#then please

Im not telling you I'm tired because i want your help, I'm telling you so you don't wonder why I don't (cant) do much.

If I have blocked you, then there really is no need to take it personally. This is my space, and I have every right to feel safe and secure in that space. If that means taking out whatever content you share for whatever reason, then so be it.

And I would certainly expect the same in return. Though it stings to realise that you've been blocked, even if you don't know why, the decent thing to do would be to accept it, and move on. These things happen, I am but a stranger on the internet.

What I DO NOT appreciate, is using another blog to breach the terms of my block to contact me. I have blocked you, that should be that. Please respect my boundaries and move on.

I stop understooding my value

Afraid that this may be the start

Of an untreated ache

So I write my words

In the colder summer

The heated snow

A shriveled up may

Hoping that one day

Underneath the first warm sun rays

My words reach the heart

Of an appreciating heart

That may be the start

Of a treated ache.

like, i get having a salt blog or an anti-xyz ship blog. that's chill; that's fine.

but when ur out here saying that u have "trauma" from other ppl hopping on ur post to respectfully refute u when u tagged a tag they follow, then... maybe take a step back and evaluate urself?

trauma is a real and genuine thing.

if u google the word "trauma," these are the results that pops up: "a deeply distressing or disturbing experience" or "emotional shock following a stressful event or a physical injury, which may be associated with physical shock and sometimes leads to long-term neurosis."

when u say that u have trauma from ppl respectfully disagreeing with u regarding being anti-xyz ship, ur invalidating all the other ppl who truly do have trauma that isn't regarding a stupid tumblr post.

yes, tumblr harassment and bullying is real. yes, anons on tumblr can be vicious and horrible.

but from what i could see regarding the situation, people were j respectfully disagreeing with u.

disagreeing w other people is a part of life! it's part of being on the internet! if it was THAT upsetting to u, maybe take a break and hop offline so that u can take some time to urself!

ur mental health is far more important than being anti-xyz ship or running a tumblr blog

but please, please, please do not use trauma to describe a respectful disagreement w others. trauma isn't a word to be used lightly. it isn't j a "gen z expression" - as someone who IS gen z, i do NOT use the word "trauma" to describe respectful interactions w strangers on the internet. please j be respectful and mindful of the words that u use.

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