#transgender topic

Today at work I suddenly got into a discussion about genitals with the kids. Two of them loudly claimed that boys have willies while they were giggling. I explained that having a penis was fine but not everyone has a penis. Someone then said that girls have twinkles. Someone else said that their mom doesn’t have a penis. I then explained that there are some people with willies that view themselves as girls so girls can also have willies. None of the kids questioned it and it was kind of interesting listening to them and how they viewed this. I’m always amazed by how easily kids can understand things and just accept them as it is. 

Two coworkers at my work were talking about the bathroom topic that is pretty big right now. And one, who sadly I know personally, was saying that it’s disgusting and that if your say a girl and were born a girl, you are not and will never be a man and vice versa. I am sickened right now and now in a bad mood. How can people be so rude and judgmental? I don’t have a judgmental bone in my body so that fact alone is disgusting. Step back from your personal opinion and think about what other people go through for once in your life. My day is completely ruined now. Trans lives DO matter, people. If people ever tell you can’t use the woman’s bathroom because you don’t fit under that “category” or vice versa, you are so unbelievably valid and deserve that right to go where YOU are comfortable. You’re VALID.