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TBH people on here talk about psychiatric diagnoses like they talk about gender assignment, as some sort of innately real biological truth.
In the same way that you've gotta stop identifying as "AFAB": You've gotta stop calling yourself "BPD" at some point.
Why does everyone think fiction is just fantasy wish fulfillment now and not like an exploration of themes and ideas
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I've seen this clip many times, but never really appreciated the power of "what was her problem?" Just casually assuming that lesbians come in a wide variety of shapes and being inclusive. As a transbian who is probably still closer to Homer shaped than to my ideal, that's huge!
I have never. Seen this specific typesetting mistake before. I've seen editing mistakes I've seen writing mistakes I've seen typos aplenty I have never seen someone accidentally paste the file version details into the text while typesetting.
that's the first page of the book as well like. I'm assuming this got missed because it obviously happened after the copy was finalised. that's an InDesign file (and not the first InDesign file of the project (clock the 'V2')) so idk much about the publishing process but this is presumably final final steps before committing to print.
but like. idk. this is delightful to me. this is such a specific error. wow.

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Put in the tags the completely finished (whether cancelled or wrapped up on its own terms) TV series that has YOUR perfect ending, however you define that
Please don’t include huge spoilers for the specifics of the endings, and it would also make me happy if people don’t use this to talk about the shows whose endings they hated
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There's a recurring online tendency to aestheticize consensus itself. The imagined future village is full of emotionally compatible people who enjoy communal gardening, conflict resolution circles, acoustic folk music, mutual aid potlucks, and repairing bicycles together at sunset. Which is nice for the people who genuinely enjoy that lifestyle. But plenty of humans are solitary, prickly, obsessive, urban, nocturnal, sensory-seeking, technologically attached, contrarian, novelty-seeking, private, or just plain difficult. Those people do not evaporate after the revolution. They do not get Left Behind while you are Raptured into the Utopia. They become your neighbors.
sorry but if you studied and understood feminism as the liberation movement that it is, you would not be making men who are hurt by a system that still benefits them a top priority. the damage that choice feminism, white feminism, and rampant transmisogyny have done to people's perception and understanding of feminism so that it's now an accepted position to prioritise the individual well-being of men over the liberation of everyone else actually oppressed by systemic patriarchy is mind blowingly absurd. idc about men and boys who feel lonely and turn to misogynistic grifters to fill the void because they're not the ones who will be primarily harmed the most in that scenario !! women, girls (trans and cis) and queer people are. these men's lonliness and anger are problems that won't exist at the same scale when we no longer live in a system that normalises that behaviour to the primary detriment of women, girls (cis and trans), and queer people. i am so exhausted by rhetoric that seeks to center the greatest benefactors of patriarchy over the actual victims of patriarchy, simply because the perpetrators and benefactors of patriarchy don't like themselves.
i know this is old news but it's happened again:
there is something truly wild about how, in every single public conversation about trans rights or trans issues, cis men will leap six feet into the air in their haste to say WELL I KNOW WOMEN, AND WOMEN DON'T WANT MEN IN THEIR SPACES INVALIDATING THEM AND TALKING OVER THEM
is this a humiliation ritual? is this some kind of joke? is it performance art? why are you squaring up to punch this mirror?
The thing is whether it's anti-blackness, islamophobia, xenophobia, homophobia, antifemininism, transphobia or any number of other bigotries, these kinds of people have centuries of history of Won't Someone Please Think Of The Children Women
and it is completely morally consistent if you subscribe to the central idea of cisheteropatriarchy which is, of course, that Women Are Not Really Whole People With Agency.
viz:
trans women can't really be women because they would have to go from being a Person to Not A Person and that isn't possible so they must be lying
trans men can't really be men because you would have to be able to make a decision to become a person, and if you don't have agency and personhood you can't make decisions, so they must be deluded and led astray by men (who are capable of agency)
cis women can't have independent thought or form opinions without being told what to think by men. so if they disagree with me, A Man, they're wrong (and probably being fed lies by Lying Men)
Women (which we imagine as a biological category) are valuable and vulnerable objects of male ownership that can easily be stolen, damaged, or deluded into thinking, for example, that they're capable of independent thought and opinions separate from men. so they must be Protected.
Women are also categorised as Basically Large Children and therefore must be parented by men; they don't know what's good for them and if they're not shepherded and controlled they'll do the metaphorical equivalent of touching the hot stove. Women and children, lacking agency, are just empty vessels that anyone could fill with good or wicked ideas or could convince to accept harm (thereby damaging them).
Bonus idea: Rape Is A Thing That The Bad People Do therefore anything The Bad People do is ontologically rape and the only people who could do rape are The Bad People. this is part of why communities organising specifically around Protecting The Women And Children from trans people/migrants/Muslims/The Gays/Black people/etc are absolutely riddled with known nonces and wifebeaters who see no contradiction in this because if THEY do it it's fine
harm to women and children under cisheteropatriarchy is not defined as 'women or children experiencing pain, suffering, violence or coercion', it's defined as 'outsiders doing damage to Our Women' (and the damage could be material, in which case it's effectively a crime of vandalism or theft, or it could be Making The Women Disagree With Us, which is conceptually a similar type of vandalism/theft.)
Women and children are owned, both by a specific individual man (husband, father, son, brother, in that order) and by The Men (eg white English men) and that ownership can be confirmed through who has sexual/reproductive control, through who is permitted to commit violence against them, and through whose ideas they receive and parrot (which is all women and children can do. because we're not people capable of independent thought)
Protecting The Women and Protecting The Children, therefore, is a driving principle in the same way as protecting a really expensive computer that can easily be convinced to brick itself and has no way to prevent people from stealing it or throwing it down the stairs. Which is entirely consistent with not needing to listen to actual women.
this is the consistent undercurrent of so many reactionary conversations. and that's partly why any response to transphobia, racism, anti-migrantism, and other strains of reactionary thought have to include a feminist framework. because even when it's not directly targeting women (which transmisogyny and lesbophobia Definitely Are), misogyny is still baked in at the absolute foundation stone of these arguments and of these ideals and anxieties.

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i know this is old news but it's happened again:
there is something truly wild about how, in every single public conversation about trans rights or trans issues, cis men will leap six feet into the air in their haste to say WELL I KNOW WOMEN, AND WOMEN DON'T WANT MEN IN THEIR SPACES INVALIDATING THEM AND TALKING OVER THEM
is this a humiliation ritual? is this some kind of joke? is it performance art? why are you squaring up to punch this mirror?
to be fair i guess i can see why those men have developed an elaborate fanfic of reality where trans women are men desperately using any excuse to infiltrate and co-opt women's issues for their own self-aggrandising ends. write what you know.
WSPTOTC Pride Flag
Pride Flag but for people who think Pride should be a respectable SFW event free of sexual debauchery and provocative clothing. Differs from the Gilbert Baker Design in that its colors are sampled from this image of Reverand Lovejoy's Wife screaming "Won't someone please think of the children"
I'm sorry I have not given enough of a shit to read about, let alone watch Iron Lung. all I know is it's a sci-fi horror, Markiplier made it, and people are really shipping Markiplier's character with the guy from Project Hail Mary
but I just saw the phrase 'blood ocean' and went and googled the plot and
I'm sorry
it's a sci-fi film by a 2000s celebrity about being adrift on an ocean of blood?
excuse you. I've seen this film before.
cheating is not a crime on the level of sexual violence or domestic abuse. cheating is not worse than racism. cheating does not merit cancellation. it's a shitty thing to do to your partner and you don't need to tolerate it if it's done to you or someone you love, but it is not the worst thing that a person can do and it does not belong alongside things like beating your partner, rape, stalking or abuse. zoom the fuck out.
not everything needs a callout or a community litigation. especially interpersonal relationship issues.
if your partner cheats on you, you can either break up with them and cut them out, or you can figure out between the two of you what would help repair the harm. (and if you can't repair it, or one of you isn't interested in doing that, you can still end the relationship! it's allowed!).
obviously there is Nuance. like. if someone is interested in getting involved with somebody who you know has a pattern of cheating, it's reasonable to want to tell them that. and cheating can be part of a wider pattern of abusive, deceptive, or controlling behaviour, but in that case the problem isn't the cheating, it's the stuff surrounding it (and that's as much of a problem when it's attached to accusations of cheating, which is also a really common abusive pattern).
cheating can create very real harms, both emotional and occasionally also material (eg STIs). I'm not saying we should be like lol cheating is fine and hurts nobody cause definitionally it is a betrayal of trust.
but it's not a Community Issue. it's between the person who cheated and the people they cheated on/with. you know like. if I'm not in a relationship with the person who cheats and I'm not close to people harmed by it, a)why do I care and b) what benefit is there to me having Strong Opinions On It? like what's the ongoing harm of having amongst us a Person Who Once Cheated?
cheating is not a crime on the level of sexual violence or domestic abuse. cheating is not worse than racism. cheating does not merit cancellation. it's a shitty thing to do to your partner and you don't need to tolerate it if it's done to you or someone you love, but it is not the worst thing that a person can do and it does not belong alongside things like beating your partner, rape, stalking or abuse. zoom the fuck out.

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there are too many things happening this summer that i'm thinking we are going to need an extra 6-12 months of june and possibly another 3-4 months of july. probably no extra august as the problem should hopefully sort itself out by then. we are also looking into extending the day night cycle to 55 hours and extending the human lifespan to 10000 years.
I have a pal who is much cooler than me so it's easy to fall prey to the brainworm that she is just tolerating me
or it WOULD be EXCEPT that every time she sees me coming she starts running on the spot in preparation for flinging herself bodily into my arms so like. grudgingly I must admit. my friends Actually Like To See Me.