Wolfgirl, but puppy

"no you dont understand my trans man friend is getting harassed so hard by trans women on tumblr" ok i am not saying harassment is cool but pray tell what is he doing to specifically attract the ire of trans women, and not just like, general harassment for being trans. surely its not being a massive fucking transmisogynist. (looks inside) (its transmisogyny and TMRA bullshit)

im just so fucking tired. i continue to beat this drum knowing people are probably getting fed up with me for doing so because this shit is fucking feminism and intersectionality 101 and people continue to not be able to clear it. what are you doinggggg

i had someone claim i was victim blaming so let me spell it out for ppl who might not get it: if you claim youre being "harassed" specifically by trans women i am going to assume you instigate bullshit and then when they retort you pull DARVO and cry that youre the one being harassed actually. because literally every time that is the fucking case. i know that playbook bc i grew up with MEN who did that to me all the time. i know good and damn well trans women have better shit to do than instigate a fight with you.

Ok goodnight chat. Don't forget about lesbian scenarios involving a woman with an average sized penis and a woman with a neopussy

I wasn't expecting this to go anywhere but the keyboard is 8vim! it's not perfect, it notably can't do emojis and obviously typing is gonna be slower than proficient two thumb typing, but for my clumsy self this is largely competing with swipe typing, and I'll always take the speed hit to not deal with autosuggest

this post is awesome because it gets everyone in the world thinking they're the funniest people on the planet into my notifications to be gigantic assholes about the thing I use as an accessibility tool. and yet I can't lock it. because its spreading awareness about an accessibility tool and has already gotten several people to give it a shot and install it. so in unrelated news I think I'm going to start killing people

it's cool how in the 6 years since this tweet was written it's become significantly less useful not because anything has gotten better but because the majority of products on Amazon are now from fly-by-night brands called "ZZPORK" and "GLUM4PANT"

it’s not too late to give communist rimjobber princess its crown back

gameoverse seems fun enough. but the cynical feminist in me can't help herself. all the male characters are like, cartoon blobs, which is contrasted strongly by the two major female characters in this pilot, both of whom are hour-glass shaped humanoid women who spend most of their screentime in swimsuits. and like that's not an outright dealbreaker but i *am* staring into the camera with my eyebrows raised.

idk i'm getting really tired of this "connecticut clark and malfina" type shit where male characters get to be Silly Abstract Little Guys but women have to be women shaped. it's this male-as-default thing that i hate where you don't need to add anything to a character design to imply male-ness but the woman better have wide hips and booba or else yknow like idk it's not outright Offensive but it is tiring

I really think the more you pay attention to transmisogyny the more you realize that it often justifies itself using (somewhat) different rhetoric from garden variety misogyny, and yet its end goals are the same, it applies pressure to push you in the same directions. its justifications serve as a smokescreen to make it look like it's Definitely Not Just Misogyny Trust Me I'm Not A Misogynist

the great thing about trans women is you can be as misogynistic to us as you like and there are plenty of easy rhetorical tricks to cloak this fact. add on to this the fact that people are already predisposed not to believe that misogyny against us is really misogyny and you've got the perfect recipe to ensure we're a class of Women You're Allowed to Abuse

People always have a lot to say about caregiver fatigue, but no one gives a shit about the shame of being taken care of. I think it's even heavier than caregiving. As a caregiver, you can always take a break. But when you're on the other side, the shame never ends.

Caregiver fatigue and empathy fatigue are just deeply uninteresting topics to me. Sorry. Can we talk instead about building a world where help isn't rationed according to how likeable someone is?

We have the capacity to honour the fatigue of caregivers and that of those who require caregiving, for the betterment of all society we can honour, support and raise up both. Imagining society as a competition is a capitalist concept. Envision a society in which care is not rationed, because the cost is managed by the State.

sometimes you catch sight of just how funny the median TME person finds the suffering of trans women and you just want to tear everything to pieces

and there's dozens of people who claim to be allies that run cottage industries that profit off this exact path and once you see it you realize how really true it is that you only have your sisters to depend on.

you’re jerking off and suddenly my leitmotif starts playing