Ik makeup is not something ppl like here, but what do you think abt creative make up/ goth/ emo ones?
Cuz, honestly, some make up are really fascinating... Im not talking about something like "I can't go nowhere without it", but what falls as a self expression/ art category. Is it still falling under the "makeup is oppressive" thing?
(ohhhh im totally not asking for myself cuz i need an advice....ohhhhhhh)
I have thought about this topic a bit in the last day and came to basically these three conclusions:
A lot of women use makeup to attract men or engage in intrasexual competition. This is the most mainstream make up. I don't support this because when you listen to those women, it sounds absolutely exhausting to engage in this mental illness.
A lot of subculture makeup (like og goth) clearly doesn't exist to enhance youth or beauty, but to signal group belonging and have fun. I support them, keep having fun, that's what we're here for.
People will treat you better if you look better and will have a better first impression of you. This is a well replicated occurrence, the goddamn incels are actually right about this one. For those women who need to negotiate with others, fit in and have a highly social job where they want to succeed, using the means to look better (including make-up) can genuinely be used as a social tactic, even though they internally don't want to attract any man. I came to this conclusion after talking to Immigrant, so shout out to her.
I like it when women don't wear make-up, but I also like categories 2 and 3. I think women should be free to have fun in any subculture, and to do anything that furthers themselves. If "furthering themselves" includes trying to look better because people treat better-looking people better and they tend to have success more easily, then so be it. I didn't make the schizophrenic rules of societies, but I think it'd be comparable to shooting yourself in the foot to not use them to your advantage.
I don't know to which degree this is an unpopular opinion among BPs and BP adjacent people. People seem to be more heavily anti-makeup for any reason under any circumstances here, and I get why. It's annoying, disruptive, I hate it too, it's not always healthy, and it replicates beauty standards. But I'm individualistic: do anything that allows you to have fun, or further yourself, but do not torture yourself with make-up for the sake of a man.