Uniquely Plural is the tag for a community based on radical acceptance of all possible types of plurality. Since we decided to start it, we have gotten some amazing messages, learned about some real cool stuff, and found out that we actually share some things we felt no one else experienced!
We would absolutely love it if even more people joined in!
You can be a system of any kind, someone into daemonism, tulpamancy, soulbonding, or anything else that makes you feel connected to plurality! You are also welcome to join in if you're questioning if you are plural at all.
Tell us about your unique experiences of plurality! The ways you differ from "what's expected", the things that make specific labels not quite fit, the stuff you're scared to talk about off anon for fear of gatekeeping. Or just your personal journey with it all :)
We would love to hear about it, and celebrate the ways we are all different, while finding solidarity and building community! 💜
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Man. Having your own emotions eated by the relevant headmate is so weird when you’re median and/or monoconcious. I remember being you but the things you felt are completely foreign to me now despite knowing they existed and what they were. Hello
I'm not plural myself but I have an OC who is and as someone who has a few heavily stigmatized stuff, I REALLY don't want anything harmful slipping through accidentally in their character!
If I may, can you go a bit more in depth of what it's like to the best of your ability?
Like what it's like to try and communicate with an altar? What a day-to-day is like? Altars relationship dynamics? Ect ect, that would be very helpful!
Sorry if this question is a bother or insensitive btw,,,
The answers to these questions vary a great amount! There's many different possibilities. So it's not easy to reply, because plural experiences, including for ppl w DID and DID systems, can be really different and individual.
However, this is a good general guide on writing a plural character.
This is a website with a lot of resources to learn more about DID.
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System mapping is the process of making a model of your system in some way.
Many systems make system maps. A system list is a system map in one of its simplest forms, but there are a lot of other kinds of system maps that people might make to get more information. Some system maps might show internal structure and lines of communication. Some show relationships or opinions. Some show common themes and differences between system members. Etc.
There's really no wrong way to make a map. What matters is that the map is useful to you- it should give you information that helps you work with your system better. It might give you a better understanding of why your system works the way it does, or it might tell you who might need support or who might need to work on establishing communication.
Communication
Sometimes, it can be useful to map out who in your system can talk to whom. This is a very simple kind of map to make, and it gives you useful information about your system that ranges from "huh, these two can't reach each other" to "there's a gap here- are we missing someone?"
Lay out every known system member on a piece of paper. If two people can talk to each other, draw a line between them. If the communication is one-way only, draw an arrow. If two people can't reach each other, don't connect them. If two people can reach each other indirectly but you don't know who's linking them together like that, draw a line with a gap in it.
You might also add dotted lines for weak or unreliable communication, or other kinds of lines for other special cases.
Relationship
It can be helpful to know how different system members get along (or don't). Relationships in a system can be mapped with something similar to a shipping diagram, and looking at the resulting map can make it very obvious if someone is overall liked, disliked, rejected, etc. It can also point out interesting patterns in who gets along and who doesn't.
Draw your system members arranged in a circle. Then, draw color-coded (or otherwise coded- make a key) lines between members that like each other, dislike each other, or have other important opinions about each other.
Structure
Sometimes, drawing the arrangement of your system can teach you how to work with it better.
If two people feel close to each other (e.g. they may have unusually easy communication, common interests or themes, common issues, etc.), then draw them close together. If two people feel far apart (e.g. poor communication, lots of differences and disagreements, don't really understand each other), then draw them far apart.
By the end of this, you have a map that shows you which people are clustered together and which people are disconnected, rejected, or otherwise pushed away. This can be very useful when trying to bring any cast-out people closer to the rest of your group, as it can make isolation very obvious.
You can also map other aspects of system structure. For example, you might consider mapping the relationship between the different places that people can occupy in your system (front, back, etc.):
This kind of map can be very abstract sometimes. We have a few structure maps that we've made over the years, and they probably don't make a ton of sense to people that aren't in our group, but they've helped us a lot.
You might also consider mapping associations. What colors are associated with your system members? Do they have common themes or imagery? Does everyone associated with the color green have a hard time talking to people associated with blue? Are powerful people usually associated with certain species?
Timeline
Sometimes, it can be helpful to make a timeline of important life events that happened to your group. If you have guesses about when some people showed up or changed, then putting those dates on the timeline can give you insight into what those people might be dealing with.
Content warning for trauma, suicide and egocide, and general unpleasantry if you read this one. We censored the most sensitive parts (and those we'd simply prefer to keep private), but it's still heavier than the other maps in this post.
Headspace
If your headspace is possible to map, then sometimes mapping it can teach you something about your system. It doesn't have to be very detailed to help, nor does it have to be entirely logical.
We don't have the one headspace map we've made in easy reach, unfortunately, and it's out of date. That said, conventional land mapping tricks will often work for places in headspace. Recreating headspace in a game like The Sims or Minecraft is also an option.
If multiple places overlap, then consider making a pop-up map or otherwise representing that overlap- it can be useful information. Likewise, if parts of headspace correspond to parts of your body or parts of your system, then it can be helpful to make a note about that.
Adapting for Large and Complex Systems
Larger systems may not all fit on one piece of paper. Complex systems may not fit on a 2D surface at all- there might be layers involved that need a 3D surface. System mapping still works for these cases, but you may need to approach it a little differently.
Try mapping your system's subgroups instead of individual people.
Try making multiple maps for different "regions" of the system. Consider including information on how those maps connect together.
Make good use of color coding and keys to pack more information into a smaller space.
Try mapping by using digital drawing programs and tools. A digital canvas can be much larger than a physical one.
Try mapping in 3D. Make a sculpture, stack sheets of paper, fold the paper, use the back side, draw a 3D shape, and experiment with other ways of arranging the map to better reflect your situation.
Use multiple kinds of map. Each map is likely to have part of the overall picture, and looking at them together is likely to give you useful information about how it all fits together.
Finally: system mapping is not required. It can be helpful for some systems, but it won't work for everyone, and some systems find that it harms them or makes their lives harder to live. If mapping doesn't work for you, then that's okay- there are plenty of other ways to get to know your system better. Do what works.
Basically, I’m what you’d call a plurallet I think? Tho I find vaguely plural a much funnier term so we’re rolling with it. I don’t really have headmates, instead its like I willo a second me to talk to who dissappears after? Its more complicated than that but thats my easiest answer. I have been doing this since I was very young as a way to get my chaotic thoughts in order ig, though anytime I’d actually type stuff out instead of keeping it in my thoughts I’d either make an effort for it to look “normal” or I’d play it off as a joke, like look at me, I’m so silly I’m bullying myself lol. I still sometimes struggle with the urge to do stuff to appear more normal, because I’m not plural. I’m just me. But I guess I really can’t say I’m singlet either huh.
-The vaguely plural cryptid
Plurallet is an interesting term we weren't familiar with! Thank you so much for sharing your uniquely plural experience :)
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So I know yall accept all types of plurality but I wanted to make sure because I’m nit entirely plural but I’m also not singlet? Just wanted to know if that was still in the spirit of the blog.
- Some vaguely plural cryptid?
Absolutely! A lot of people identify with this as median plurality, but every degree of vague plurality and in-between state is totally welcome here 💜 If you ever feel like expanding more on your unique experience, we'd be happy to hear about it!
Everyone experiences plurality differently, there is no right way to be a system. Even if you're endogenic, willogenic, or traumagenic, or others, they're all important and valid
Take some time today to do something nice for your headmates. Take some time to think and sit with yourself and tell yourself that you're valid and your experiences are real.
Your system is beautiful and nobody can decide how it runs other than you.
Here’s some positivity for introjects whose source is no longer popular!
Sometimes celebrities and media can come in and out of style. Not always is an introject’s source going to be popular, and that’s okay! If you’re an introject whose source used to be popular or have a big following, please know that you’re still special and important just the way you are. This post goes out to y’all!
🌸 Shoutout to introjects whose source was something that went viral or was intensely popular for a brief period of time!
🌹 Shoutout to introjects whose source was popular many years or decades ago!
🌼 Shoutout to introjects who wish their source was as popular as it/they used to be!
🌷 Shoutout to introjects who are trying to create content for or revive their source’s fandom!
🪻 Shoutout to introjects who are relieved that their source is not as popular as it/they used to be!
🌺 Shoutout to introjects whose source comes and goes in fame or popularity!
🌻 Shoutout to introjects whose source is not popular anymore due to being cancelled or called out for harmful/bigoted behavior!
🥀 Shoutout to systems who have been fakeclaimed in the past due to having an introject with a previously popular source!
💐 Shoutout to introjects whose systems do not engage with their source as much due to it not being as popular as it used to be!
Regardless of how you feel about your source’s lack of popularity, please know that your worth and value as an introject and as a member of your system has nothing to do with how many people are interested in your source! You still matter, and your life has worth just the way it is. We hope that you can take care of yourselves and have a wonderful day today!
If a new plural-focused app like Concordia were created, what features would you want to see?
What works well in current tools like Simply Plural or Octocon? What features feel missing or could be improved?
The goal of The Concordia Project is to build something shaped by the community, so hearing what people actually want from a plural app is incredibly valuable! Sharing this post helps a lot!
With the recent announcement about SimplyPlural winding down, a lot of people are looking to move their information elsewhere.
Different people will have different priorities when deciding where to put their system documentation. It's okay if you want to keep using online services to track your system if that's what works for you! (Please keep backups, though- I promise that losing all of your documentation when a service goes down is a bigger loss of time than keeping a local copy of it all.)
If you'd rather not shuffle your information from online service to online service in the future, then there are a lot of different ways to track who's in your system that don't depend on someone else's computer being kept on. We personally find art-based methods to be the most helpful for our group, but you might find that other methods work better for you. Try out a few different options and see what sticks!
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umm idk where to get information on this so i'm gonna ask here because maybe you know. recently i tried to join a discord server for disability and they kept interrogating me about what i think about "endogenics" and saying that they were fakers and harmful to systems.. now i barely understand what a system is much less all these other big words, i like to think i'm accepting of most people's experiences even if i can't say i understand them, i ended up getting banned from this server because they "do not accept neutral stances" which was confusing and honestly feels a bit mean, do you think you could explain if you don't mind? i'm not sure how much sense this makes as i'm currently dealing with a lot of brain fog. i hope you have a nice day
It seems like you've stumbled into "system discourse", friend. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. You should not have to be interrogated about this when you're seeking community with other disabled people.
We believe plurality, the experience of being more than one, exists in many different forms. Some are disordered, some are natural, some are adaptive, some are spiritual, some are cultural... you get the idea. We accept everyone.
Some people however believe that there's only one way to be plural / a system. They believe in a strict medical model where you need to have a specific dissociative disorder, or you are 'faking' / lying. They believe any deviation from an unified self is by necessity an illness. They try to deny many plural people and systems the ability to define their own identities and experiences.
A lot of them do it because they are hurt, suffering, and lashing out, often repeating misconceptions they've heard others spread before. They can be very hostile about this, as you've experienced.
This is a positivity blog so I won't get any deeper into it, but I hope this explanation helped a little.