#tw gatekeeping

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they're angry when we are gnc and don't medically transition because we are "speaking over the real trans people"

they're also angry when we are gnc and do medically transition because we are "taking away the trans resources that are meant for real trans people"

they're angry when we are not visibly trans because we are "showing people that you don't have to transition and making the trans community look bad"

they're also angry when we are visibly trans because we are "making a mockery of what it means to be trans and making the trans community look bad"

they're angry when we don't have dysphoria because "that's not what it means to be trans"

they're also angry when we do have dysphoria because we are "distorting what dysphoria is and that's not what it means to be trans"

Sure it’s a deep-rooted desire, his aspirations for a family and independence and something to call his own but he’s asking himself, is it even possible? Can he even reproduce? It’s long since been drilled into them that the Clones are sterile…

It’s not the first time in his life he’s wondered. It’s just a question made prevalent upon his relationship to Cyare.

And they’ve talked about it before, extensively; the desire for a family, for children; Hunter asks her how many and she says “As many as we can handle.”

But they’ve also talked about the tricky endeavor surrounding conception, the way it more or less hangs in the balance; Hunter’s voice is uncharacteristically tight as he admits that he isn’t even sure he can reproduce.

She says she’ll stick by him regardless.

And their efforts prove fruitful, clearly, but even still; it’s the fear of not knowing, the pressure to perform, this strain of toxic masculinity that’s been engineered into him and all of the Clones for that matter in that their worth is based entirely on their performance, their stamina, their ability to produce results.

I wish all fakeclaimers a very die

Any and all fakeclaimers shut the FUCK up. Oh someone's faking and you think it's cringe?? No you're fucking cringe. You're so fucking insufferable and cruel. You're literally the worst.

You are not qualified enough to be able to tell if someone is faking or not. I've never met someone who's faking in my entire life. They simply don't exist. I've met people with imposter syndrome all the time. But people who truly are not disabled? Hasn't happened, totally untrue, mind your fucking business.

Literally. Mind your business. Stay in your fucking lane. You are not the all seeing eye of disabilities, you are not god, you are a person who hasn't lived their fucking experience you ignorant ableist fuck twat.

I DON'T CARE if you're disabled and fakeclaim. You fucking suck the almighty cock of shit. You're fucking ableist you cunt waffle. SHUT UP already.

Gatekeepers, I hope u piss ur pants. Piss off into the fucking sun. You're just a fucking cunt waffle and I hate you. I don't sympathize with you, I don't like you.

tw//kinda political

It is 100% okay for somebody under the age of 18/20/25 -or whatever age the folks are saying these days- to identify as Aesexual, Aromatic, Aroace, or any other identity on the spectrum!

I actually can't believe I have to say this! But identity is not age specific! Sexuality and gender are not for only specific, cherry-picked people to use! If someone believes they are on the spectrum then you should treat them like they are!

Even if they turn out to be a “Late Bloomer” or whatever the hell, that doesn't matter! And certainly shouldn't matter to you! It's not your business! That's their business! Gender identities and sexualities are not ride or die! They can -and in many cases DO- change over time!

How many lgbt+ people (especially in the older generations) started out thinking they were straight/cisgender/whatever, only to realize later that they weren't? LOTS! If we said everyone had to stay in the exact labels we started out using, we wouldn't even have three quarters of the lgbt+ community!!

It doesn't matter what your age is, asexual and aromatic are not age-related terms! Minors are a peat of this community too! It doesn't matter if you am 13, 18, 27, 30, or ANY OTHER age! If you think that Aromatic or Asexual are good terms to describe you, then use them! They are identities for anyone and everyone to use! Do not let anybody tell you otherwise! :)