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do you think they know how much they contributed to online literacy? to the spirit of curiousity? to the idea of doing research yourself instead of always having it laid out in front of you?
do you like enemies to lovers bc itās hot or do you like enemies to lover bc you miss screaming and fighting and kissing in the rain and itās 2 am and iām cursing your name so in love that you act insane and thatās the way i loved you???
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Can we just talk about the beauty of queerplatonic relationships and alterous attraction? Or of polyamorous relationships, or t4t relationships, just. Love outside of the predeterminedĀ ānormā society sets out for us. the joy and comfort that comes from them, the trust and safety of having people who care for you, and knowing that it isnāt in the traditional sense but that itās still just as wonderful and loving?? Iām going to write a paper on this sort of thing this summer, calledĀ āLove in the Loosest Senseā because itās all Iāve been thinking about recently.
if andrew garfield has millions of fans i am one of them. if andrew garfield has ten fans i am one of them. if andrew garfield has only one fan that is me. if andrew garfield has no fans, that means i am no longer on earth. if the world is against andrew garfield, i am against the world.
i have never experienced a theater that had so much energy... like even endgame/infinity war wasn't as chaotic but people were SCREAMING CRYING LAUGHING ERUPTING IN CHEERS FOR SPIDERMAN NO WAY HOME IT WAS SUCH A VIBE
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can society please stop acting like not taking pain medicine is some kind of moral victory?unnecessary suffering is not a badge of honor you should expect people to wear proudly.
I think we, as a general community, need to start taking this little moment more seriously.
This, right here? This is asking for consent. Itās a legal necessity, yes, but it is also you, the reader, actively consenting to see adult content; and in doing so, saying that you are of an age to see it, and that youāre emotionally capable of handling it.
You find the content you find behind this warning disgusting, horrifying, upsetting, triggering? You consented. You said you could handle it, and you were able to back out at any time. You take responsibility for yourself when you click through this, and so long as the creator used warnings and tags correctly, you bear full responsibility for its impact on you.
āChildren are going to lie about their ageā is probably true, but thatās the problem of them and the people who are responsible for them, not the people that they lie to.
If youāre not prepared to see adult content, created by and for adults, donāt fucking click through this. And if you do, for all thatās holy, donāt blame anyone else for it.
Except this is the last line of consent before the actual work. So if youāre at this button you have already done the following:
1) chosen to go onto AO3 in the first place
2) chosen the fandom you wish to read about
3) had the chance to filter for the things you do want to see like a specific pairing or a specific AU
4) had the chance to specifically filter out any tags you donāt want to see like, oh I donāt know, incest and non-con and dub-con and paedophilia
5) had the chance to set the rating level if you wish to remove any explicit content at all
6) have read the summary of the story, which arenāt always great but are the only indicator of what the story will be like writing wise so something about it was good enough for you to click on it.
7) have read the tags of the story which will tell you what is actually in the story. If you have used filters to remove stories with things you donāt want then there shouldnāt be anything in here thatās a shock to you but maybe there is. Thatās why the tags are there for you to check for yourself.
8) Then you have to actually click on the story. You cannot see anything other than the summary or the tags without personally deciding that you are going to open and read this story.
9) Only here, at step number nine, do you get to the adult content warning pictured above. You have been through eight different steps, the last six of which have also been opportunities for you to see that this has adult content. And AO3 has *STILL* stopped you to ask one last time āare you sure you want to read this because it has things that only adults should see in itā.
If after this point you are reading incest and paedophilia then itās probably because you specifically went looking for it.
āYou find the content you find behind this warning disgusting, horrifying, upsetting, triggering? You consented. You said you could handle it, and you were able to back out at any time. You take responsibility for yourself when you click through this, and so long as the creator used warnings and tags correctly, you bear full responsibility for its impact on you.ā
Stop complaining with writers when you dislike a story FGS
This also works when stories are tagged, oh say, infidelity. If you donāt want to read about someone in your OTP being unfaithful (I.E., HAVING SEX WITH A DIFFERENT PERSON), donāt read that freaking story. The tags are there for YOU. So stop complaining when the story contains exactly what the author says it contains. Freaking hell.
If I go to the supermarket, walk down the fish aisle, pick up a salmon fillet, pay for it, take it home, put it in the oven, wait for it, take it out, then take a biteā¦
I cannot complain to Tesco that I donāt like fish.
I have never accidentally read an incest fic on Ao3. Itās clear to me that these angry moralizers are actively looking for the content they rail against and taking their post-nut guilt out on others.
And one more thing, even after all of the above, if you start reading a fic, YOU CAN ALWAYS STOP READING IT!! If youāre reading and decide itās not for you, hit the damn back button.
You and only you can force yourself to read the entire thing.
Iāve done this. Iām an over 50 broad and if Iām reading something and it takes a turn I find icky, I stop reading and go find something else. Honestly, donāt be so damn stupid.
It occurs to me that most neurotypicals donāt seem to actually know what a special interest is.
āregular interest, but Moreā doesnāt fully express it for me. I like to refer to special interests as āsubstrateā because theyāre often a foundation for interacting with and processing the world and for making the inner environment of my brain comfy and consistent. Having a special interest usually means thatās what you ādefaultā to when youāre not thinking about anything in particular. Special interests are a way to seek comfort when things are overwhelming. Theyāre a way to impose structure on your life and your thoughts; theyāre reliable and building up a body of facts about the thing you like is comforting. Theyāre also a way of connecting with others and making conversation; facts about your special interest are easier than āfreestylingā your way through a conversation, essentially making it up as you go. Special interests also bring autistic people joy and happiness...itās essentially emotional regulation.
Special interests serve a function. They arenāt just like...a quirk of being autistic, theyāre a way of dealing with the world and your own brain as an autistic person.
For me, I can broadly divide my life into āerasā based on the special interest I had at the time. It was a lot of my identity. For an autistic person your current special interest is often a really, really fundamental part of you at the time.
This means that, at least from my point of view, itās weird and contradictory to say āspecial interests are valid! support autistic people!ā and then talk about how adults shouldnāt need fictional things to process real world problems and how cringy it is for adults to make some fandom theyre in into a āpersonality traitā like...yeah, people shouldnāt talk about fandoms on posts about real world tragedies, but I canāt escape the fact that what youāre specifically calling weird and immature is kind of what a special interest is. You canāt separate special interests from āprocessing the world through your interestsā and āmaking your interests a fundamental part of your identity.ā Those things are often part of what makes a special interest a special interest.
Iāve told my siblings that the reason I quote TV shows at them all the time is that itās how I interact with the world. This post is a good way of explaining it.
my favorite thing thatās ever come out of those dumbĀ āgender revealā parties, you know the ones, is that people make cakes and other baked goods for them right?
and since everything in this hellscape has to be gendered including colors, they gotta use both pink and blue frosting when they decorate to keep the prospective parents guessing before they cut the cake open and reveal how theyāre gonna color-code their babies, but that also means:
people are out here making blue and white and pink baby cakes and just, unintentionally throwing the trans flag all over their pointlessĀ āgenderā celebration and i think thatās just superb
One of my favorite stories from the flower shop was a woman who was surprising her friend with flowers on her āfirst birthday party.ā This was a party to celebrate her first birthday out and proud as a trans woman. The theme was to buy her things that she would have never gotten as a child- barbies, flowers, plastic jewelry tiaras, the like.
I am in love with that concept! I think itās so dang sweet, and it sounds like she has amazing friends.
So yes I absolutely think that we should combine gender reveal parties, ācoming outā parties, and first birthdays to trans people.
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Sunday, November 14th:Ā Hi everyone, Iām Gemma, a bi, mentally ill disaster, whoās in desperate need of help, as I'm really struggling with my bills and due to charge-backs, my accounts are overdrawn and my electricity meter is back on its emergency credit!!
As most of you are already aware from my previous post, I have been struggling financially for quite some time due to my welfare benefit (Universal Credit) being under a review, which is due to my worsening mental health and the UKās controversial changes to how benefits are assessed and assigned. And at the moment, I'm currently struggling to get by, as my application for Disability (PIP) was declined and due to Covid, I have been waiting almost a year for an appointment for a WCA (Work Capability Asessment) from the DWP to assess my mental and physical health, and due to this, my debt from overdue bills is piling up to an amount that I'm really struggling with.
I know this is a huge ask, and I'm completely heartbroken to be asking for help again, but I still desperately need some as I don't have anyone else to turn to and if I can't pay this balance off by the 25th my welfare benefit will get eaten by it and I need to top-up my electricity or it will be cut off.
If anyone could spare any amount to help me, even if itās just Ā£1/$1/ā¬1, it would literally save my life, and sharing definitely helps just as much as donations. Nobody is obligated in any way to donate if they canāt or donāt want to, I know weāre all struggling right now.
Ā£0/Ā£250!!
Go to paypal.me/GemzyM and type in the amount. Since itās PayPal, it's easy and secure. Donāt have a PayPal account? No worries.
I'm really sorry to keep posting this but I'm still struggling to keep my utilities on and my electricity meter has 92p left in it, and it WILL NOT last until my benefit payment on the 25th!!
If anyone could spare anything at all to help, even if itās just a Ā£1/$1 or a reblog, it would mean so much to me. Take care of yourself ā¤
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