#wrathsbraincells

Edit: OMG PROSHIPPERS STOP MAKING THIS POST ABOUT DEFENDING IF SHIPPING CHILD X ADULT OR INCEST IS OKAY OR NOT THE POST IS ABOUT THE LABLE I DONT WANT TO ARGUE WITH YALL ABOUT THAT ANYMORE.

This is my one post where all people on all sides of the proship debate can interact. Including proshippers. If that makes you uncomfortable then don’t interact. I hate echo chambers and I want to hear all sides.

Also sorry for cross tagging just want the opinions from all sides

Actual post:

I hate the terms proship, neutral ship, and antiship. They’re all extremes and I hate them. From what I understand the meanings are

Proship: support all ships no matter what even if they’re comships

Neutral ship: doesn’t have an opinion at all

Antiship: is anti any comship which is outrageous

If y’all don’t know comship just means complex ship or they enjoy more morally grey or imperfect ships. This can include things like human X different intelligent species (like aliens, furries, monsters) which most rational people don’t think is bad. But this can also mean kid X adult, family x family, or victim X abuser

I actually don’t identify as pro, neu, or anti because I think some comships are good and healthy. I think morally grey ships are important in media when done correctly. Especially since a lot of relationships are rocky and not always healthy and it’s good to show that in media. My own ocs personally aren’t in a perfectly healthy relationship because of their own issues. But this should be done respectfully and with care. Abuse shouldn’t be romanticized but people can be romantic outside of the abuse going on just like in real life relationships

But in a pedophilic fan fiction or art or an incest fanfic or art there is no such thing as a loving part of it. The relationship in itself is abuse because a minor being with a child is abuse and family members being together is abuse. It’s not healthy for anyone involved to romanticize relationships like that and frankly can effect reality no matter how you spin it because it’s representing something as normal to kids.

1- make an intention bracelet and tie in strings representing your headmates with intentions of happiness, connection, communication, or any intention you’d like!

2- bottle some herbs that represent your headmates or system and cleanse it (with incenses or perfected method) to help clean out negative energy

3- buy witchy things you know your headmates likes, like their favorite herbs and crystals or incenses smells!

When I was anti endo I was afraid of being happy. I was afraid if I was miserable I was faking. I was afraid of being wrong sometimes. I was afraid of having too many fictives. I was afraid of being different from other systems

When I became pro endo I realized all plurality is different and it doesn’t matter. When I became pro endo I actually started to heal

But that doesnt make us less of a system

For some systems a high switch day is 5-10 switches because they switch often

But that doesn’t make them less of a system

For some systems a high switch day is 10-20 and above

TransDID is so offensive actually