Okay let’s talk about Sub Top Vox…
I was responding to a different post about sub Vox and it got me thinking about it. And I think it’s misunderstood a lot. So I’m just gonna give my take on it and see if it resonates with others who see him as a sub top:
In Vox’s eyes, the fact that Al is having sex with him period is like fuck yesssss! So he’s not gonna wanna screw it up. He is in love with him after all, in their own twisted way of being in love. So yay! Al is gonna fuck him, now what?
Well, clearly Al would want to have control of what happens, and so would Vox. But I think the type of control they want is different. Alastor is going to want to tell him what goes and what doesn’t. And Vox is going to be wanting control over that. This means he is going to do whatever is going to impress Al, make Al turned on, make Al respect him. Meanwhile, Alastor is going to enjoy playing the game of watching him do all that while also enjoy letting Vox do all the work. And so it is going to end up working on both ends.
I don’t see Vox as a sub that’s going to be inferior to Al, quite the opposite. He’s going to be a sub that’s feeling powerful because holy shit he’s making the radio demon orgasm and that’s fucking the biggest feeling of power ever. The definition of sub is giving over responsibility of making decisions, and a top is the one initiating. So, Vox is the one initiating Alastor’s desires. Whether that’s electrocuting the fuck out of him, wire play, biting, or (and this is where it gets confusing) dominating him. You can appear as a dom and be subbing, if the actual dom decides they want you to play that way. But the moment Alastor didn’t want Vox dominating him anymore, he’d back off and switch up to whatever Al wants. Kind of like he does in the show! When Al pulls away, Vox lets him.
Vox is a sub top because he is putting in the work but Alastor is the one pulling the strings. If Alastor wants Vox to electrocute him, he’s going to show a positive response to Vox doing it. Which is going to make Vox keep going.
Hence, he is guiding Vox’s decisions.
Hence, Vox is being a service submissive top.
But its not in a “good boy” bitch way but in a “I want you to want this, I need you to need this, and I’m going to do everything I can to prove we should be doing this together. So whatever will make you pleased with this, with me, I’m going to do. Because I want your approval, respect and love. And I want to keep doing this with you.” We see him showering Al with praise in the flashback, when he is clearly smitten. And I think he’d revert back to that if he ever actually had the chance to fuck him, I think it would just come out as him wanting to praise Al physically. Maybe verbally too, cause I do think Al has a praise kink. I think they both do tbh.
From the outside, it’s gonna look like a fight for dominance power struggle. But we all know what’s really going on underneath. 😘 Sex with these two is all kinds of mind games. Vox is making Al turned on, so he feels in charge. And Al is guiding Vox’s decisions, so he feels in charge. It just works for them. Vox isn’t gonna admit Al is in charge and doming him, cause from where he’s sitting he sees fucking Alastor as a huge win. And Alastor is gonna see having this effect on him as a huge win.
This is what makes this ship so juicy and delicious to me, cause it’s layered and interesting! If it were any kind of traditional dom and sub dynamic it just wouldn’t be them, ya know? They are fucking freaks.
This is putting aside Alastor’s probable lack of experience and, in canon, that he may in fact be sex repulsed.