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Power & Manipulation

48 Laws of Power by Robert Green

The Prince by Machiavelli

Games People Play: The Basic Handbook of Transactional Analysis by Eric Berne

The Dictator's Handbook: Why Bad Behavior is Almost Always Good Politics by Bruce Bueno de Mesquita

Power: Why Some People Have It - And Others Don't by Jeffrey Pfeffer

The Wisdom of Psychopaths: What Saints, Spies, and Serial Killers Can Teach Us About Success by Kevin Dutton

Charisma & Social Skills

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High by Kerry Patterson

How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes

The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism by Olivia Fox Cabane

Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People by Vanessa Van Edwards

Never Eat Alone, And the Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time by Keith Ferrazzi

The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over by Jack Schafer

Persuasion

The Art of Seduction by Robert Green

Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini

Win Bigly: Persuasion in a World Where Facts Don't Matter by Scott Adams

Pre-Suasion: Channeling Attention for Change by Robert Cialdini

Win Your Case: How to Present, Persuade, and Prevail, Every Place, Every Time by Gerry Spence

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth, and Happiness by Richard Thaler

Methods of Persuasion: How to Use Psychology to Influence Human Behavior by Nick Kolenda

You Can Read Anyone: Never Be Fooled, Lied to, or Taken Advantage of Again by David Lieberman

Influencer: The New Science of Leading Change by Kerry Patterson

Psychology

Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman

The Art of Choosing by Sheena Iyengar

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us by Daniel Pink

Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions by Dan Ariely

Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman

The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Green

Philosophy and Mindset

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

Letters from a Stoic by Seneca

Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

Mastery by Robert Green

The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill

Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder by Nassim Taleb

The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday

Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life by Hector Garcia

Public Speaking, Rhetoric, and Debating

Rhetoric by Aristotle

How to Argue & Win Every Time by Gerry Spence

The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking by Dale Carnegie

The Art of Public Speaking by Dale Carnegie

Talk Like TED: The 9 Public Speaking Secrets of the World's Top Minds by Carmine Gallo

Verbal Judo: The Gentle Art of Persuasion by George Thompson, PhD

Thank You for Arguing by Jay Heinrichs

p.s. a lot of these can be found on z-library.

Thank you so much! I’m honored that you view me as a reliable resource because I really do take the time out to study and take action prior to sharing any game.

I have a general list of books I recommend that’ll help you along your journey, however here’s a few more I recommend more specifically:

Old Money, New Woman

Urtoospoiled’s Top Approved. It’s very straight to the point and a book you can pass on for generations. Though I don’t feed too much into the “old money aesthetic”, I respect their overall value of education, wealth and etiquette. PG-13, so if you have a high school aged little sister (or you are yourself) it’s encouraged to prepare them early.

The Geisha’s Secret

The Geisha is a diligently designed women sculpted to exude femininity and sensuality. This book breaks down the rituals that make the geisha. I encourage you reading this to do more research on the geisha for more historical dating tactics that’ll work today. Rituals include the emphasis on beauty upkeep, acting with kindness and waiting to give yourself to a man.

Style: The Modern Lady’s Guide to Elegance & Charm

More of a baby book, but that’s why I highly recommended it because it gets to the point. This is a book that teaches you the charm and elegance of a woman. This is essential as far as having a wealthy wife mindset. You’ll be not only encouraged but expected to have an obvious level of class, elegance and immediate charm. It’s essential to be one’s wife that’s likable (even if you’re not mean, but not everyone is naturally captivating, let alone memorable)

Smart Women Protect Their Assets

UrTooSpoiled Top Approved: Most adults are uneducated about wills, trusts and wealth management overall. This book goes deep about the “need to knows” of securing your assets including estate planning, inheritance tax and goes as far as giving suggested resources towards protecting your wealth effectively.

Marriage is a business and never forget that. When you’re vetting potential husbands, you’re vetting potential business partners. The ones with hiring power. The ones with all the keys and passwords. The ones that can/will/already may have executive power to put you in terrible positions, especially financially but well beyond.

This is a must read for all. Women are statistically less educated than men about money so it’s key to study this book to stay ahead of the game. Even your most ideal candidate of a husband can take advantage of you (and your future dependents. Your parents included) financially.

101 Things Your Dad Never Told You About Men

Another brief book, but well written. This book summarizes things you need to know about men in relationships including what to expect, what NOT to do, and more.

You can find them for -.99 here

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