Hi!! Welcome to this gay mess!
You can call us Amalgam, and weâre a traumagenic system with a lot of alters. Weâre very introject heavy. I just wanted to do a quick sort of intro for this thing, and give some information, so that everyone knows what theyâre getting into!
Weâre physically 18 years old.
The host goes by Gram or Adder, but you can really call all of us Gram
We use any pronouns and all pronouns. It/its is the preference if youâre referring to us as a whole though
weâre an inclusionist, but this blog is for everyone who is MLM, NBLM, MLNB, and/or NBLNB, regardless of their opinions. As long as you are respectful, you are allowed to interact. I will not hesitate to block you if you arenât respectful, however.
Gram is a nonbinary gay man, who is acespec and aroflux and hoards labels
We are neurodivergent and mentally ill, and struggle with empathy/understanding boundaries. If we ever make you uncomfortable, please tell us, so we can fix the issue!
we have one romantic relationship (our wonderful boyfriend) and two queerplatonic ones (who are both very lovely and nonbinary)
Weâll probably talk about our special interests/hyperfixiations a lot. weâll tag that with #amalgamâs pit if you want to avoid that stuff
Feel free to send asks for any reason, whether itâs just to say hi, or to request something you want to see!
Remember to be nice and be gay! LMAO














