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Is it intersexist? There's a male character who happens to have an extra urethral orifice due to a fictionalized medical condition. There's a scene where a cis guy threatens him with pretty much genital mutilation if he doesn't allow his cis gf to penetrate him (all done in the name of medical curiosity ofc, completely unsexual) but I got these weird... vibes from it? Not to mention that the male character in question is portrayed as filthy/creepy/borderline p*d*philic/really weird for refusing to be surgically "fixed". (The show in question is "The Artful Dodger" the character appears in the last three episodes of the second season).

I hate how people only recommended transfeminist authors who have a history of exorsexism. You got people like Talia Bhatt calling enbies "theyfabs" and denying the history of the term. Then there's Julia Serano coining terms like "intellectually genderqueer" for people who are only transgender/genderqueer to shatter gender binaries not because it's "personal" IN 2024! Like I want to read more transfeminist theory and history but I also don't want to read from people who are bigoted towards people like me and my siblings.

I was dating someone who used any pronouns. I would switch pronouns when talking about him and tell people that she uses any pronouns. Everyone would always default to using she/her pronouns for them. I also only referred to him as my partner, but people would always call them my girlfriend.

someone with "cis men and minors DNI" in their bio just liked my post....