Jun 28
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Shout out to folks with Haphephobia!
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Five year old Scorpius isn't fond of people touching him, and he has a million reasons for it. However, his father is of the opinion that just saying 'no' should be enough without giving any of those reasons, but not everyone in his new-found family agrees.
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Draco Malfoy/Harry Potter, Astoria Greengrass/Draco Malfoy Characters: Draco Malfoy, Harry Potter, Astoria Greengrass, Scorpius Malfoy, James Sirius Potter, Albus Severus Potter, Lily Luna Potter, Narcissa Black Malfoy, Molly Weasley, Ginny Weasley, Percy Weasley Additional Tags: Past Harry Potter/Ginny Weasley, St Mungo's Hospital, Panic Attacks, Family Dynamics, Fluff and Angst, Molly Has Old Fashioned Parenting Habbits, Supportive Harry Potter, Touch Phobia, Angst with a Happy Ending, Parent-Child Relationship, hospitalized child, Past Minor Character Death (Astoria) Summary:
Five year old Scorpius isn't fond of people touching him, and he has a million reasons for it. However, his father is of the opinion that just saying 'no' should be enough without giving any of those reasons, but not everyone in his new-found family agrees.
OK so this fic hit me HARD! I have a slight touch phobia (worse with some people and non-existent with others) and there is something that needs to be said for consent! Consent is not just about sex. It is also about being touched/hugged etc. And this needs to be heard in children. I tell people I don't like to be touched and I usually get two responses:
1. Ohhhh you shouldn't have told me that. Now I just want to touch you to make you squirn
2. The over-the-top omg I touched your arm, are you ok? Ohhh I touched you... I'm so sorry... Can I hug you? Will that freak you out?
Just ask for consent, or read body language. If someone isn't leaning forward or offering a hand or their body is turned slightly away, don't initiate contact! Wait for them.
I've noticed that when I tell friends that I have SPD and don't want them to touch me, they have 1 of 2 responses. 1) they respect it and refrain from touching me 2) they think I'm exaggerating and decide to make it a game and see how "uncomfortable" they can make me And the interesting thing is, if the person responds in way 1, they're usually a person I already trust and often don't mind them touching me, but if they respond in way 2, it's always someone whose touch triggers me. Ironic that the people who refuse to stop touching me are the primary people that actually need to stop.
Me:*Has a touch aversion*
Also Me: *Gets nauseous and almost actually throws up at the sound of a client rubbing her husband's back in our office*
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*someone hugs me*
Uh please stop...
-Why?
I don't like it.
-I don't care.
*pulls away*
Please don't touch me I don't feel comfortable with it.
-oh please you're just a germaphobe!
Actually stop I don't like it.
-I'm your father I can hug you if I want.
I'm asking nicely.
GIVE ME WHAT I WANT!
i don’t like people touching me. today my own mother touched my foot while i was sleeping and it grossed me out.
a looooong time ago at work a coworker hugged me and i visibly recoiled. she thought it was because she was a lesbian. but it wasn’t. that was the first time i talked about my sexuality in public, i hated that she thought i was a lesbophobe so i had to come out to her (and everyone else). it was like “no, i’m just a weirdo. a gay weirdo”. i was like 21.
lads my touch phobia has gotten so much easier to live with, i can cuddle my friends without feeling like my skin is crawling!!!!!