Some more thoughts about Jason Todd and why, while funny, all the headcanons about “x kills the Joker for Jason instead” (Usually some variation of Dick, Talia, Ra’s, or even Jason himself) are completely missing the point of UTRH.
No disrespect to anyone with this post, it’s just that Jason would not suddenly let go of his bitterness if someone else killed the Joker. It just wouldn’t happen.
The Jason-Bruce-Joker conflict will never have a satisfying resolution for Jason, even without taking DC’s opinions of the Joker into consideration because Bruce unintentionally set up a situation in which he must choose between a promise he made as a child in the wake of his parents’ death (his no-kill code) and an unspoken promise he made to Jason before his death.
For context, the “unspoken promise” comes from Batman #425, in which Felipe Garzonas’s father seeks revenge against Jason for his son’s death. In this issue, Bruce explains to Jason why the confrontation happened, and states that “For every action in this universe, there is an opposite and equal reaction. Consequences, Robin. There’s no escaping them.”
He even refers to Garzonas Sr’s actions as “a father’s righteous fury”. It’s not hard to see how a teenager would take this to mean that the natural consequence for killing a son is a father seeking vengeance.
This, combined with the discovery that not only had he died, but that his killer was still alive to brutalize and kill many more, paints a clear picture to Jason. That being, essentially: If Bruce refused to avenge Jason, then Bruce does not consider Jason his son.
Following that line of thought, Jason sets up a choice for Bruce:
Option 1: Allow me to end this clown, turn a blind eye, and prove to me that I’m your son, your family.
Option 2: Save him, and you prove to me that I was never your son, and you don’t care about me like you claimed you did.
With these options, Jason does account for Bruce’s unwillingness to kill with his own hands (more on that in a sec), and offers him an option that allows him to keep both promises, while also ending the terror the Joker continues to inflict then and there.
However, Bruce, unable to reconcile his view of Jason, the killer with his view of Jason, his son (combined with the pressure of Jason about to pull the trigger), breaks this unspoken promise and the kicker is that, in doing so, he breaks the other one as well. Jason’s throat is slit, he bleeds out, and is revived once again as seen by the same visual effects appearing both after he collapses and when he’s revived in his grave. The son dies by the father’s hand, and Batman has taken a life.
This is why it can’t be anyone else. At least, not if the goal is to make Jason happy. The Jason-Bruce-Joker conflict exists as a (very important, in my opinion) moral impasse where Bruce wants Jason, the son but can’t bring himself to look past Jason, the killer — while having also established the mindset that led to the conflict to begin with.