๐ They should be handling it differently. They shouldn't be doing this. They should be doing that. They should be better. I should be better. We're doing it wrong too. You can talk to people, you can give them your input, but believing that someone else is doing something wrong during this time is not serving you. If you focus on solutions, if you focus on helping, you're not going to get stuck in that loop of, they're doing it wrong and there's nothing I can do to change it, and feel completely helpless and out of control. Because a lot of times we're very convinced that we know what the right thing to do is and that there is a right and wrong and we always, we know what's right and they don't. It's important to be open to all possibilities and accepting of all understandings of everything and that this isn't just for this situation, but in life, really hearing people out. What is it that you believe? What is it that I believe? What are we disagreeing on? What could we agree on? Being open to other people's ideas and being open to how other people are doing stuff when you have no control over it, is a much better approach. There's no need for added drama and conflict when there is no way that that added drama and conflict creates a positive result. Ask yourself, why am I freaking out? Why am I afraid? Why am I not afraid? And notice the sentences in your mind and be at peace with what is. Don't use it as a way to feel superior to someone else because you will always end up feeling out of control. Use it as a way to feel and know yourself. Be who you are, what the truth is of who you are. Let other people be who they are.๐ Read more posts on this topic https://eleonoragendelman.com/blog ๐จ handmade by me ๐จ @lifecoachschool ๐๐ผ #thisisyoga #human #experience #bepartofthesolution #innerwork #right #wrong #choice #change #mindset #life https://www.instagram.com/p/B-RdENhj8l8/?igshid=lghqmnbh24ru
