🌹darling, I am never late; everyone else is simply early.💝

👑 RULES OF THE BLOG:

• I'm an adult and not catering to younger crowds here. this blog is intended for adults, but I won't block you just for being under 18.

• if you are under 18, I will be civil / cordial with you as long as you are with me. I don't initiate DMs/messaging with minors, but if you want to talk to me, you're welcome to send me a DM or an ask, and I’m willing to be friends if we hit it off. don’t be shy!

• if anything in your "DNI" describes me, don’t be surprised when I don’t follow you back or block you.

• if you see something you are uncomfortable with, it is your job to either scroll away, unfollow, or block me. your internet experience is your responsibility.

⚠️ THIS IS YOUR FINAL WARNING. THIS BLOG CONTAINS POTENTIALLY TRIGGERING CONTENT, INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO:

• depictions of gore and horror in art and film. the imagery is often graphic and realistic.

• sexual imagery and otherwise NSFW content (usually tasteful / artistic depictions).

• coarse language; swearing, suggestive text posts (and tags), and slur reclamation.

• discussion and jokes about various religions and spirituality, particularly US christianity, cults, and religious trauma. (for context, I was raised christian but do not consider myself one; a lot about the way I was taught about religion in my youth was traumatic, and I am simply not willing to censor my thoughts on the topic.)

• discussion of psychology and theories about the nature of certain mental illnesses / disorders such as grief, depression, anxiety, mania, bipolar disorder, CPTSD, as I have personal experience with all of those, as well as autism (which is a developmental disorder, not a mental illness). I have a minor in psychology, but I will never speak out of turn when it comes to personal experiences. if you catch me running my mouth in a reblog or in the tags and think I shouldn’t be, shoot me a DM about it and I'll assess my behavior accordingly, but I can't guarantee I'll agree with you or deliver the apology you're looking for.

• there are & will be posts that reference r*pe, s*xual assa*lt, and abuse, but never in a favorable manner; I reblog them to leave commentary about my own experiences in the tags. in this house we believe abuse is never the victim’s fault. victim blaming doesn't fucking fly here.

so here’s the deal: you can do with the above information what you will; click away, unfollow, block me, whatever you like, but don’t start shit with me. I don’t have the time nor the energy for it, and frankly I’m not going to argue with randos on the internet. I’ll just block you. the end. 👋don't piss me off.

however, if you stay, as long as you are respectful to me & my posts, I’ll be respectful to you & yours. I’m no christian, but I do my best to extend acceptance, understanding, love, and forgiveness where I can. however, at the end of the day, how you perceive me is your problem, not mine. I can’t help you if you don’t speak to me like a human being. instructions unclear? need it simpler? do me a favor and listen to this song. 🎵