#publicimage

i was thinking a lot about which aspects i should talk about first, then i remembered the moon squaring the rising sign. i’ve met a lot of people with this aspect in real life and they all have this look on their face, like their appearance shows something they’re hiding inside, and if you pay attention it’s always a surprise. for example, take someone with an aquarius rising and a scorpio moon, you would never guess what’s going on underneath all that detachment you see on the surface. if that person ever speaks up about how they feel inside and actually talks about their emotions, everyone would be shocked.

every time i want to figure out someone’s rising sign and i don’t know their exact birth time, i look at the whole chart and focus on what makes sense as the chart ruler. people don’t really talk enough about chart rulers even though they can tell you a lot about someone. i use it since to me it shows physical appearance more clearly than the rising sign alone. the rising sign gives the general energy, but the ascendant ruler points to more specific physical traits that help narrow things down. for example i met someone who gave off a leo vibe, but there was also something a bit intense, almost scorpio-like. when i looked at his chart, i noticed he had mercury in leo, and that made me think mercury was important, so he had to be either a gemini or virgo rising. based on his overall energy, virgo fit more. he was tall, had strong hair and presence, matching the leo influence through mercury. he also had his rising square pluto, which explained the intensity. it wasn’t obvious or in your face like a scorpio rising, but you could still sense it in a more subtle way. this is honestly the part i enjoy doing the most. i love astrology on god loll

what’s worse than meeting someone with a water moon that has hard aspects to jupiter or saturn honestly nothing. dealing with that level of sensitivity can be exhausting, the crying, the constant emotional overload, the victim mindset, it gets to a point where it feels suffocating. i’m not talking about a healthy moon or balanced water moon aspects at all, i mean the really tough ones. it’s hard to even explain how draining it can be, and if you want proof don’t ask me, ask anyone who’s actually had to deal with it. and the problem they be saying no i'm not sensitive while crying like wtf

I don’t know, people don’t understand how Lilith really has a huge impact in a man’s chart. Like, Lilith is just… actually, even in a woman’s chart, it has a lot of effect. If you’re looking at it in a woman’s chart, it represents the part of her that she doesn’t show to people, to the public. Not a lot of people know this about her. It’s something she’s ashamed of. Maybe some people know about it, but it’s like… her dark side. not like “I’m dangerous,” no, no. It’s more like something she’s ashamed of, something that if anyone knew, it would destabilize the image she presents to the world. In a man’s chart, it’s kind of the same, but it shows the type of woman he’s ashamed to admit he likes or wants. There’s something about it that makes him feel like if he says it out loud, people would judge him or think it doesn’t fit who he is. And this is really interesting, the topic of Lilith. I’m actually thinking about opening a paid reading just about Lilith in a man and woman’s chart.

there’s something about cancer people, especially when it’s tied to saturn or the 10th house. they love (especially women) they love to mother people, not just because they love them, but it’s also kind of a control thing. it’s like, “i want to care for you so i can control you.” they wouldn’t really think about it consciously, it just comes together naturally. if i care for you, then you should listen to me, because i know what’s better for you than you do. it’s a mothering-authority type of dynamic. people with this placement often mix care and control in one, and there’s a thin line between genuinely caring and trapping someone in an emotional space.for example, imagine them as parents(their worst state if not mature enough)but even just in general, they can be scared for the people they love. they might not let someone go out for days just because they’re worried. it’s like, “do what i want,” not even really about the other person, it’s about controlling the situation for their emotional safety . even with older people or their own parents, they can feel like something bad might happen, so they need to control it before it slips away. it’s this kind of thing. and let’s not even start on the fear of abandonment. we won’t get into that.

(synastry) you would never, if you were a girl, want to meet another girl and make her your friend when her moon falls in your 10th house. never. never. you will never really enjoy that friendship. i’m saying this again and again just to make it clear that it’s going to be the worst. this is the kind of person who will copy you from head to toe, your tone, the way you speak, the way you feel, the way you enjoy yourself, the way you show up in public. they will copy the shit out of you. the way you talk, your hair, if you do something, they will do it too. it gets dangerous because at some point it becomes unconscious. it goes into the subconscious and they start doing it like crazy. it’s honestly insane.and i can tell you, you would feel like you’re being harassed in your own energy, in your own space, in your own authority, especially if you have a 10th house stellium. you would never enjoy it. never. it feels like your public image is being taken from you. she takes everything you show to other people and makes it her own.

(synastry) if a man has his moon in your fourth house, you are similar to his mom. you remind him of her, a lot. he feels safe with you because you have certain traits that remind him of her.