If I don't want physical contact, even after you asked, respect it, I don't care if "it's just a hug", I don't want it, when I want physical contact, I will ask like, you know, a normal person.
Don't put yourself in front of me so I am not able to get out of the room and force me into an uncomfortable hug.
I don't care if you are family, long time friends, respect that I don't like physical contact.
Don't tell me that I am overreacting, because what to you is just a 'hug' to me is someone breaking my personal privacy, to me, a 'hug' is something I do when I 1)trust someone a lot (hard to do); 2)need comfort; 3)feel vulnerable and need assurance that everything is/will be okay. To me any for of physical contact is the same thing as giving someone a key to your house, people may use it against you and break your trust.
Don't tell me to stop talking about something just because 'it's annoying' how much I talk about
I find comfort on it and I want to share it with you, if I start talking about it, it means that I am comfortable sharing with you something I like
If you know me irl, you will notice that I have an hard time making friends, and will stay quiet most of the time, you will also know that I will start talking, a lot, its not because I want to show (and brag) about my knowledge about something, its because I am happy that you know something that I like.
Yes, I will bring up a lot of times things we spoke about a while back, no, its not because the thing we are talking about is boring, my mind just started thinking about stuff and found a way into that and thought of a point that I think I should share.
No, it's not my intention to ruin something for just because I annoyed you by talking to much about, it's a common ground between us, I am trying to stay in it so arguments don't start.
If you like the same thing as I do but have a different opinion on something, I won't just stop talking to you just because of that(very rarely I will stop just because of an opinion), I will want to know why you choose that side and not mine, I want to know what you saw that made you choose it, I want to understand the reason behind it .
Don't tell me to get out of my phone, I am probably seeing something that I find enjoyable.
Besides, isn't the older people who say to always do something you like?
Yes, I will the first to admit that I often spend social gatherings on my phone, I know, its rude. The reason why I do it may vary, I might be doing it because I am either feeling uncomfortable or nervous, we might be somewhere knew and I don't like it. My phone is my phone, I have some sort of control over it (also the reason why I prefer not to do new things out of nowhere) and I get less panicked when I am using, for me, its the same thing of giving a teddy bear (or something similar (doll, blanket, etc.)) to a child.
Don't tell me how to dress and give me clothes that I already informed you that I find uncomfortable.
Don't the adults tell kids to dress how they are comfortable? Why does it have to Change as we grow older? Yeah, I know sometimes people will have to dress in a certain way because of the occasion, everybody knows that, just because I don't dress like you or like I'm going to meet the Queen/Pope/President/Figure-similar-to-the-Pope-but-from-another-religion every time I go out, I don't like that style, I prefer more loose, warm type of clothing. Not everybody shares the same style, because if it was, everything would be the same.
If I follow you or don't leave you alone somewhere but I'm quiet, its because I'm nervous and I trust you more than others.
