Jack Antonoff released the news that "you're losing me" was recorded in 2021. Which means that song could not have been about Joe because they did not break up until late 2022. And Midnights had songs like "lavendar haze", "sweet nothing", etc...Joe Alwyn was a co-writer of Sweet nothing! Yet Swifties in comment sections of Instagram have been raging on Joe saying things like "so this relationship was in hell for over a year".

I mean...no! Taylor wrote the entire two albums which were entirely fictional. Is it so wild to think that the song "you're losing me" is fictional as well? Or am i the only one who is actually losing it!!

WHEN THAT PART OF CRUEL SUMMER HITS HARD @taylorswift I was even a bit teary-eyed AND SO SHOOK

Today I was woken with a brand new Taylor song, and I can't express how positive it all turned out to be because of the MAGIC it makes.

I've been heartbroken, for over 3 whole months, I've been feeling more lonely than ever and I swear I've never felt more hurt than this year when it comes to love. I've loved people who didn't want anything to do with me, and so on. Unrequited, rejected, humilliated, embarassed, you name it.

On this particular couple of weeks, I found out a friend I was in love with is actually in love, and dating, another friend of mine. And I've struggled so much to come to terms with it and opening my heart to my friends about it, but today, as I was walking my way to go to college I saw another friend of mine, and with Lover still playing in the back of my head I made a choice.

I could either go on about how no one is ever going to love me,

or simply deciding that maybe romantic love, such a holy and glorious thing it is, is something I'm not ready to have...yet.

I came to terms with what I guessed Taylor meant with "step into the daylight

and

let

it

go"

And suddenly I knew, that even if that kind of romantic love is still not there for me, no matter how hard I try to search for it, it doesn't mean that I don't get to be romantic about my life, or my friends or my family. It doesn't mean I'm loveless.

And in this tragic world of ours, it is such a blessing to see love blooming, even if it doesn't involve me in it. I'm witnessing a miracle. And I should never, ever, be upset because there's someone loving someone, even if that's not me.

So @taylorswift thank you again, for reminding all of us of the miracle it is to love someone and being loved. Thank you for putting romance in the headlines, for once. And thank you for teaching me that "the trick of holding on, is all that letting go"

With Love,

and another thing.

I saw people talk about Taylor's PR mishaps, specifically at the Grammys (announcing a new album - not unheard of tbh, "dragging" Lana up on the stage - probably in good faith, not appropriately addressing Celine - whatever). I think that it is very odd that very normal things and situations are being called PR mishaps. The fact that the way she may have looked or not looked long enough at another person is a PR mishap is somewhat insane to me.

I'm sorry but how is human behaviour a PR mishap. Essentially what I am hearing is "she did not behave in a way thar I would have, so she must be bad/whatever", but lbr no matter how many bytes and pixels Taylor Swift occupies in your little phone she is still not a robot. Meaning that surely she is bound to "misbehave" if the standards for good behaviour are pseudocode of accepted steps.

I personally don't think we should be talking about half these things. The Celine D thing is easily attributed to excitement and not thinking right - whatever, happens. Especially when you receive a record breaking award. The accusations that she dragged Lana up on that stage, I mean she did. But not with any ill will, and as a person who has friends this is likely what I would do if I were pitted against my friend and won. I would drag her up and be like - she worked on this too, she is amazing, she deserves all the recognition. Which brings us back to "ignoring Celine" (I swear poor woman has been on everyone's lips since Sunday)... in her acceptance speech, I presume. People seemed to take offence with Taylor praising Lana, whilst Celine Dion stood ignored to the side but, I mean - yeah. Lana was nominated in that very same category. Lana is who she collabed with. Lana is her good friend. That is why she mentioned her. Not as a fuck you to Celine Dion.

The album announcement is just people clinging onto anything to justify disliking her without having the balls to actually say - she annoys me, I think she's cringy and lame, and I do not like her. I think it is perfectly fine to not like Taylor Swift, you don't even need a reason. Dislike her bcs of vibes, bcs she has a private jet, because she does this and that and whatever... but ffs be consistent in your arguments. Taylor is hardly the first and likely not the last artist to announce a new album after winning an award (at Grammys), she is not the only celebrity who owns or used a private jet, she is not the only celebrity who has stayed painfully silent in the past when we needed her to speak up, so if you are going to point that out you best believe I hope you are pointing your finger at eveeeeryone else.

Eeeeeveryone.

Because truth be told, it makes sense that I as a fan of her and her music say "thats fucked, she should do better" but it is much much much weirder that a person who claims to dislike her takes so much time out of their day to point out every single "bad" (qm bcs not all of them are even sane complaints ngl) thing she has done while also not giving a flying fuck that other celebrities do some of these things better (worse?). This is what people mean when they say fan behaviour.

when I chose forgot-youexisted as a user I knew it had to be something about the transition between rep and Lover and INDEED ITS THE MOST WONDERFUL METAMORPHOSIS AND I LOVE IT SO MUCH BECAUSE ITS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED IN THIS PARTICULAR STAGE OF MY LIFE

it isn't love

it isn't hate

1. is in a movie

2. is in a tom hooper’s movie

3. is playing a cat

4. is playing a cat in a musical

just so i make it really clear

Like seriously, the fact of looking at someone who is absolutely gorgeous to you but you can't have them and how that can drive you crazy is so real. We have such a beautiful new era of Taylor where she is the most happy she's ever been but she's also growing up in the best way ever. For a lot of us Swifties, we're growing up with her and we understand her lyrics in comparison to our own lives. I'd be lying if I said I looked at a guy other than my boyfriend (who, don't get me wrong, is my world) and didn't think to myself "wow he's gorgeous! Wouldn't it be awesome to be with him?" I'm sure lots of people do it...because we're human. To quote Taylor herself, "We always want what we can't reach." And I couldn't stop thinking about that the first time I listened to the song. People are gonna look at this and say "oh no, Taylor isn't a good girl anymore, do you still like her?" And I know I'll hear from my family asking me how I feel about how she's changed and what I think of it ...and I will honestly tell them I will still love Taylor no matter what. I fell in love with her music back with her first album and to this day I don't believe there to be a bad song nor can I pick a favourite. Sure, there were some songs when I first listened to them that I was kinda on the fence for but they quickly grew on me and I love them now. As a songwriter myself, I find inspiration in the way she writes; whether it's All Too Well where she just wrote down a story that happened or Gorgeous, where she's being honest in a way most people would try to push down and out of mind, this is why Taylor Swift is my absolute favourite artist and will always be until the end of time. People can't seem to understand that she's human and she's gonna live life and learn from it just like everyone else. She's gonna love and do what us songwriters do: write about it. Every song I write is mostly about love and that doesn't make me a horrible person or musician, so why should it be that way with her? It makes me so happy that she's taking a chance with this album to show people what she thinks her of reputation and how she'll never let it get the better of her.

Thank you @taylorswift for the music you've given us and at the same time, the friend you gave me to listen to when everything has gone wrong and I need to know someone else has felt the same way. You're beautiful and amazing and everything I hope to be one day.❤️