This is the Nightmare Scenario

dusting off my tumblr for one split second to ask the FFXIV people of tumblr if ANYONE knows that comic where hades made the wol bigger and hyth was teasing him about not knowing what a fetish is coz he was saying something like "is this a sex thing" like PLEASE if anyone out in the wild knows where that comic is send it to me i've been looking for it for ages PLEASEEEE I FORGOR WHO WAS THE ARTIST I'M DYING TO SEE HYTH'S STUPID FACE AGAINN

PEOPLE OF TUMBLR YOU NEVER DISAPPOINT ME THANK YOU THANK YOU EVERYONE

i saw this somewhere else but reply / tag what you did today so everyone can see that we all did something different today

both trans men and trans women are punished for our proximity to both feminity and masculinity. people decide when we are men or women based on what is the WORST option at the moment. we both get treated like women only when someone needs to infantalize us or call us bossy, bitchy, stupid, vapid. we both get treated like men when someone wants to demonize and paint us as violent, predatory, abusive, perverted. NONE of us are benefiting from any gendered privilege, because we are always treated like the worst of either gender depending on the scenario. this is something all trans people experience, regardless of agab, both trans men and trans women. so why do we assume that the other side has the opposite experience as us?? why do you think that because your life as a trans man or a trans woman is painful, that a trans person of a different gender must have the opposite experience?? like i just dont get the preschool level understanding of gender like "well boys and girls are opposites so of course our experiences are opposites too" we are living the same transphobia and if you cant see it you need to listen to other people more

burnout from not doing anything

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