I am completely fed up by this point. So I am going to lay this down hard and cold. I will not hold back.
I donât hate many people, Iâm not the kind of person to hold a grudge. This doesnât mean that I canât find people unbarably irritating. It doesnât mean that there are people in this world that donât cause me internal anguish. The people that cause me more distress than any other type of human beings are goddamned transtrenders.
It is someone who says that they are transgender as a fashion statement. They donât think theyâre trending but theyâre easy to spot. They usually ask for a they/he or they/she pronoun picks (or maybe even made up bullshit). They also feel like gender is a social construct, and feel like we shouldnât have gender because it is just some kind of government controlling scheme or perhaps damaging to society. Because of this, they tend to not dress as the selected gender- because fuck normative thinking. Their last symptom is that they believe that you donât need to have dysphoria to be transgender.
Let me rephrase that, using the medical terms regarding gender reassignment desires.
They believe that you do not have to have dysphoria to suffer from gender dysphoria.
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I can hear them grinding their teeth already. If you feel like you might be called out by the above paragraph, sweethart, youâre a transtrender. Iâm calling you out on your bullshit today.
I suffer from gender dysphoria. I am not about to tell you all my symptoms because it would be like handing you the blueprints to something and risking you calling them your own. Iâm not telling you these facts because I think less of you, or want to belittle you. You should feel happy that you arenât suffering with an illness! Celebrate. REJOYCE.
Iâm going to lay down some ground rules here, and the first one is going to be a very clear point.
-it IS okay to explore your comfort zones with your body may it be your gender, appearance or otherwise.
-it IS okay to go âbackâ on your gender decision. Have you learned that you might actually be happy with yourself? THATS OK.
-it IS okay to wear whatever you want regardless of the âclothesâ assigned gender.
With all that said, letâs continue.
I see it way too much lately. Someone presenting, living as female with a gender neutral name, going out dressed effeminatly doing feminine things, born femaleâŠ. telling everyone theyâre a man.
You have no goddamn idea what dysphoria is, do you???
Do you know how it fucking feels to have these features highlighted and put on display?
Do you actually think that because you feel comfortable in a mans shirt- that you can sometimes occasionally do masculine makeup and think it would be better if you were a man, so that itâs easier to cosplay guysâ- do you actually think that classes you as transgender????
Thatâs not being transgender. You just lack the creativity to find methods of changing your appearance without desiring some kind of cheat sheet.
Especially if you cosplay girls
âItâs CROSSDRESSINGâ
I think you miss the goddamn point here. That just proves that you arenât transgender.
Not because youâre cosplaying your bio gender- oh no. Itâs because youâre clearly comfortable presenting that body shape. You clearly have no issues with stereotypically effeminate things being emphasised on show for all to see-
âGuess Iâll stop cosplaying girls thenâ was that your thought just now? Adjusting your habits to try and force the symptom?
âGenders a social construct!â
No, itâs not. Gender- your biological sex is a fact.
The way people dress, walk, talk and act- these a stereotypes BASED on gender.
Stereotypes are grown and based on facts that take to the majority of a group of individuals who all have a trait (out of their control) in common.
When you- by biological fella, wear girls hot pants because they hug your ass sweetly- youâre breaking stereotype.
You know heels were made for men, right? A break in stereotype means women now typically wear heels- but some men do too- does this make them transgender? It does not. Do you think these guys would rather identify as female? Absolutely not.
Does it mean a biological girl who identifies as a man should have the right to wear heels? Oh theybhave a right. Absolutely. What kind of heels? Pink fluffy stilettos? Okay but just so you know, youâre going to be swaying that booty, walking like a queen. If youâre comfortable with those parts of your body being enhanced then youâre not suffering with body dysphoria.
Thatâs what dysphoria is. These body parts are so alien to you, like every morning you wake up in someone elseâs body. Every single day what you feel like you look like and what you see donât align. Somethings wrong, this shirt doesnât fit me like it fits the other girls. Iâve tried all shapes sizes and body types yet when I look all I feel is sick. I look like a man in drag- maybe I am a man in drag.
Want to get your tits out? Iâm happy for you. Iâm happy you can stand the public staring at them. Thinking about how weird you look- Iâm glad you can stand the thought of people believing youâve got something wrong with you- or donât you have those thoughtsâŠ?
Because if you really donât find the issue of showing your feminine exclusive parts as much as possible a difficult task, then I fail to see the utter detachment and abandonment of the idea that certain appendeges existed.
Oh my god. This is a fucking laugh. I was binding even before I came out to anyone as Male. Iâve been binding for a very long time. That doesnât mean I didnât flash the boobs, but tucking them away ended up being so much better. I tried to get them out and I tried to be pretty and flaunt the amazing tits I have.
But still I looked in the mirror and felt like⊠I was wearing someone elseâs shirt or something. Like I was wearing shoes that didnât belong to me.
I love boobs. My girlfriend has an amazing body- I desire to touch it and hold it. But I feel so off of i were to picture myself in her body.
I donât think it would fix anything, looking as beautiful as her.
But I digress- boobs, binding. A transtrenders obsession and need to remind people how long theyâve been binding. Like itâs some extreme danger, an extreme health risk.
âI have been binding for like 20 hours manâ
Some kind of desire to get someone to tell you to take it off? What is it? I donât get that.
Fuck, I donât want people to know I have a binder on.
I hate the thing!!!! Get it off me- I canât stand the sight of me. Let me wear it again.
This binders like a bad drug and I donât want people to hear it. No please donât tell me to take it off, please.
My girlfriend said I needed to wash it- I cried,
That means going without it!!
Iâm asthmatic, too. Restriction on the chest are bad right? Not if youâre wearing the right size. If youâre not breathing right, the binder you wearnis too tight, get a new one- itâs not that fucking complicated.
I donât care how long youâve been wearing it, this is not a competition. If you shouldnât be wearing it take it the fuck off and shut up.
âI binded today. It felt good uwuâ
Fuck off. Binding feels aweful. I hate this crutch.
I am very tired right now. So Iâm Going to stop. I might make a part 2. Iâm basically sick of seeing girls post this cute boi soft aesthetic like its some pretty bracelet, yet still finding so much comfort in their shells- and Iâm sat here feeling pathetic and unable to do so. Not even in the slightest.
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