#tone shift

since my second to last post might’ve dampened people’s moods with the abrupt switch from my regular content, I figured a blog that’s not centric to rather mediocre scm memes and flavor foley could do good for the world. Just think of it as a normal blog where nothing crazy happens but a fanart or two may slip in. Bye bye

It went from:

Fun sunny adventure with wacky creatures, catching fish and curing plants and stopping a bad guy who's blue.

To

March 05, 2020

Hello, beautiful people of Tumblr!

There aren’t armies of you who follow me, but there are enough to make this general PSA. I’ve decided that I’m going to change the tone of my blog a little bit. For a few years now this blog has been dedicated to BDSM lifestyle, my own kink experiences and thoughts, and lots and lots of delicious porn. I had an experience recently that has made me want to change that a little bit.

A few days ago, one of my close friends started asking me a few questions about BDSM. She knows I am in a D/s relationship and that I’ve been exploring it for a while. I was so encouraged that she felt comfortable enough to come to me with her questions. I remember when I was first exploring my sexuality in kink and how few resources I had. I didn’t have anyone in my everyday life I felt like I could talk to about the things I wanted to. She was so grateful to have found someone to help her open doors she was scared to go through herself and excited to dip her toes into the water. Getting to talk to her and give her advice sparked some passion in me to want to bring accessible information about the BDSM/kink community to other curious people. And while I have been striving to do that on this blog, I think my range of focus has been pretty narrow.

My goal moving forward is to make my blog a more personal, all-encompassing space. I want to share many different aspects of my life with people and make myself more available to the everywoman. I want to be a platform where other women like myself can see that BDSM doesn’t have to be a big taboo subject, but something they can experience in their everyday life without judgment. I’m also sure I’m not the only one who can see how their own D/s relationships and experiences bleed into other areas of their life! On top of that main goal, I also have just been craving a more authentic, genuine, and personal outlet for myself.

I do want to note that I don’t think blogs that focus solely on BDSM thoughts, stories, advice, and photography are not valuable. In fact, for my journey it was invaluable. I am so grateful for the many resources and blogs I’ve stumbled across that have spared me a lot of hurt through my exploration with kink. I just see for myself a new outlook and space where I can share more easily with people that is less honed in on those already in the community and geared more towards people who are curious.

With that being said, I’m going to work to get my blog SFW approved. I know that I have a lot of followers that might be uninterested in that, and if you are one of them I kindly bid you adieu! It’s going to take me a few days to get to purging all my explicit content, so, if it is your prerogative, feel free to scour for porn while you still have the chance! I will still be posting the occasional cute panty pic and discussing sexy things my Daddy does, but you all are going to get to know a lot more of me. For those interested in this shift, welcome. I’m glad to have you and to continue this dialogue with you!

*Warning: Potentially disturbing images follow*

From Fate/Stay Night Heaven's Feel by Nasu and task-onna.