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@us-being-us2
Asexual people who feel pressured into having sex when they don’t want to and queer people that are afraid or ashamed of having sex even though they want to are actually being repressed by the same societal forces but nobody seems to want to talk about that
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I remember when people pretended to care about bees for a few years because they were an indicator species and now I’m getting replies to that post like “idc if all bugs die as long as we get rid of mosquitos and flies and cockroaches” YOURE GONNA FUCKING DIE!!!!! WE WILL DIE TOO!!!!! WE WILL ALL DIE WITHOUT BUGS!!!! IM NOT KIDDING!!!!
if you tell an indigenous trans man to cut his long hair so that he "passes better" then im tying you to an anchor and dropping you in the middle of the ocean
“seriously?? defending narcissists? thats the hill you wanna die on?” Yes
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Help needed with vet bill for autistic person's ESA:
Venmo- @Bethany-Goff-1
Cashapp- $EzekielBethanyGoff
I need to take my cat to the vet for asthma that is worsening, and all told, after exam fees, chest x-rays, medication, and paying my cat sitter to take us there, it's going to be like $500. I only have like $60 on my care credit and got denied for scratch pay. I have pet insurance and will be reimbursed like $200 of it, but I need help having the money to begin with. If anyone can help:
Venmo- @Bethany-Goff-1
Cashapp- $EzekielBethanyGoff
So, I contacted our old vet who has seen my cat within the last year, and she was able to prescribe asthma medication without a visit or repeat x-ray. I paid for the medication and my cat sitter to pick it up- all told $35. I also made an error in calculation in my budget with trying to get what I need before service dog comes and replace my broken phone, and I need $85 to get back to baseline, $185 to be ready for a dog this month if one is found that soon, if anyone can still help. It's much less than $500, and I believe people might help me get back on my metaphorical feet here.
I'm selling this dog gear. $35 if you take all together, but i am willing to separate. It will just cost more. Buyer pays shipping. Everything is size small or extra small. The blurry image is size small black dog shoes with grip. I didn't want to open the package for someone else's shoes. Everything is brand new never touched a dog. Removable patches and matching leash included on the I <3 Mommy harness.
Spent some time outside with my aide yesterday. I was able to stay out longer than usual because so much sensory discomfort just melted away when I drove into the shade and because my aide stayed present with me this time, instead of being a source of sensory distress by having a loud phone conversation as we walked like last time. We walked in the sun (well, I rolled my powechair) around the building, and I showed her the dog relief area, since my dog will be coming soon, ans she may be helping. Then, we looked at everyone's gardens and identified as many plants as we could, which, having both grown up on homesteads, was most of them. Just not every flower. But all the food. You can see in the photo that my half a raised garden bed has just started with the native grass and native wildflowers sprouts from this year's planting, as well as volunteers from last year's flowers that I let go to seed so that native pollinators could overwinter in their stems and roots. After that, I was really overstimulated, but I happened to roll into the shade, and it helped a lot abd bought me more time outside. After a few more minutes, though, I saw that it was 3 minutes until my neighbor was supposed to come over for computer help (he no-showed twice yesterday), so we hurried back upstairs.
Help needed with vet bill for autistic person's ESA:
Venmo- @Bethany-Goff-1
Cashapp- $EzekielBethanyGoff
I need to take my cat to the vet for asthma that is worsening, and all told, after exam fees, chest x-rays, medication, and paying my cat sitter to take us there, it's going to be like $500. I only have like $60 on my care credit and got denied for scratch pay. I have pet insurance and will be reimbursed like $200 of it, but I need help having the money to begin with. If anyone can help:
Venmo- @Bethany-Goff-1
Cashapp- $EzekielBethanyGoff
The #rottie might have an issue with male dogs, which would disqualify him, so we're waiting for more info, but he's beautifully trained. The yellow lab mix is untrained, but we're evaluating for temperament because training can always be done after I get him. #servicedog #servicedogcandidate
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Dopamine Seeking
Do any other ADHDers or autistic folks find that they try to wring every last drop of dopamine out of every activity that actually gives a registerable amount of dopamine, to the point that they're wildly overstimulated/feeling ill/ no longer having and enjoyable time by the time they stop? Does anyone have trouble recognizing when to stop/ a stopping point not dictated by these uncomfortable feelings that persist after stopping? Suggestions/hacks/coping strategies? Trouble with transitions and task switching doesn't help.
Screw ‘narcissistic abuse awareness day’
Your abuse was valid. Your ableism is not.
Narcissistic people don’t have some special secret way of abusing people that no one else is capable of doing.
If a NPD haver happened to be abusive, they’d use the regular abuse tactics every other shitty person uses.
Autistic people can be abusive, but we don’t call it autistic abuse. People with cerebral palsy can be abusive, but we don’t call it cerebral palsy abuse.
Being abusive is a choice, having a personality disorder is not.
Blame the person, not the disorder.
”autistic people don’t do [ extremely common higher support need , higher level autistic trait / symptom ] , that just stereotype”
you need include us too : you need include childish autistic person , you need include nonverbal autistic person , you need include autistic person who drool , you need include autistic people with intellectual disability , you need include autistic person with loud messy public meltdowns .
can not hide behind “it just stereotype” because that not true . there are many people very disabled by autism , you need remember us and include us .
you cannot talk about the homophobic murder of jonathan joss without including in the conversation that he is indigenous.
american indian men are at the 2nd highest risk of death by murder compared to all other ethnic groups. in their lifetimes, 82% of native men report having experienced domestic violence. yet the overwhelming majority of perpetrators are non-natives (88% of native men and 92% of native women who reported violence said their attacker was non-native). what’s more, tribal governments are often stymied in their attempts to bring justice against non-natives, meaning that many of these cases go unresolved.
this was an intersectional attack. the fact that he is indigenous matters, even if the motivation was homophobic, because it made him even more vulnerable and disposable in the eyes of his killer.
as always, look into MMIWP to learn more, and speak up for us. miigwetch, take care
Was challenged to take a picture of something that makes me happy today, so here's my cat friend, my plant friend, and my friend Sol.
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I got really dysregulated this morning. My autism coach picked me up, and I thought we were going to my primary care provider's small, quiet office to get my bimonthly I injection. I know everyone there, and they know me. I know the environment and what to expect, and it's only moderately overstimulating in the waiting room, where I spend minimal time because they know it's hard for me. I don't need nearly as many coping tools there as in other environments. But when we stopped, we were not there. We were at the big hospital, to see a new specialist, and I didn't have much charge on my AAC device, didn't have my noise canceling Headphones, didn't have a hood or scarf, didn't have sunglasses, didn't have anything to do for the longer time in the waiting room, etc. I felt totally unprepared, not to mention dysregulated by suddenly being somewhere I didn't expect to be. I remain dtsregulated even now that I'm home. I didn't have a full meltdown, but my autism coach is good at keeping me regulated, and it's the most dysregulated I've been with him around in years.
I find it really dysregulating if my aides arrive early/late, even by 1 minute, and even more so if they leave early or late when I budgeting my spoons, needs, and social battery around their scheduled time. But my weekend aide consistently leaves 8-15 minutes early, and it stresses me out and uses tons of spoons with me trying not to have a meltdown about it. Neither of my aides speak much English, and 8ve never had an aide who understands autism, and I don't know how to explain that this is extremely dysregulating when that isn't "normal".
