Trans Boy Confessions

Not shaving and not wearing make up are literally nonbehaviors. They’re a complete lack of action. But doing nothing is considered masculine because women are not allowed to just be. this goes double for trans women.

reblog this version because transmisogynists don’t know how to fuck off.

Trans people just existing is no more sexual than when cis people just exist.

I don’t like how I’m kinda expected to rewrite the first 20 years of my life just because I’m trans. I was the eldest daughter in a black household. I can’t go back and edit my history to say I was the eldest son, cuz that doesn’t accurately convey the certain standards I was held to. I was the only girl in my engineering class. I can’t leave out the “girl” part. It recontextualizes the entire situation. I don’t think either of those facts invalidates my current gender and I don’t think trans people should be expected to rewrite their own history in fear of that

No I genuinely don't think there's any better wording of the last part

i think queerplatonic relationship kinda got the same treatment as nonbinary where people assume its a special third relationship status directly between the romance and friendship binary. which it CAN be but its also an umbrella for "literally anything that isnt quite friends and isnt quite romance" you can be official queerplatonic partners or you can just be something unspoken and undefinable. you can be fuckin homestuck moirails for all i care. its all queerplatonic babey. thats the point.

contrary to what many folks are trying to make the popular general opinion, there are actually a large number of trans women + transfems who view trans men + transmascs as really the only other type of people in this world who understand what it means to have to fight in such a specific way before we’re able to live in this world as ourselves, and vice versa. don’t forget it. we’re more alike than we are different. we have more in common with each other than anyone who hasn’t ever had to fight to live as who they are and most of us recognize that and center that above any difference between us. do not let yourself forget that. we are strong together. we are beautiful together. we can’t do this without each other. do not let the very vocal minority that centers fear, division, and emphasis on our differences shut you away from all the love that is available to you. I’m sorry things are like this. Please don’t forget that we do have some power to make things less awful for each other. It won’t cure everything but it will make it easier to keep going, to keep fighting. there are more friends than enemies.

My gender is a trail of sickness leading to me, if I am haunted then you will see

It is inherently fun and sexy to say statements that swap the traditional genders of pronouns and terms mid-statement, such as: "I'm going to make him my wife" "She's my boyfriend" "Who says a guy can't be a pretty princess?" "That girl's the coolest dude I've ever met" "She's a madman who has to be stopped" "It's not his fault he's a material girl" Gender is a set of watercolors and the prettiest shades come from mixing the paints together.

Please refer to me this way

Women are my favorite guy