides in me and them... and they tell the whole world and exaggerate the numbers. And they of course said she went to McDonalds, had hamburgers with a cheap lad or he fixed her lamp so she slept with him.
I don't know why ladies think their dating stories are cool or a great idea to tell others. Honestly people are not interested, and if they are its to dig your grave. Don't bond over dating stories. I am there for my friends... but its honestly a burden to hear about the same jerk twice, then another jerk and she doesn't learn. If you come to me, it's to fix the problem, not for sympathy for being an idiot for following your heart. Pay a therapist!
If your heart is broken, you are my friend of course I will comfort you. But its because your heart is broken, not because I give a damn about your dating story about mr temporary. He gives you a ring, or its your first whatever, I'm interested.
But the friends who hang every word on your dating story do so to triple the number of gentlemen, exaggerate the sex and tell the whole world. Be discreet. And then you will be taken as low body count.
Also don't be obvious saying tradition is bad, religion is bad - if you bristle against - you are not a traditional lady, and if you are not a traditional lady why should he marry you if he can get sex from modern ladies who are extremely beautiful for free or low cost? Or he'll marry you and do 50-50. If you are not a traditional lady why should he provide and marry? He can get a non-traditional one who splits 50-50, can be a partner, free maid, free chef, free surrogate, free baby factory.. why does he need to provide for you and marry you when modern ladies exist?
Today the only reason left to marry is either connections/status like you are a Rockerfeller, or being traditional.
If you are traditional you have to act traditional and act low body count. You can do so by valueing your body, and not making fun or light or putting down tradition... which screams RAN THROUGH.
One lady online said she was a virgin then married at 18. Hoo's said "oh but you have no experience." She told them "you have no experience being loyal and faithful to your boyfriends and husbands so shut up!" They turned red, so the story goes. In my experience and gentlemen tell me this, you can tell a "rant through" high body count lady because she is triggered by a low body count or genuinely traditional lady.
Rather than saying "hey I was I had half the partners I did and was more discerning" ... they always try to throw shade and the traditional lady, tradition, saying it doesn't matter. Flouseys are like brokeys who say money doesn't matter. Of course money matters. Yes love also matters. I think you can have both love and money. You don't need to say yes to abuse and money. You can say yes to love and money and have both.
Marriage is the fruit of tradition. Gentlemen also do it to advance their career or status - as in marry a rich girl they don't quite like to get ahead from her father's connections, build their business, get independent, divorce and grow. If they can have both love and money, even better. Look at Brooklyn Beckham, his wife wants to be famous and he wants to be rich. Her family are billionaires, Nicole Pelz. If you are not Nichole Pletz or Paris Hilton, why should anyone marry you? For being traditional.
So different ways to hide body count
- Don't sleep with them until engagement, wait more than three months like you are a virgin and have something to lose as much as you really really want to make love to that sexy gentleman. Controlling yourself and waiting will really convince them
- Dress like you have something to lose, like you are a virgin. Flirt but don't show you are too easy because you want your first time to be special
-Tell yourself "I'm a virgin now and I want my first time to be special" over and over. It's a lie but you can program yourself to act high value.
- Don't tell your girlfriends who you sleep with EVER. His name is always John... until he proposes.. then john was your ex and here is your new gentleman. You have sex with one gentleman, someone will say you slept with 3-4, and then one will hear it and think you slept with 12 people. When gentlemen collect intelligence from your girlfriends ... they can and will seduce them against you. Even a well meaning one can be manipulated into leaking information.
- Don't post anything against traditional, don't call elegant ladies rich grannies and only like sperm toilet clothes, etc. If you think religion is dumb, why should he marry you. Shuuuushhh... keep this to yourself and get the ring first. Sure some militant feminist atheist goddesses get married, but are you married? If you are struggling leave religion and tradition alone. It's the only reason he doesn't have to go 50-50 and has to provide for you. Don't shoot yourself in the foot.
- Don't attack traditional ladies and call them prudes or thumb your nose at religion and tradition except to your therapist, and don't get triggered by it because its a sign of being "ran through". Don't be like Jessica Mulroney getting triggered and my and Princess Catherine's elegance.
- when asked, give a small number. Also dress like its a small number.
- Do therapy and inner child work or your eyes will reveal your body count via the trauma. Build your self esteem. Your triggers will give you away.
- Be discreet and mysterious about your private life.
- Don't post luxury vacations on instagram, they immediately assume the wrong thing, same with Dubai.
- Don't talk about sex with gentlemen. Pretend to blush or smile and change the subject. Don't do sexy banter, keep changing the subject to talking about the weather or vacations, whatever. If he keeps doing it bring a contraversial topic like Trump.
- Watch videos of low body count girls and hang around them - you become what you consume. I noticed gentlemen thought innocent girls were wild and lower value because immigrant girls hung around wild western friends and the lowered boundaries and other things rubbed off so they thought they were flouseys like their friends. Watch what you read too. If you wear a flousey, limit your consumption of flousey content, watch Chinese dramas instead.
-we are what we consume and watch the most. Watch old hollywood and foreign films that value innocence.
- don't pretend to be a virgin, just say you used to be a feminist when you were much younger and rebelious, did things you regret that made you become the traditional lady you are today. Count them to test you, and pass the test by making them wait, which is all what matters, that they realize today you are exclusive.
What is too good to be true probably is. If you hear a rags to riches story where rich gentlemen shower you with wealth, you do nothing, have to give up or change nothing, and will get married, I have to tell you fairy stories don't exist.
Gentlemen aren't dumb and can read character. Yes a rich gentleman will give a gold rolex to a sperm toilet he's with because he feels generous and like being complimented one week, and feels stingy with a different sperm toilet who emptied his balls the next week because he had a bad day. They have COMPLETELY different standards for a wife.
A sperm toilet can dress sexy, it's better actually that he sees the goods he will unload his balls on that night. When he needs the bathroom badly it doesn't matter which bathroom he is using. It's not his dream girl.
When it's his dream wife its a whole other set of standards. You need to be mature, you need to be traditional or well connected or a celeb, you need to be able to hold a conversation even though he might duller than a door knob talking about his sand and cement business and hockey, you need to be elegant, his friends need to think you are some kind of a prize, you need to seem hard to get and seem low body count.
Finally why the low body count? Hermes issues few bags, walmart and Chanel issued many. When Chanel started making too many bags - the resale price of a Chanel bag is half now. Yes its half its value because of bag inflation. You see what's happening to your money? That's called inflation. Printing too much money incovid devalued it. You can also devalue your body through sex inflation, via a high body count reputation.
Gentlemen are hunters. Someone more EXCLUSIVE... ding ding ding like a luxury hotel .... is higher value. Ritz is higher value than motels because not everyone can stay at the Ritz. So why do you insist on eating there, on wearing exclusive things like a designer bag few can afford? To imply you are exclusive, a luxury prize, that he would be smart to marry.
The dumbest thing I have seen is a girl at the party in all designer labels, super elegant talking about all her lovers to her friends, swishing a Martini, thinking she was being fabulous on the set of Sex and the City. No darling its the age of Prawn Hub, we got social media now. It looked like a waste of designer bags and shoes. Her bags and shoes were exclusive, but her body wasn't. Then I overheard her complain "m44n are p1gs" and how she was mistreated by her last lovers.
Your body is your handbag. Study Hermes marketing and treat your body like it's a Birkin, and be exclusive with who has access to you, your time and body like its the Ritz, and people will treat you well.
Be the Birkin of your life.
It's not about being a religious fanatic. Religion is simply ancestoral wisdom that past the test of time and Hermes took the marketing strategy from there. People treat exclusive things, people and experiences that are harder to get much better.
Body count isn't about being a virgin, it's about being a Birkin.
Remember its the sexual control and impression of low body count that matters. Like "I am a traditional lady. I got pressured by boyfriends when I was younger, and peer pressured by mean girls. I regret this very much but I became more religious/traditional and made a vow to God not to do it until engagement." Then he will test you and don't let him get into your bed easily. That is a quality lady. That is a low divorce risk wife.
One gentlemen said he didn't want his children to drink from the breasts that were covered in the sperm of 100 other males.
Instead of being the homeless shelter, be the Ritz.
Be exclusive. Gucci lost its exclusivity but then gained it again. You can too. If you weren't a luxury experience in the past forgive yourself for not knowing. Today is a new day. You can rebuild your brand and no one will know you as anything but exclusive luxury like a Birkin!
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