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I wrote the above post 8 years ago on this day 02 June 2018. It came up in my notifications as a memory and something told me to read it. Funny enough it was the exact advice that I needed. I realise that sometimes I’m looking too far ahead or too far away for answers. My answers are all closer than I thought and all I needed was advice from me 8 years ago. Before the logos, when I was writing…

I’ve really been enjoying reading all the posts on social media of people declaring the year for themselves. I love the energy. It feeds a part of us that is starving, a part of us that needs hope to move on. A part of us that needs a clean slate. It feels even stronger because as a people, we are hoping collectively, and I firmly believe that we are stronger together. This is one of the only…

It’s 04:39am in Durban South Africa. The new year has come and its time to start what will be the foundation of the rest of the year. 02 Jan 2026, today as I watch the sky fill with a multiverse of colours, I sit under the orange African sky and find myself in a complete state of peace. With birds chirping in the distance and the sound of cars driving by I am completely at ease. Writing in a…

It’s that time of the year again where some of us are preparing for a holiday after a long year of working hard, others are still working hard and will continue to do so right through the festive season, some have been unemployed and are praying to find work as soon as possible and then there are those that work for themselves and depending on how well their business is doing will take a much…

Payment Link: https://pay.yoco.com/r/7v6zMo How do I escape this unending loop of confusion, frustration and endless pain? This is a question asked by many and the answers are easier than you think they are and it begins with you! Discovering who you are is the first step you will take in the direction of your hopes and dreams. To help you take this step I will be hosting a Self Discovery…

August has been a very productive month for me, and I am happy to share with all of you that I will be taking part in a Women’s Month event at The Market Durban North on 30 August 2025 from 8.00 am to 10.30 am. Closing off August with and event that includes rebounding, strength training, yoga and some mindfulness. To make the morning balanced in mind, body and Spirit. The event will kick of an…

Sometimes we lash out and spill all our negative emotions all at once for the smallest thing. Simply because we chose to bottle them up when and try to be strong, creating an involuntary emotional eruption when our minds can’t take the load anymore. In the past I was someone who refused to show my true feelings and emotions. Cold and unfeeling was what I presented myself to be and for those…

We all fall victim to our very own thoughts. They hold us hostage and keep us captive. They pull us from side to side tearing our minds apart ripping our sanity to pieces. It’s a constant struggle that we face on a daily basis, for with each day comes new challenges. Our old beliefs versus or new beliefs. Our old ways versus our new ways. Our old selves versus our new selves. We are constantly…

South Africa has been riddled with pain, for a very long time. So much pain that many of the people cant even see the beauty of this Country anymore, and there is so much beauty hidden in plain sight. The people, the places, and the love that flows continuously through this beautiful land. Its all hidden to so many because their hearts are filled with pain. I’ve loved this country all my life,…

I’ve decided to dedicate my year of 2025 to light. You must be wondering what my obsession is with light. My motto is finding light in every situation, my podcast is called ” My Peeping Light” , its all about light for me. My life revolves around finding light in the midst of darkness. you see it everywhere on this page, and on my other pages too. Lets start with the definitions: Light : The…

Have you ever taken the time to stop and just look at people walking by just living their own lives? They are too busy to notice what is happening around them most of the time. We spend so much of our lives worrying about what others will think about us or say about us and we deprive ourselves of so much life because we worry about how it will look to other people. The truth is that people are…

People are tired. Let me correct myself working class people are tired. For them its been a long year and they are ready for their December break… if they even get one. One thing is certain, what I’ve been hearing the most is “I’m so tired”, “I’m ready for this Holiday”, or “I’m so done with this year!”. I can relate. The first 2 weeks of December are the most torturous as everyone ( at least…

Have you noticed how scamming has become a career these days. These people have set up offices and are all over the world in ridiculous numbers cheating good people out of their hard earned money. Now that its festive everyone should be on high alert for scammers, they are in full force looking to make a quick buck off anyone willing to bite. What’s funny is that these people even have an…

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We hear this term often, ” Let it go. “ While it’s such an important skill to learn, letting go is not an easy task. We are required to let go if we want to live a free life, but it is not for the feint hearted. As we live our lives we accumulate things that we sometimes form attachments to. Smaller things are definitely easier to let go of. It’s the bigger things that we worked hard for that…

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