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Holy shit I just opened a fashion website (to look at ideas for a friend) and it took 2 paragraphs for them to literally say in bold print "Don't be that guy." Like right of the bat, dress like this or you are wrong."

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vulturevanity

I think we need to kill the sentiment that people lose their right to personhood once they do something bad enough

vulturevanity

I don't know who needs to hear this but you need to stop dehumanising people even if those people are "abusers" or "creeps" because you need to understand that you are not immune to doing something equally as bad

Abusers and creeps are not some species of especially heinous animal or alien or monster wearing the face of a human. They're people. And you NEED to drill it into your head that they are people because you NEED to remember that people are capable of doingn heinous shit. And you are a person. And your loved ones are people.

By emotionally classifying people who have done heinous things as subhuman filth incapable of thinking and feeling and acting just like you and me, and by using that emotional dehumanization as a reason to deny those people any compassion or support on a systemic level, you risk becoming blind to abuse/violence perpetrated by someone close to you or even yourself. Because if "abusers don't deserve rights", then you won't ever want to admit or accept that you or a loved one is perpetrating abuse, and that makes stopping the abuse or preventing further abuse much harder. This is how you end up excuaing abusive behaviour on the grounds that, since you don't see someone as a disgusting subhuman pile of garbage therefore they can't possibly be An Abuser, Trademark

vulturevanity

And here'a the even harder pill to swallow: since the world isn't split into "abusers" and "good people", in the same way you or someone you love can inflict abuse/violence on others, the people who HAVE inflicted abuse/violence on others can, in fact, change and become better people

There is no bottomless chasm of moral uncleanliness that someone can run off and fall into and get stuck in forever. People can do better. Yes, even those people. You HAVE to accept this. Otherwise not only is there no motivation for anyone to try and do better (which is when people become stuck in a cycle of violence and abuse they don't want to escape), but your idea of a perfect justice system doesn't look any different from Literal Christian Hell. And I HOPE you understand that Literal Christian Hell is, to put it very lightly, not a good justice system.

#I see clients at work with sex crime convictions and worse that come looking for help #And I'll still help them as best I can #those people deserve to not sleep on the street or go hungry either

qcharlie

i wish we were able to talk about women's rights without someone mentioning how much they do or don't want to have sex with them. i don't care if you're a lesbian Stop finding worth in women purely from their perceived attractiveness

qcharlie

"I think women should not be expected to shave for societal respect / to avoid discrimination" "yeah🤤 i love bush" ok well that's not what we're talking about is it.

qcharlie

i hate how many posts about trans women deserving respect always devolve into "I love girldick" or "trans rights but I don't want to date a trans person" because that's entirely unrelated to the topic at hand. you should not respond to feminism with "YESSS I loveeee you because I see you as nothing but a sex object" you people sound like other men I get stuck talking with that end up saying "free the nipple so I can see boobies in public" and thinking they're feminists. why can't we just respect women regardless of your attraction to them or not. why does it need to be brought up in every conversation regarding their rights

westwingfan

hello will bailey its nice to meet you i like you. can you shut up now im watching toby ziegler fail miserably at flirting with his ex-wife and the mother of his future children. nvm he started talking again before i posted this and i like him again.

westwingfan

ok i like him. i can't remember why i didn't like him last time. it was probably that he was replacing sam. anyways. will bailey you're a cutie, it's good that you're replacing a fellow cutie.

#the west wing #will bailey #he has this uncanny ability to make people hatr him as soon as he steps into a room #when he walks in his self-loathing has already been there for 10 minutes

I was looking at PTSD stats and saw the rate of prevalance among women was 5.2% and for men 1.8%. (For adolescents, for women it's 8% and for men, 2.3%.)

My train of thought was "Wow that's a big gender gap. I wonder what traumatic experiences women have so much more often tha-. Oh."

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sizzlingcandyjellyfish

NEVER be vulnerable. FLUSH your medication down the toilet. LIE when people ask how you’re doing. SUPPRESS your feelings. ALWAYS be irritable and abrasive. MAKE SURE you push away anyone who’s close to you. CANCEL your therapy appointment.

#thanks really needed to hear this today

God, Storm's End looks so cool. And they get why it's called Storm's End too, it wimdy.

#house of the dragon

actually yah that foot fetish is core to the plot. Yah if you take that out none of the rest makes any sense. Gotta keep it in. Its a load-bearing foot fetish.

#house of the dragon

nuancecomprehender

my life isnt perfect but at least im not doing a mans laundry

Started catching up on the house of the dragon and I forgot how much this show makes me yell at the screen.

#house of the dragon

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bartletslesbians

Leo: You know, I don't think we need to be marriage counselors right now.

Toby: No we should. Because you and I would be really good at it.

#the west wing

going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

getting lost in boston is fun because I turned around on a street corner three times and some guy yelled "hey stupid! the bus is that way!" very helpful interaction and accurate insult, 10/10 no notes

going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

one time I walked around a building a couple times looking for a bathroom and this guy went "this bitch thinks she's on a merrygoround, where the fuck are you tryna go? bathroom? one floor down to the right behind the door that says bathroom."

mentohol-blog

My very first time in Boston. I was absolutely miserable, trying to drag my giant suitcase up a lengthy set of stairs in the pouring rain. This guy who had already reached the top looked back at me with the most pure expression of disgust I’ve ever seen in anyone’s eyes, marched back down the stairs, grabbed my suitcase, carried it to the top, left it there for me, and walked away without ever saying a word. I think about him often.

just7frogsinapeoplesuit

For the people in the notes going "why is Boston like this": a) the insults are a way to show you have no ulterior motives when helping someone (and don't need to be thanked or repaid), and b) Boston was settled by the Irish

direhydroid

also the Italians. mixing Irish and Italian sociocultural attitudes had the effect of multiplying the Sass Levels by the power of infinity, in the sense that you get all of the clever dry wit of the Irish and all of the bitchy gossipy condensation of the Italians rolled into one very stereotypically overly-friendly American package.

also worth noting that who you are to them doesn’t matter. they’ll talk to strangers like that and will also talk to their best friends like that. they’re just Like That.

just7frogsinapeoplesuit

More from the notes:

Kills me that they never expand on Charlie and Mrs. Landingham's relationship. Do you think it's possible that Charlie, who had lost his mom months prior, didn't imprint on this woman like a baby duck? Do you think Charlie, who lost his mom suddenly, wasn't irreperally changed when his work mom died suddenly? When the friend he shared an office 14 hours a day with died, do you think he spend month's staring at her ghost sitting at her desk? Taking on her responsibilities and every task thinking "Dolores would have done this better."

This woman who lost her sons suddenly spending 14 hours a day with someone she needs to mold to the oval office. Who has been at Jed's side since he was younger than Charlie and needs to give Charlie all the information about how to take care of him?

I wanted them to explore that relationship so deeply and we didn't even get to see Charlie grieve.

#the west wing #charlie young #dolores landingham

babypeachprincess

having an emotional support shitty phone game is actually really good for you

#rn mine is dungeon clawer #its a rougelike deckbuilder where the combat is playing a claw machine

thec0ub

I can fix him but I'll just try to replace all his flaws with my own without solving any of them so he gets two sets of flaws.

thec0ub

I can fix him because he has the same set of flaws as I do and if I fix him that means I can be fixed.

#the first is abbey to jed #the second is kate to will

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I can fix him but I'll just try to replace all his flaws with my own without solving any of them so he gets two sets of flaws.

Troy Jackson is (most probably) going to be the candidate for senate to run against Susan Collins.

I'm so excited. I think he's got a real shot at pulling away the moderates that make up a lot of Maine.

And he is soooooo pro-union. Union endorsements out the wazoo.

He also said we should arrest ICE officers if they break maine law.

#maine #troy jackson

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