so, as with all things i'm unfamiliar with, i want to be as respectful as possible. i've always been under the impression that transIDs were inherently harmful, but i'm really questioning that
so with that being said, what is being transID actually? what is it like?
feel free to delete this ask if it comes across as rude or invasive. i genuinely do not mean it that way, and i'm just trying to open my mind
Apologies for answering this ask so late -- Thank you for being respectful , anon !
For your question(s) , we honestly don't think there's one proper answer to give you .
The thing about TransIDs is that not only are everyone's experiences are different , and it can affect how they view their identity or their view on their TransIDs . There is no being " actually TransID " , but rather it's more like TransIDs choose you . TransIDs in a basic sense , is similar to a typical trans awakening , and once you find those right labels , it's like everything just clicks for you . Being TransID is embracing the parts of yourself that others could look down upon , or even look up to you for . Being TransID , at its core , is embracing the truth your heart gives you .
From our personal experience , TransIDs can be confusing . Especially when trying to express them . Other times , having TransIDs can be a struggle . The yearning to be something more , or something less , can feel like a wall against you and your identity . You can feel dysphoric , you can feel bad for the IDs you've found yourself in , and maybe even the labels you connect to are pushed off to the side , left unfocused on .
It's important to remember that in those worst times , that there are people who do accept you , and there always will be . You're IDs are ALWAYS , and we repeat ALWAYS valid , and nothing but your own opinion can dictate what you identify with and how . You don't have to have a deep connection , or maybe you do have a strong connection , or maybe this ID you found is just really funny and like you , it doesn't matter .
TransIDs exist for you to show who you truly are on the inside .
Again , this is very similar to typical Trans experiences . Trans IS technically under the TransID umbrella , but TransIDs themselves are less dependent on the idea of gender and instead encompasses all types of aspects that are able to be changed , or want to change . Coming from a transmasculine system , TransIDs are also less dependent on the idea of having to transition to be considered valid , which is unfortunately something we've still seen quite a bit of in Trans communities , which is COMPLETELY wrong .
Let no one dictate who you are but youself , because at the end of the day , TransIDs are meant to please YOU and no one else . Your IDs are always valid , always true , and always a part of you . Embracing these parts is important because you can learn more about yourself in many different ways if you open your heart to it .
Hopefully these were good answers to your questions . . Trying to give an answer for an entire community is very hard , because there will likely be somebeing who does have a different view than we do . That's more than okay , and we'd say to PLEASE ask for other's opinions and experiences as well ! ( As long as they're comfortable with sharing , of course ) It's so much better to hear multiple opinions and thought processes for everything , as it helps you view things from more than one angle , and we think it could majorly help you understand how every TransID experience varies .
We hope you have a good day , anon ! Apologies again for any mistakes , we've been typing for a bit now . .
