The Paradise System

Bro no offense but... I think the way tumblr treats alters as completely separate people is part of the reason DID/OSDD is so misunderstood. It’s so focused on individuality between alters that you can give yourself such a massive switch headache trying to keep everyone separated. Co-con is a thing. Co-fronting is a thing. Overlap in personality traits /similar style between alters? Definitely a thing! It’s okay to be different but you don’t have to exaggerate who you are for the sake of standing out. Focus on the healing process, and be kind to yourself and your system. Thank you 🌻

Everytime I hear "a 9/11 a day," I revert back to 13 and need to sit down for a moment til I can breathe again.

Love doesn’t leave you traumatized.

Listen to me, LOVE doesn’t leave you traumatized. What was happening to you wasn’t love.

parents hit/ berate/ neglect their kids and some of y’all still defending them saying “they might be under a lot of stress/they’re a single parent” or “they did the best with what they had” and any other variation of “parenting is hard!” like.....and?? that’s not a reason to abuse your kids??????

you knew parenting was hard before you had kids. you knew they cost money, you knew they would take up a lot of time, etc. any goddamn pet you’ve had would’ve told you that. i’m so tired of seeing parents “joking” about how their children are the causes of all their problems in life/how they’re so irritating and a lot to deal with. guess what? children hear things, whether you mean for them to or not. how would you feel if someone who was supposed to love you unconditionally said you were the main cause for their stress? for their anger? that you irritated them beyond belief? that they wish you’d just never speak again? do you understand how badly that fucks a child up? that child is probably going to suffer in silence and try to isolate themselves completely because ‘hey... when i wasn’t even having trouble i was still a nuisance’’. you’re traumatizing and stunting your kids emotionally. if you can’t handle everything that comes with a child, don’t have one.

Hey quick reminder that if you ever hurt a child and install fear into them to get them to obey you, you’re disgusting.

it saddens me seeing people like “@ my parents” like oh my god too many people relate to this, why can’t parents just like..not hurt their kids?? why is that such a radical concept to some?? i pray for you all 

There are few things more up my alley than maintaining a sacred flame for justice.